How I told my girlfriend about my T&D fetish

[chewit]

Thanks guys...

Well, the situation is definitely getting very difficult now. Normally when I reach a certain level of desperation my gf takes pity on me, or gives me a little surprise but this time she's really making me suffer.

So before bed last night as usual I was looking forward to getting my cb removed because that meant that if she was in the mood I'd get teased....and as luck would have it she was.

I was already hard just by looking at her get undressed and as she grabbed my cock she laughed.

Gf: Someone's excited, what's the matter, are you still desperate to cum?

She laughed again, she sure seems to have fun watching me suffer.

She started stroking it out side of my boxers. After about 30 seconds the begging began :)

Me: Please let me cum tonight...

Gf: No.

More begging followed, with offerings to do just about anything for her.

Gf: Don't you realise that no matter how much you beg me my answer won't change.

With that she stopped touching me. I lay there in silence racking my brains, maybe something I could do for her....after a minute I realised just how pointless it was, I wasn't going to cum no matter what.

We carried on talking for about 10 minutes, just general chat and then she reached down again. I'd learnt my lesson and didn't say a word except for whimpers of pleasure.....and all she was doing was running her fingers up and down my cock...it felt amazing.

Gf: To make you cum which would you prefer, my hand or my mouth?

Oh sweet lord, there is a god, I really had to think about this. The hands felt amazing, and I didn't want it to stop but just the thought of her using her mouth really excited me. I actually couldn't decide as she continued stroking and must have thought for about ages.....eventually...

Me: Mouth

She leant over and moved her head down......and then came back up and kissed me on the cheek.

Gf: Good night.

So, what words can I use, I honestly thought I was going to cum.....I'd been pushed past my limits, so desperate and again mercilessly denied. On top of that yesterday was only Monday, I've got until at least Thursday to go.

Gf: You know I think the day you actually get to cum you're really going to explode.

We hugged and I turned the light out. As I lay there wondering how long it would take to get to sleep the icing on the cake arrived....

The couple downstairs started having sex, and let me tell you they are certainly not quiet. All I could do was lay there listening.

Gf: Does it turn you on hearing them?

This time I laughed.

Me: No, you've already taken care of that.

[ThomasKu]

Sounds like she really is a tease. But I thought you were no longer allowed to beg for cummies anymore?!

[chewit]

She's definitely a tease lol

I'm not allowed to ask for teasing, stroking etc as in I can't annoy her by keep asking, but while she's doing things it makes her laugh, well sometimes....yesterday she just flat stopped because I asked to cum....you know maybe I should just never ask ever...

[chewit]

Still no release, and very little physical teasing. It's been 10 days but it feels a lot longer...

Last night getting into bed I was excited, even though I knew I wouldn't be getting much.

So, apparently the 'no fart' rule is still in effect..

Gf: Three more today, I'm starting to think you don't want to cum before you go to England.

I think the level of desperation in my voice convinced her that I wasn't doing this on purpose....she actually looked at me with a sympathetic face.

Me: Are you letting me off?

Ana: I'm playing my game and having fun with my plan..

Me: What's your plan?

Ana: You don't need to know.

She started running her fingers up and down my cock, outside of my boxers. I was already hard and this was just plain torture for me. I was thinking I'm denied until at least tomorrow, but she keeps me guessing so much that I'm not sure now.

We started kissing and after the conversation turned to 'normal' talk.

After about 10 minutes though things looked up considerably!

Gf: Do we have any condoms?

Me: Yes..

I couldn't believe it, we were actually gonna have sex and there was a good chance I'd be cumming!

Gf: Do we have the extra fine ones that let you feel more?

Me: Yes. Shall I get them?

Gf: No, I was just curious..

To say that her comment burst my bubble is an understatement.....once again in my desperation I'd assumed (wrongly) that I was getting some release...

Gf: Turn the light out.

I did.

Me: I was just thinking, that tomorrow your friend is here for 2 nights so I doubt I'll be getting anything tomorrow or Friday either.

My gf made a kinda mmmmmm noise in agreement.

Gf: Maybe I'll make you fuck me really slowly without making any noise.

