Thinking About Buying a Chastity Device

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Hello there.

I am completely new to this forum and I was looking for some advice from individuals who are in the know.

I have been considering buying a chastity device -something along the lines of the CB6000- basically because I would like to experiment a bit with increasing my masturbatory pleasure by restricting the frequency of my ejaculations.

(Right now, I masturbate at least twice a day, and I'm thinking that I might achieve a level of horniness I've almost never known if I lock myself up and deny myself for, oh about a week or so.)

Here are my questions:

1. If I go without cumming for a week, will it likely make my masturbation more pleasurable?

2. I've heard very mixed reviews about chastity devices like the CB6000. Some people say it's an excellent device for the money, and well worth the purchase price. Others talk about it pinching uncomfortably, splitting in two, and -worst of all- being constructed in such a way -especially regarding the ring that encircles the scrotum- that it is impossible to fit properly at all. (I am only dipping my toe into this particular stream....I'm not ready to get a Prince Albert piercing -gasp- or fly to Germany to be fitted with a made-to-measure chastity device costing several thousand dollars.)

3. My dick is of average length, but is above average in girth...my wife describes it as "fat and thick." I am somewhat overweight as well and fear that one of these devices just won't fit me. (I don't want to spend upwards of $150.00 for something that I can literally not fit around my dick and balls, only to wind up delegating the damn thing to the status of paperweight or conversation piece sitting on a living room endtable.)

I am a bit concerned about the tightness of the fit of such a device and related health issues. (I have type two diabetes, and one of the concerns of my family doctor is with circulation and blood flow to the extremities....The last thing on earth I need is a sex toy that exacerbates my health issues!)

Some of you may postulate: "Why not just refrain from masturbating for a week and see how that feels?"
-The answer to that question is that I have tried, but I'm so horny after two or three days that I have never been able to resist the urge to jerk-off. (I've never gone a week without cumming since I was twelve and I had my first orgasm!)

I think it might feel amazing to go without an orgasm for a week and then masturbate to orgasm. -I just can't ever see myself doing this without the 'assistance' of a chastity device.

Do any of you have personal experiences with orgasm denial? Chastity devices? The CB 6000?

I welcome your comments, advice, and insights.

-Peckersnot :-/
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Re: Thinking About Buying a Chastity Device

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Thinks to consider. A device like the cb6000 is just a toy. Those devices are not secure and everyone can easy pullout and stick their cock in it again afterwards. A good jingle for the cb6000 would be "cheating included".
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Thank you for your feedback.

First of all, I would only buy a device like the CB6000 from the manufacturer -to ensure I'm not getting some inferior-quality knock-off.

Secondly, when I said I'd "lock myself up" I was not really being accurate. (What I meant to say is that I would get my wife to hold the key and to promise not to let me out of the device for a week.)

-I agree that "holding my own key" would be pointless....After two days, or probably sooner, I'd just remove the device and start whacking off.

If properly fitted, are these devices really secure? Or is the comment made here about these devices being "only toys" that anyone can get out of, valid?

(I'm thinking that the devices must be made to accomodate most men -otherwise they wouldn't be a viable company selling a successful product at this point.)

The other issue here that I haven't even addressed is the whole dynamic of having my wife hold the key to a chastity device.

She's rather submissive by nature, and is actually turned off by submissive men. (She gets turned on by a reasonably dominant "take charge" kind of guy.) -So I'm not sure what she would get out of this experience.

I like variety in my sexual fantasy, but I certainly do not want to be submissive all the time in the bedroom -or outside of it.

I guess what I'm afraid of here is the idea of getting my wife to lock me up over the short term just to experiment with my masturbatory and ejaculatory pleasure...and then winding up six months from now as a virtual house slave, dressed in a French Maid's uniform, doing the dishes and scrubbing the floors while my wife pounds me in the ass with a strap-on! LMAO

Some of the stories I've read about men in chastity finally being allowed to ejaculate after being denied make the experience sound almost transcendental. -I wonder how truthful those stories are, or if this is largely exaggerated as fantasy.

I'm thinking that fantasizing about being locked up in chastity might be like fantasizing about having a threesome: in other words, far better as a dream than these things usually work out in reality.

Again, I welcome any comments or feedback that anyone here might care to provide.
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I have a couple more questions for you, abraves4410:

1. There's no way that I would need "The Curve" in terms of length. And my girth doesn't really manifest itself until I get hard. (I'm a "grower" not a "shower.") Is there any difference -that you are aware of-between the size of the CB3000 and the CB 6000? Or is it just a matter of design and functionality. (The advertising suggests that the CB 6000 is more comfortable, easier to assemble and disassemble...but, what do I know? -I'm completely inexperienced and therefore ignorant on the whole subject.)

2. Is a device like the CB 3000 or 6000 wide enough to allow me to get an erection and remain locked up? (I've read posts on the net, the reliability of which is anyone's guess, from guys claiming that they were doubled over in pain after getting a nocturnal erection and being painfully constricted by their chastity device.)

3. How long have you been wearing the CB 3000? Can you wear it comfortably for days at a time? Can you sit in it comfortably? Wear it under clothes? Exercise with it on?

4. How frequently are you ejaculating as a result of using this device?

5. What does it feel like to be unable to masturbate and ejaculate at will?

6. How pleasurable is the ejaculation when it finally occurs?

Thanks for your help.

