Just some quick advice.

[Ying]

Hey there, long time lurker, first time poster. Just needed some advice on a matter. I'm looking at trying some anal play with some toys I got recently. Since this is the first time I'm going to be doing this, I'm just worried about any side effects of doing this. Will there be any lasting effects to...that area, if you know what I mean . Any other advice to do with this subject is also appriciated.

Cheers :P.

[cumhardy]

give us some more information: how big are the toys, what lube are you using, how you had things up your ass before?

I would advise you to start small, and work your way up. use loads of lube and be gentle, sometimes if you are too rough it can bleed a bit, but Ive had tons of things up my ass in the past and never had any side-effects.

[SexualChoc]

There can be some fairly serious side effects even with dildo with tearing
You really don't want bleeding so I agree with Cumhardy start small.

[1azzu1]

watch for things with sharp edges... like apple boats (did that once... was a kind of yellow when it went in and red like a tomato when it came out)

[les]

If it hurts stop go smaller.
things will fit given gentle progression.
A finger first

[rbtheservant]

Ying,


"Side effects of doing this. Will there be any lasting effects to...that area?" The answer is YES! Your ass will never be the same, it will always be open and your shit will fall right out, you will have to wear diapers for the rest of your life...OH!...and you will turn gay. JUST TEASING

It has pretty much all been said, but begin slowly and SMALL, be sure to relax. If you get tense or freaked out, back off and try again, and for health sake USE PLENTY OF WATER BASED LUBE The ass is not self lubricating and believe me you do not want to tear anything down there. Take it very easy at first and get used to the wonderful sensation. Once you are comfortable and familiar with the feeling of something up your ass, you can then move on to bigger and better toys and stronger play. Just remember to keep a level head and have fun with it. For the record, many straight men are really turned on and enjoy prostate play, this does not make one bisexual or homosexual, not that there is anything wrong with that if it is your thing. I will save my Social Acceptance or Lack Thereof for another forum.

Enjoy and be safe,