Ruined orgasms

[smiller]

Hello all,

ruined orgasms is a very cruel thing in my opinion. You are not enjoying the cumming properly. Especially cruel after some days of denial. I can only have one when being told, otherwise the will for a full release is too big. What do you think is the most humiliating, most frustrating way to have an ruined orgasms.

Some possibilies came to my mind

1) Wearing a chastity belt. And holding a vibrator on it until the point of cumming, then stopping immediatly. The cock doesn't have the chance to grow.

2) Taping the cock completly when being limb. Then doing the same. There is even less place to get errect. the cum will be somewhere in the tape-cock-package or even kept inside

3) Squishing the balls very hard without any sensation on the cock. End even going on withe the squeezing ofter the orgasms. The pleasure will turn into pain.

4) When coming without expecting it and trying to hold back but without success

I know that are some cruel and evil ideas. But they just came into my mind.

[Quazwierdcev283]

I've thought about the ball squishing to get cum out, does that really work? I've tried it and it didn't work for me, is it possible that I was squeezing hard enough? I'm still bdsm/tease curious.

[smiller]

I've thought about the ball squishing to get cum out, does that really work? I've tried it and it didn't work for me, is it possible that I was squeezing hard enough? I'm still bdsm/tease curious.

When I am very horny without release for some days and also with my cock already hard. It is possible for me. But I think everybody is different concerning that.

[Lindsey]

Some interesting ideas there. But if we're being honest, you can't ever truly inflict maximum discomfort on yourself willfully. There are likely some clever ways you can think up getting around that. But I think you're probably just as curious about the psychological aspect of having an orgasm ruined for you, and that can only happen when you're being given an orgasm by someone cruel enough to make you think you're going to have a normal orgasm right up until the moment you cum.

That, or if she leaves some level of uncertainty in your head while she's building it up. Would that make you a bit more apprehensive? Make you a little more attentive? Make you appreciate the sensations of pleasure leading up to it a bit more?

Personally, I like forcing a guy to make a decision between the lesser of 2 evils, maybe one of them being having his orgasm ruined. I like finding out what he wants, and building the desire for it up until it's more and more intense. It's not difficult. In fact, even suggesting something will put the desire for it in his head. What about being allowed to stroke himself while he cums on my chest...while I have my bra straps slipped off my shoulders, and the cups of my bra pulled down just low enough that he can almost see my nipples? While i'm kneeling down in front of him, looking up attentively, nodding my head up and down and saying, "mhmm...now? Do you want to cum on me now?" when I see he's about to cum. I might catch him looking over my shoulder to catch a glimpse of my back, or the waistband of my panties hugging my lower back right above my butt. I might catch him fighting with himself to decide if he should be looking in my eyes while he shoots his semen on my smooth skin, or looking at my chest...seeing as i've made it the object of his desire and given him permission to cum on it. Maybe when he's done, i'd pull my bra down the rest of the way, take his shaft in my hand, and rub him back and forth across my breasts to clean up the cum so I can lick it off his shaft and taste him in my mouth while I reach down and touch myself a little.

Is that a decent example? You don't even know what my chest looks like and you're fantasizing about cumming on me right now, aren't you? ;) What if I told you that i'd let you cum now...but there was a condition to it? What if after letting you get right to the edge of having an orgasm all over my breasts, I told you that you had to choose between me tying your hands behind your back and using *my* hands to completely ruin that orgasm while you watched your semen ooze all over me...or having me leave the room completely and letting you finish yourself off however you wanted once I was gone?

Would you settle for an orgasm that felt fantastic while you had the mere thought of cumming on me in your head? Or would you let me put you through utter physical and sexual torment so you could cum on me...so you could see the expression on my face when your cum oozed out of your cock and soaked my smooth skin...so you could see me rub the head of your cock all over my chest and lick it clean once it was limp and drained of every little bit of sexual tension I built up...all let out in an anti-climactic, tortuous, jaw-grinding few moments of frustration? Think about how good my hands would feel wrapped around your cock, relentlessly stroking you, right up until the moment when you started twitching and I knew you were about to cum. I'd let go completely, put my hands at my sides calmly, push my body nice and close to you (being careful not to let you rub your cock against me) and make you have that orgasm while feeling your cock completely depraved of pleasure at the very moment you want it most. How unsatisfying. ;)


Maybe right now you're thinking about finding a picture of a nice pretty girl you're attracted to...a picture of her chest. Maybe it might be fun to put yourself through having to make a decision like that. Do you think you'd have the willpower to let go completely at exactly the moment someone vicious like me would? ;)

-L

[slave alexander]

Ooooh wow hi Lindsey !

mmm plenty of food for thought there, i hope you have had a very nice summer! i love Your new avatar and glimpsing your delightful mind is a treat thanks

*thinking so many naughty things mmm * hope neither of you mind me butting in

[parr]

indeed, glad to see you can still make everyone excessively horny with very little effort,


good to see you back on the forums too, will we be seeing you in chat at some point?

parr

[wonderbo]

What if after letting you get right to the edge of having an orgasm all over my breasts, I told you that you had to choose between me tying your hands behind your back and using *my* hands to completely ruin that orgasm while you watched your semen ooze all over me...or having me leave the room completely and letting you finish yourself off however you wanted once I was gone?

