Help me please Toxic Treat?

[stevecraigslist]

Sophia was completely honorable.

[cal]

Steve, if you don't mind me asking did your wife find out?

How did you solve the problem of getting on the web cam?

[dubble]

I think steve is both right and wrong. Hey steve, if you want to feel the rush, adrenaline and endorphins pumping through your veins, cool! I'm all for that and love some risky games too. I do NOT, however, bring anyone else into this like you did with your family. That is betrayal. It's not fair to them. It's obvious there is a lot lacking in your marriage and hope you seek help and find ways to commnicate better with your wife. Maybe your wife could decide to Domme you and blackmail you. You never know unless you ask, right? Play safe and have fun, but think of others you may harm before thinking selfishly all about yourself.

[teased247]

Maybe your wife could decide to Domme you and blackmail you. You never know unless you ask, right? Play safe and have fun, but think of others you may harm before thinking selfishly all about yourself.

Seems to me that Steve here has already given his wife enough ammunition to easily "blackmail" him in soo many areas .... the first one being grounds for a divorce and a taking of the kids and at a minimum half his income until at least the kids grow up. That would be a fantasy scenario gone waaayyy bad!

Can't say that he wasn't warned tho' ... and he has the right to "choose" whatever actions he wants to act upon ... however, I am thinking that he is not going to like the waves of consequences that will be the ripple effect from the choices HE decided to make. (neither will his family and friends). I also believe, that through simple communication and love, he could be living out his fantasies beyond his wildest dreams if he would just man up and be the husband he ought to be for his wife. If he were to do that, I would bet that his wife would do "whatever" turns him on .... Domme and Blackmail included.

Sophia seems to have been very straight up about who she is and what she is about. There do not seem to be any smoky windows and circus mirrors with what she does. I don't think there is any deception on her part .... the deception lays solely within the dude that decides to participate in actions such as this with her. Shame on him ... hooray for her! (Now, I would be curious as to how she deals with men who cheat on their wives who have kids .... and how that dynamic could "wreck" a family, and the kids emotional and physical future.... she did state earlier about her feelings on kids and not desiring to hurt any kids in any way. Exposing an affair would no doubt have many negative affects on those kids, which is something she claims that she does not want to do).

For me .... Blackmail and humiliation are not my "thing" .... and I have chosen not to participate in activities such as this .... although ... there is the attraction for interacting with somebody such as Sophia, who obviously has a special way with her words and writing, and is no doubt a very bright woman.

Just my 2 pennies,

b