At this point it hit me once again that I have no control over my situation and will be left like this as long as my gf sees fit, even if it gets too much for me to handle :)

[chewit]

Well, we bought a rudeboy device for milking a while ago but as I don't really go more than 2 weeks in denial I think she has more fun teasing me. I have a feeling ruined orgasms are gonna happen more often though.

[chewit]

So my gf's friend arrived Wednesday night which meant no teasing for me at all apart from my gf laughing at how desperate I was to receive something.

However yesterday things started looking up as her friend said she was flying back home that day...and I immediately started thinking that there's a good chance I'll be getting some release tonight. I don't know why, I just had a feeling and my gf seemed to be hinting a lot too.

So the evening came and we were sat on the sofa watching the new series of lost (in which I have no idea what's going on anymore) when my gf looked at me and smiled very seductively. I knew this meant I was in with a good chance of cumming tonight, but I've learnt a little these last few days..

Me: What were you just thinking?

Gf: Nothing.

And she smiled again.

So, the episode finished, my gf unlocked my cb and I got into bed. Now, as she was going to the bathroom she gave me a look that could only say 'we're gonna have sex'. When she came back she slowly got undressed looking at me in exactly the same way. She was naked and got into bed. I was unbelievably excited.

Gf: You know what I was thinking while we watched lost?

Me: No..

Gf: That when we get into bed I'm gonna get you hard, put a condom on your cock and make you fuck me until you cum....

I was hard and extremely turned on...

Gf: but...

'NOOOOOOO' was exactly what I was thinking, a mixture of desperation and more excitement at the same time.

Gf: I think after so many days of denial it would be better to spend some time doing more things to you, like teasing you, making you edge, maybe tying you up, stuff like that.

On my rollercoaster of emotions I was now on another high, this sounded even better. I couldn't believe what an amazing gf I have.

Gf: The only thing is I'm a little tired now.....

I knew what was coming....

Gf: So you'll have to wait for another day.

She smiled, a knowing smile that told me she found all this enjoyable yet effortless.

Gf: I honestly was gonna let you cum, but I think you'd prefer that to quick sex.

It took a few seconds to sink in....no cumming, not today.

Me: I don't suppose you'd like to share when that day will be??

It came out without thinking and I laughed nervously.

Gf: No...no questions.

She smiled.

I was sooooo desperate.

Me: No questions about anything? Even just a little teasing tonight?.

Gf: No. No more questions...ever. I'll never say yes so it's pointless asking. Remember you only get pleasure when I decide.

Me: Ok, sorry.

Gf: I'm going to think about more questions I can ask you though, like 'will you stroke my back and turn the light out?'

She grabbed my cock, squeezed it once and rolled over.

I started stroking her back for her.

I laid there thinking how much I appreciate her, how desperate I was to cum, how I wouldn't ask anymore questions, how I never wanted this teasing to end and how much I wanted it to end right now by cumming lol....all these thoughts at the same time....with such a desperation to cum that was not going to go away as I ran my fingers over her body.

Then...completely by surprise she grabbed my cock and started running her fingers up and down it. It felt amazing. It was teasing me like crazy and I started moving my hips slightly back and forward.

Gf: Hey, who said you could move?

She laughed..squeezed my balls once..and stopped. Then rolled over again to sleep.

Me: Oh my god.

Gf: What's the matter?

She said it in such an innocent yet evily sympathetic voice.

Gf: Buenas noches.

So, that was that. Today is 12 days, I don't know when I'll get release. An educated guess before would have been this weekend as it's when we'll have plenty of time for her to tease me etc.....but now I'm thinking maybe not, I'm thinking that if she's enjoying seeing me suffer, getting massages everyday, having all the housework done by me and cumming whenever she wants why would she stop it all by letting me cum...oh dear god :)

[seantrfc]

Chewit you're one lucky, lucky boy! Just got round to catching up on these forums after a long absence (haven't had private internet for ages!!)

I live in Barcelona, I don't suppose your girl has any friends into the same stuff that fancy going on a blind date?

Seriously though keep us posted, it makes for awesome reading!

