No Whining
If you'd like to leave feedback, great. If you'd like to suggest how people can do better, that's fine, but be encouraging, not whiny or ranting.
If, hypothetically, you think there are too many teases about nose-picking in the world, then obviously the world disagrees with you. That's not the world's fault. It's not like Milovana artificially inflates the virtues of noses. Your whining doesn't help you nor the site.
If you are ok with nose picking but are annoyed because they keep on describing the color wrong: Go ahead, leave feedback, but before you hit send, check your tone. Ask yourself "Do I sound superior? Will the author be more hesitant to post another tease? Am I shaming anyone intentionally?"
If you want more teases about your particular toe jam kink, thank the authors that write about toe jam, rate the teases that touch your toe jam fetish, maybe write some teases about toe jam. But again, don't complain as if you can cast negative energy out there an get a positive result. It would be better to ask yourself or, failing that, the forum: "What can I do to get more and better toe jam teases?"
Summarizing:
- Offering to help is positive behavior.
- Making a tease, even one that sucks, is positive behavior.
- Attempting to understand is great!
- Your perceived lack of toe jam teases is not a problem that's going to be solved by whining.
- Your perceived crowding of nose-picking teases is not a problem that's going to be solved by whining.
- Your perceived lack of nose-picking quality is not a problem that's going to be solved by your whining.
- Whining that others aren't using their spare time for your benefit makes you look especially sad.
Please leave comments about ways you think this could be reworded. I'm hoping that this is either made sticky, or is somehow copied into some larger body of forum etiquette FAQ.