@Lindsey - You have a beautiful mind.

[Lindsey]

Ooooh wow hi Lindsey !

mmm plenty of food for thought there, i hope you have had a very nice summer! i love Your new avatar and glimpsing your delightful mind is a treat thanks

*thinking so many naughty things mmm * hope neither of you mind me butting in

Summer is always nice. It's beach season, and racing season...2 of my favorite things. ;) And no worries from me...i'm an attention wh.....uhhh, a person that doesn't mind attention. ;)

indeed, glad to see you can still make everyone excessively horny with very little effort,

good to see you back on the forums too, will we be seeing you in chat at some point?

parr

I keep my eye on the forums. Things around here aren't so in line with my approach to sex anymore, so my contributions are limited. But i'm here sporadically to rest my ear on the beat of the drum so I know when things happen to fall in time with my modus operandi. ;)

I peek in chat, but noone seems to be around there when I am.

@Lindsey - You have a beautiful mind.

I'm sure i'd be able to say the same for you had I read a contribution from you in this thread.


In fact, maybe that's not a bad idea. Let's not get off topic from the intent of the original post. Do any of you have an idea to contribute for him? It may catalyze myself or some of the other ladies to comment on your ideas. ;)

-L

[slave alexander]

Ooooh wow hi Lindsey !

mmm plenty of food for thought there, i hope you have had a very nice summer! i love Your new avatar and glimpsing your delightful mind is a treat thanks

*thinking so many naughty things mmm * hope neither of you mind me butting in

Summer is always nice. It's beach season, and racing season...2 of my favorite things. ;) And no worries from me...i'm an attention wh.....uhhh, a person that doesn't mind attention. ;)


... Do any of you have an idea to contribute for him? It may catalyze myself or some of the other ladies to comment on your ideas. ;)

-L

*thinks* ooh Lindsey on the beach possibly listening to races glad You have been catching up with Your fav things sounds great, as i said before mm v nice to see you again

I'm sure there are many other willing customers out there just waiting to pay You some more attention too

In terms of ideas i have heard that applying salt at the moment of ejaculation can be a very sharp way to ruin ones orgasm, you can regulate the amount in order to feel a greater or lesser burn too

[brian]

wow lindsey...just reading this makes me dying to cum

I sent you a pm for another reason, hope you don't mind

PS: I'd LOVE your contribution here: http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic ... 2&start=45



B2T:

I once did a tease here where you had to orgasm by slapping your dick with a belt. I guess that counts as ruined...forgot what it was called now

[smiller]

Would you settle for an orgasm that felt fantastic while you had the mere thought of cumming on me in your head? Or would you let me put you through utter physical and sexual torment so you could cum on me...
-L

wow, what an evil question. I think I would definitely let you tie my hands and give my body to your vicious hands.

Great ideas. Thanks so sharing such evil twists.

[smiller]

It is probably most evil when expecting a great orgasms and than suprisingly having an unexpected end. Never was able to get into such a situation.

I love your story Miss Lindsey. You would enjoy this situation I am sure.

Ruining an orgams is really frustrating. Any more experiences to share from someone arround here?

[wonderbo]

@Lindsey - You have a beautiful mind.

I'm sure i'd be able to say the same for you had I read a contribution from you in this thread.


In fact, maybe that's not a bad idea. Let's not get off topic from the intent of the original post. Do any of you have an idea to contribute for him? It may catalyze myself or some of the other ladies to comment on your ideas. ;)

-L

Point received.


I can say I've only had a ruined orgasm on purpose once. It took an incredible amount of discipline to follow-through with it too. The idea of a ruined orgasm is a turn on to me, but when it comes right down to it at the moment of truth, I have generally opted to either completely stop and deny myself...or go ahead and go through with it completely.

[Makarov]

Lindsey, I would choose the ruined orgasm. Didn't really have to think about that one, and I'm sure by that point thinking wouldn't have been such an option.

Smiller, here's some ideas for frustrating, humiliating ruined orgasms.

1. A ruined orgasm with your pants on while still expecting to do stuff in public. Even if you wear dark jeans, you'll know it's there and there'll also be the smell.

2. A ruined orgasm that's also contorted into a facial.

3. A promised full orgasm. It's on the calender. A month in advance. She reminds you about it every single day for a month. Every time she takes you to the edge she says, "Nope! Still got fifteen days for your glorious orgasm!" Then the day arrives. She ties you up and works up your lust from mere horniness to cock drooling. And then, as she gets you closer to climax, she pretends to get distracted by something and your orgasm is ruined.

[slave alexander]

What if after letting you get right to the edge of having an orgasm all over my breasts, I told you that you had to choose between me tying your hands behind your back and using *my* hands to completely ruin that orgasm while you watched your semen ooze all over me...or having me leave the room completely and letting you finish yourself off however you wanted once I was gone? ;)

-L

ooooh i forgot to say before that there is no way on earth i would have you leave the room Lindsey ! I guess it is a lot easier in theory but hmmmmm it is nice to consider ! i am soo glad i came back to re read your dilemma for Smiller i mean Your help

*imagining that ooze and the frustration & mess mmm oh i wander who would be cleaning that up and how...*