[chewit]

Lol, I can't really answer that question as she hasn't told anyone about our little game, although who knows, maybe she does.

So last time I posted I was on 12 days, in the end I went 14 days with no release which is still the longest I've been made to do. Afterwards we talked and although my gf really has fun playing the game I don't think its that sexually exciting for her so we're taking a break from it. I guess it's possible that I may join the ranks of guys that have told their gf, tried it out but end up returning to a more 'normal' sex life, we'll see.

Anyway not all is bad, I'm back in the uk having left sunny Spain. I've been here a week now....and the no masturbation rule still applies even if we don't play the CB/T&D game. My gf doesn't want me to masturbate at all....she wants me to wait until I see her. She's over one weekend a month until June...so it's gonna be..

19 days with no cumming until the first visit..
31 days with no cumming until the second visit
24 days with no cumming until the third visit
then a potential 37 days with no cumming until she moves here.......that's 111 days with 4 potential opportunities to cum..

I think it's gonna be tough, especially as I'm not locked away!! I'm already really wanting to cum and there's another 12 days to go until she's over....imagine if she came here and found it hilarious to make me wait until the next visit, my god, that would be 50 days with no orgasms....I can't even imagine how that would feel..

[ThomasKu]

Well, you could ask her for a little webcam or chat session or something

[masterboyhr]

This was so HOT!

Please tell us more!

[Human]

(I'm not EVER going in for a chastity belt. NEVER NEVER NEVER!!!!)

(Something to cheer you up Indy, I hope...)

[chewit]

Finally I've got internet back! Anyone who works for sky really deserves 1000 ball spanks a day.....6 weeks to get connected?!?

So, I've been back in the UK since the beginning of March and my GF has been over once a month to visit. We took a break from T&D for a while.....and as things were back to 'normal' I more than made the most of it lol. I couldn't tell you how many orgasms I had but it was a lot!! Now I would have to say it was different being able to cum whenever I wanted but of course really good! I actually remember thinking 'why on earth would I want to be kept in denial when I'm having so much fun'.

Needless to say those days are now a distant distant memory. My GF went back on April 26th and up until then I'd been cumming like a teenager lol but that was soon to end. We were talking on messenger when she got back.

Gf: I think I'm gonna try and last the 23 days until I see you and not play at all.

I was surprised but thought it was kinda cool and wondered how it would work out. I'm living in London on my own at the moment and there's a gym right under my flat so I'm spending a fair amount of time there working out (I mentioned to my GF that really getting myself in shape would be a nice present for her).

Me: Ok, I'll do the same and it'll help me cos you know I always train harder when I'm being denied.

Gf: Really?

I was being honest, something to do with all that pent up energy I think.

Me: Yeah, it definitely makes me focused..

She sounded pleased.

Gf: Ok, no playing until I come over, you can cum today but that's it so make the most of it.

Soooooo, things were back as before.....needless to say I didn't bother cumming when given the chance, it had only been a day and I wasn't too worried....silly move really..

The next day we were talking on messenger and my GF's idea of not playing with herself went straight out the window. She told me that earlier in the day she'd got carried away and made herself cum, and not to even bother asking because it was way too soon for me to play.

Two days later we were back on messenger. My GF told me she had found her vibrator (for some reason she thought it had been sent over here with some of her things) and that she was touching herself. This got me very excited and the messages stopped.....I could only imagine what she was doing.....a couple of minutes passed and she came back and told me she'd just made herself cum. I was feeling desperate for release, maybe because I'd gotten so used to playing. We chatted a while and then the same thing happened, she made herself cum again...this was pure torment....but she wasn't finished.....

Gf: There's no way you're cumming today so don't even think about it.

I was so desperate and I'm sure she knew.

Gf: I'm sure you're really hard tho. Wet the end of your finger and rub it in small slow circles around the head of your cock.....imagine it's my tongue.

I did it and it felt great! Then after about 20 seconds..

Gf: Ok stop, that's enough.

The only other words that followed were 'hahahahahahaha'

And that was that. What I didn't realise until a minute or so later was that she was on her way to having her third orgasm...

