New start

[alwaysdenied]

Hi milovanians. I have never posted anything here before. I have many time read and the stories and teases. So Much to the point that I have done some research on the topic of orgasm denail. I have found it to be so fascinating. That after months. I have finally gotten up the nerve to talk to my wife about it. Tonight it a new start for me and my wife perhaps. Or maybe we will find out it's not for us. But what ever it is. I sure think it is gonna be so much fun.

Any tips? advice that I might need?

[SexualChoc]

Once again I am ofering what I always do
now this works for me (and may or may not for you)

Do NOT ask your wife to be her subbie
However she should know you do porn.
Hopefully your relationship is open enough for that (if it's not ignore a lot and PM me)
Anyway.

I recomend Dening yourself
And treating her like a special lady
clean, cook, ect (this may not be your style)
OR Listen to her,
Certianly Please her sexually give her lot's of Oral
but do not ask for any sex! (You may even beg her, "I'm fine hun" and deny yourself)
Try to resist orgasm if SHE wants sex with you.
Ask to wait, stuff like that
ACT like she is in charge!
Usually notice results in three weeks or less.

I always try to treat my wife well. flowers, ect
And now She is my mistress and holds my key so it did work for me.
This is Only a suggestion! Luck!

[Nezhul]

Jrgasm denial and submission is not the same. I mean yes, when you are deniying orgasm with your wife you put her above yourself, but that doesn't meen he'd like to make her his mistress. As for my opinion most women like to play passive role in the relationship. That doesn't mean they don't need attention, but they need attention from a strong man, not attention from weak slave, though the forms of this may be practically the same.
I'd recomend playing ds relationship carefully, for your wife may not fully understand that your submission bugs her. And then it can go to stress, if, as a women, she needs to be weak in front of you, not the opposite.

Off course there is a certain ammount of dominant women, but not much. All I want to say, is involve your wife to dominate you, only if she's anxious about it. If she's doing that for you, not for herself, she might accumulate quite a stress in some time.
Most women want to be protected and guyded by their men, and it's the opposite of dominating them. Just be very very carefull, because the emotional side of a women is very sencitive, and you both may overdo it, even if she's accepted your kink with a smile.