Indy ... in chastity

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Re: Indy ... in chastity

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Hah, you should add a voting for that ;].

I'd say wear it until it starts to become uncomfortable or starts cutting your skin or until other nasty side-effects occur. Anyways.. If no side-effects occur you will have to wear it until eternity :yes:

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Indigo wrote:
Also, I had failed to mention, I will *not* be holding my own keys ...
Care to share who's the "lucky" one ;] ?
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Well, if you're not holding the keys, then does it really matter how long YOU think is long enough? ;-)
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ah :). Sounds like fun then.

I did also rethink my statement.
I think you don't have to wear it for a whole eternity, it's okay if it just feels like one : D.

How about a weekend to start with ;).

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Oh all right.....Poo poo on my fun why don't cha! :lol:

Seriously, I'd say at least a full day, maybe two should give you a pretty good idea.
A hour definately isn't long enough to get the full "effect" of wearing one of those things.
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You gotta at least wear it long enough to experience the mental torture of wanting out, but knowing you can't get out. Otherwise, why bother?
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Indigo wrote:
green wrote:ah :). Sounds like fun then.

I did also rethink my statement.
I think you don't have to wear it for a whole eternity, it's okay if it just feels like one : D.

How about a weekend to start with ;).

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I'm going to recommend that LMJ put you on a strict regimen of ruined O's, and icecubes.

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I really think a weekend is a good time frame to get used to that device, techincally and emotionally.

Hmmnn.. then again... Icecubes !?!?! :unsure: Ruined O's !?!??!?!? :unsure: ... I mean maybe you should start slow : D... How about lets say 5 minutes ?. Thats totally fine : D. And as a reward you may have 10 O's : D

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Having been in a cb-3000 before. I would say that first things first, you need to talk to your keyholder and get an idea of how many days she wants vs how many you want. Find out HOW much teasing she is going to do.

Aside from that. two days is a fair amount, as long as its not causing issues. It also depends on how often you normally have orgasms. If its pretty regularly(which i guess from your words) then 2 days should be fine.
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My opinion? A month. There is no topic for discussion here.

One month. Not a pansy month either. I mean a full contact, unlubed, bent-over-backwards 31 day long month. No foreplay, just cut straight to the test. :-)

And if you ask your wife really nicely, maybe you get an orgasm beforehand.
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I'd say two weeks. 1 week to start making you go nuts. Another week to make you stay nuts. :innocent:
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Indigo wrote: I'm used to ... oh ... two, to three orgasms per day. :whistle:
2-3 orgasms a day ? Everyday ? Thats some massive sex drive you have going on.

Yeah, 2 weeks might be a bit too much for ya. I'd now say 10 days. You should start going nuts in 5 days...
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Any history of prostate cancer in the family ?
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That sucks, I'm sorry ... :\'-(

Are you like a high testosterone guy --- prominent jaw, thick eyebrows etc ? ...

The reason I kinda went off on this tangent is this : I recently read an article that guys who masturbate a lot in their 20s/30s were at higher risk of prostate cancer; the theory being that they masturbated a lot because of high hormone levels.

So ...start getting prostate exams when you hit 35 :closedeyes:
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Re: Indy ... in chastity

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Depends on what you want.

For just testing the device a couple of days, 2-3 would do I think.

For testing YOU a week would be a good time. That will really let you experience the frustration and find out if chastity is something you would enjoy playing with more regularly or not.

That's of course assuming the device sits comfortably on you with no health issues like bruising/bad fit etc.

I'm like you when I'm not playing with a mistress I like my 3 daily orgasms or so and I'm 26. Nothing wrong with a strong sex drive. :-D

The longest I've gone without is the 11 days in Miss Jay's recent game. For me every day in chastity is tough, but once I pass 5-6 days I start to really feel the frustration in a different way. I get restless and feel more adrenaline pumping through my body. That's why I think a week is a good time for you to find out if you enjoy chastity and want to experiment with it or not. If you're like me (and it sounds like there are at least a few similarities) then maybe you'll get to that point too where you're very sensitive to any stimulation and start to find it hard to relax, wake up earlier in the morning etc. I have no idea what happens if you go further - if there are any further states of frustration to discover. Maybe I'll find that out someday. If I even want to. :blush:
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Re: Indy ... in chastity

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It seems you've tempted a lurker out into the open. :whistle:
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Maybe the ideal "testing period" would be the time it takes you to cum 10 times?
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