Need Help With Orgasm Denial

[Sunset]

Hi Fellow Milovanians,

For years, I've been wanting to get into orgasm denial, but find it very hard to discipline myself to it. Also due to my work stress load, I find it hard to compromise my concentration at work as a result orgasm denial, thus, making me rather hesitant to deny myself. Sometimes, I even just orgasm myself to de-stress!

Of course, I usually go for 3~4 days without orgasm provided there isn't teasing activities like edging, stroking, etc.

However, I am a BIG fan of teasing and want myself teased too. So, orgasm denial without these would mean almost nothing to me. But I have ever thought of this: how about I receive orgasm denial gradually (with the teasing activities of course), starting with perhaps 1 day between orgasms, till a target duration of as long as 3~4 days between each?

Would anyone help me on this (on a personal level)?

~Sunset~

[SexualChoc]

Hmm Most of my tease series are for 4 or more days.

First does your Job involve you, or other peoples lives?
Yours- Hazard work such as chemicals, construction
Others_ Nurse, Doctor,

If so be vaery careful we want you to do your job well!

I want you to try "You'll want More"
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=5911
on Day one of your denial
Then
You'll want more2
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=6625
Now after two day
it's up to you to decide if you can handle more intense teasing on day 3.

If the You'll want more is to 'tame' for you
Try some serious Subby training (it can last 8 days)
with training days 2
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=7822

Hope that helps, Maybe with more details others can help too.
Yu may also want to think about investing in a Chastitiy device.

[Sunset]

Hmm Most of my tease series are for 4 or more days.

First does your Job involve you, or other peoples lives?
Yours- Hazard work such as chemicals, construction
Others_ Nurse, Doctor,

If so be vaery careful we want you to do your job well!

I want you to try "You'll want More"
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=5911
on Day one of your denial
Then
You'll want more2
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=6625
Now after two day
it's up to you to decide if you can handle more intense teasing on day 3.

If the You'll want more is to 'tame' for you
Try some serious Subby training (it can last 8 days)
with training days 2
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=7822

Hope that helps, Maybe with more details others can help too.
Yu may also want to think about investing in a Chastitiy device.

Thanks for the fast response! However, I noticed your teases involved quite a bit of foreskin.. which i don't have =( as I am female... Also, in more detail, I'm looking for a training schedule that perhaps does 2 or 3 days of orgasm denial with teasing activities..

Also, my job does not risk human lives.

Lastly, fellow Milovanians, please leave your input! Anything! I don't bite =( I saw like 400+ views but only 1 reply.. Was something not detailed enough? Please ask!! ><

~Sunset~

[cumhardy]

how about I receive orgasm denial gradually (with the teasing activities of course), starting with perhaps 1 day between orgasms, till a target duration of as long as 3~4 days between each?

Haven't you answered your own question with this sentence?
Im not sure what else you need except for will power.

Maybe set yourself a punishment for each time you cum. Not sure what, pick something you like (a favourite TV show, reading a book etc..) and deny yourself that thing for 24 hours after every orgasm.

Or maybe pay for your orgasms. Not to a domme, but give it to charity. Set yourself an amount you can afford, but will be painful to give away every day. Say its $20, if you cum on day 1 you have to give $20 to to charity. if you hold it and cum on day 2 instead, then you only pay $17....$14 if you last 3 days etc etc, if you last a full 7 days you don't have to pay anything.

I dunno, those are probably dumb ideas but you just need some incentive.

[Sunset]

how about I receive orgasm denial gradually (with the teasing activities of course), starting with perhaps 1 day between orgasms, till a target duration of as long as 3~4 days between each?

Haven't you answered your own question with this sentence?
Im not sure what else you need except for will power.

Maybe set yourself a punishment for each time you cum. Not sure what, pick something you like (a favourite TV show, reading a book etc..) and deny yourself that thing for 24 hours after every orgasm.

Or maybe pay for your orgasms. Not to a domme, but give it to charity. Set yourself an amount you can afford, but will be painful to give away every day. Say its $20, if you cum on day 1 you have to give $20 to to charity. if you hold it and cum on day 2 instead, then you only pay $17....$14 if you last 3 days etc etc, if you last a full 7 days you don't have to pay anything.

I dunno, those are probably dumb ideas but you just need some incentive.

Thanks for replying What I am looking for is someone to assign teasing tasks to do everyday, to make my denial period more exciting.. I can already make it for a few days without cumming, however, that is without any teasing. I wish to achieve being able to refrain from orgasm for a few days (2-3) with teasing tasks.. However, though progressive training.

I'm not in favour of setting my own teasing tasks for myself though..

Once again, thanks for the reply!

~Sunset~

[lagavulin_nl]

I just did 3 weeks all by myself, all through will power. I've edged a lot of times every day and it was quite difficult, but my will got me there.
Don't really have tips. So this is a reply you can't use lol.

[SexualChoc]

Thanks for the fast response! However, I noticed your teases involved quite a bit of foreskin.. which i don't have =( as I am circumsized... Also, in more detail, I'm looking for a training schedule that perhaps does 2 or 3 days of orgasm denial with teasing activities..

One thing interesting to note is that my stroking style, in contrast with most other guys, is using only 2 fingers on the underside of my head, rubbing up and down in lengths of 2-5cm. I almost never use lube as I couldn't find one that doesn't have an awful feeling on my cock (it makes it numb and i lose my mood). Thus, I do it dry until i have pre-cum, then use that as lube.. Haha. Natural seems good for me.
~Sunset

Hmmm
Looks like your asking for somone to dominate you?
I really didn't think my teases were specific, I don't think any of mine involve foreskin, as I also don't have any and I almost always test my own teases, or publish something I did a while ago.

So let seee, hmm
Try stroker's Challenge just stroke however you like
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showflash.php?id=4218
Now if you do NOT do this tease then (1) I am not giving you any suggestions.
and (2) You should punish yourself with a good spanking- say 50 smacks on each cheek And 10 ball smacks
Since this post will probably faid into the backround PM me when you have compeleted Either your task
or your punishment!