-Peckersnot
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No CB is really secure. I say it again, you can easy pull out of such an device and I dont believe anyone who tells me that he isnt able to pull out of it. The whole device is an construction error. Thats why things like the ROI or the KSD-G2/G3 etc. exist, but those things still dont make it impossible to pull out. They only make it impossible to get back in again afterwards. Also its not very comfortable and I am not sure about the long term health effects of such devices, cause they need to be really tight if they really want to work. Everyone serious with chastity and every Mistress who wants to be 100% sure that her little slave doesnt cheat gets a piercing to secure those chastity cages. I had an piercing aswell, but it wasnt very comfy.

There are really only 2 options right now. First you buy a cage/tube device like the cb6000 and secure it with either a waist band or a piercing to prevent cheating or second buy a full and real chastity belt.

I would start with the first option, cause a real full chastity belt costs a lot of money. Up to 1000$ for a good one. Also before you pay 150$ for a cb6000 and then realize after 2 weeks that you can easy get your cock out, jerk off and stick it back in again and that this platic thing is also hard to clean and it might even burst, I would suggest that you buy a stainless steel version. It cannot burst and its easy cleanable and it feels so much better than some cheap plastic between your legs. You still have the pullout problem so you either need to secure it with a piercing or a waist belt but hey well you have the same prob with a cb6000 so its not a con.

Dont get me wrong I am not a CB-hater or something. I started with a cb3000 aswell and its cause of that company that chastity belts are available now for us and a lot Ladies enjoy to hold those little keys, but its really more or less version 1 of a chastity belt and why would you buy version 1 when version 10 is already out there for you?
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Oh and I am a grower too. You should messure the length when your soft and use that to decide what kind of chastity belt you need. Trust me, the right size for you is the size when your soft and not when your hard and about question 5, well you know he can pull out aswell, thats why he likes his cb3000 so much, cause he knows he can cheat without leaving any traces.

Hell you can even masturbate with a cb3000 on. Just pull the cage forth and back, enough friction inside to make you cum.
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You always have to be careful about reading chastity belt reviews because perfomance is massively related to your own cock and ball size. Thats why there is always such a confusing difference of opinion.

So before you take too much notice of my opinion you should know that I have a long, fairly thick penis and tight ball sac - that combination is pretty much a disaster for chastity device use.

I have tried the CB 3000 and Curve. CB3000 was too short and my foreskin usually poked out the end causing painful rubbing of delicate skin against sharp, tough plastic. The Curve is just right for size but far too big and bulky for normal use. Will try the Exobelt Extreme one day which seems to be good for the thicker penis.

Security was not a problem for me. Perhaps I could have withdrawn if I really tried but I was hardly locked up against my will and it was certainly not so easy to pull out with out any effort.

When you are finally released you might find that the penis takes longer than you expect to get hard, but when hard it is easily stimulated to orgasm. In fact your wife might not be too happy, but you do recover quicker than usual and can satisfy her a bit longer after that...
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I would like to ask the same question
About a chastity device.

What about the birdlock?
www.birdlocked.com/male_chastity_device ... astity.asp

I was thinking the soft plastic would be more comfortable than hard
metal or hard plastic. has anyone worn both CB and Bird?
I finnally have gather up enough cash to get ONE (not 2) so I also want the right one.

Oh and I wanted to ask about this 'addition' to a chastitiy device that
helps "train your slave"
http://www.dreamloverlabs.com/

Has anyone tried it?
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Thanks for the information.

As I said before, my dick is only average in length, but actually quite girthy.

I have no idea really how to describe my ballsack. Now that it's getting near the beginning of summer, it's certainly hanging looser than it normally would.

As far as pleasing my wife goes, I am a chronic masturbator who can edge himself over and over for hours. (I have trained myself, inadvertently, to have pretty incredible stamina.)

Sometimes my wife will say, "I can't come again, and I'm getting sore, will you please come inside me now?" (At this point, I usually give her a good pounding, and bring her to one more orgasm...just to prove that she was wrong!)

I really don't know if this whole chastity device thing is for me.

I've certainly fantasized about it.

But fantasy and reality are not the same thing.
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buy a good used steel chastity cage, you can get them for 50$ and cause its stainless steel it means you can put it in cooking water for half an hour. You wont regret it and not much money invested to try the chastity thing out.
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Thanks for the feedback, RoniDev.

Could you give me the name of a brand for a steel chastity device? Or direct me to a website that would feature such a product?

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I've got a nice steel chastity device I'm looking to sell.
Its fun but I'm just not into it anymore.
If you'd like, send me a Private Message on here and we can talk more.
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EWwww
Used chastity device? Yick! :unsure:

I would apperiate the name of the device also
Still want toknow about Birddock though

For me Security is not an issue
I don't think I'll try getting out, but then again I have not been locked up, ever :lol:

Oh by the way perkershot
I am not trying to "hijack" your post but I am, also interested !!

Am looking seriously at buying a Birdy but
I would appreciate input.
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The silicon devices sound good but other posters on this site and elsewhere have said that the silicon gets a bit sticky on skin contact.
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SexualChoc wrote:EWwww
Used chastity device? Yick! :unsure:
Whats yick on a used chastity device? I would agree with you if it would be a cb one, cause those you will never get clean again and after some time you have all that dirt inside the joint, but a steel chastity device? You could clean it the same way a doc cleans their scalpel and that will be even cleaner than a brand new cb one.

About the question where to find them. Well check the usual chastity websites and boards on the net like hmmm.... chastitymansion as an example. Also ebay might be a good place.
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