Me: I can't believe it...so I don't get to play at all, not even one stroke?

Gf: You don't get to do anything.....ANYTHING....unless I tell you to do it. You don't get to feel pleasure unless I let you.

Another one of those speechless moments with that old feeling of fear, excitement, bliss and desperation all rolled into one.

Two more days passed and I finally got my phone line installed in the flat. The first conversation we had was fun. I didn't really have much experience of phone sex but that soon changed, kinda.

My GF told me she was feeling excited and wanted to play while I played. The instructions were really quite simple, she told me to stroke really slowly while she made herself cum. There was no hesitation on my part! Now this is when I wish my GF would last a little longer lol, in about a minute she was breathing heavily down the phone...and as I stroked very slowly I was dying to cum.

Gf: I'm cumming..

And she did.

Oh my god, I was desperate and hoping she'd tell me to speed up.

Gf: Stop

Oh no..

Me: Nooooooo

I honestly thought she'd take pity on me.

Gf: Put it away, that's all you're getting. I'm helping you train down the gym after all.

She laughed and again that was that.

So that was 8 days ago and since then there has been NO touching on my part at all, just verbal teasing and a hell of a lot of gym training lol.

It's now 16 days since I last came! I am really hoping that tonight on the phone I'll get something.....if not, she's over next Thursday which means 8 more days to go.....although if you ever see me on worlds strongest man you'll know things have gone horribly wrong for chewit lol.

[chewit]

Soooooooo....

It's now 18 days since I came and there's gonna be no cumming until I hit 23 when my girlfriend arrives...

Of course she's still having lots of fun cumming and tormenting me. After the post 2 days ago we spoke on the phone and after a while the subject turned to sex..

Gf: It's been so long since I let you cum inside me, that's what you're going to do next Thursday....you're going to fuck me until you cum and this time you're not going to pull out.

I didn't really have a coherent response to this but she laughed all the same and then told me..

Gf: It's a shame my flatmates are here, I wanna make myself cum right but they might hear me, if I could I'd make you listen.....hey no touching yourself tonight remember. .don't worry though, they're going out later so I'll have a play when they do...you can sit and wonder when I'm playing with myself...

And that was that, the next day I got a text message telling me that she had her fun later that night...

Anyway, so far tonight has been a lot of fun....we just got off the phone...

Gf: I'm going to let you touch yourself tonight....wet your finger and rub the tip of your cock...

I was already hard and didn't need telling twice. After about fifteen seconds....

Gf: Now you're going to stroke it for me..

This was fantastic....like Christmas and my birthday all rolled into one!

Gf: But you only get 5 strokes....nothing more...

Aaaaargh the torment, it was such a turn on to be controlled like this although I was so desperate to do so much more..

Gf: Make sure you grab it really hard and do them really slowly...

I did and it felt great but of course after I was absolutely desperate for more.

Gf: Now put it away. I've been thinking about what I'm going to do to you when I arrive on Thursday. I'll even tell you my plan. I'm going to handcuff you to the towel rail in the bathroom, and then go to the bedroom to change into my bikini. Then I'm gonna come back to the bathroom and get in the shower, I'm gonna do a striptease in the shower for you and tease myself.....all the while you'll be naked and chained to the towel rail. Of course as the shower steams up you're gonna have trouble seeing what I'm doing.....maybe I'll wipe my hand on the glass so you can see a little better........and when I've teased you enough I'm gonna get out of the shower soaking wet and I'm gonna slowly start sucking your cock.....just enough to make you even more desperate......and when I think you've had enough I'll let you out and you can fuck me until you cum....

I couldn't put into words the effect this had on me lol. 5 more days...!!

Gf: All this talk is getting me excited. I think I'll have a play when my flatmate goes out. I'm gonna use the vibrator. You can listen this time, I'll call you when I start....

That was about 15 minutes ago....I'm waiting by the phone.....

[uberbear01]

Awesome as ever Chewit! :)

Great to hear from you btw, this thread is one of the greatest things on this supremely great site!

[1azzu1]

your a lucky lucky guy