Giving up orgasms for lent

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Giving up orgasms for lent

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I have decided that this year for lent, I am giving up manual orgasms. Thats 40 days of denial. The only way I will get an orgasm before easter is if the wife (who doesn't know of my t&D desires) initiates sex (something which she has only done twice in our 18 months of marriage. I will be teasing and edging every day. Today I did 2 lots of vib cock ring for about 25 mins each, aswell as 3 10 minute wet masturbation sessions, and have now been stroking nonstop for an hour and a half. This is going to be tough.

If someone has time, I would like some stroking/edging assignments to keep the time fresh and interesting. Any ideas welcome. I will try to post reports from time to time, but will only be able to do so when the wife is out.

Thanks in advance

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Be carefull, all that time teasing yourself without cuming may be dangerous for you, I mean physically it can cause some damage to your semen production, I advice you to ask someone with more knowledge than me what are the risks.

Anyway, good luck
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Considering that you are doing this for Lent, I suggest the following. Anoint the palms of your hands with lube, then put them in the praying position. Say a silent prayer to me, Nika, patron saint of cummies, then lower your hands, still palms together and push the head of you twig between your palms. Now, keeping you hands perfectly still, hump your hand pussy.

Did I answer your prayers?

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Talk of lent...
I thought I could share this somewhat funny story.
One of my slaves begged me to be his keyholder. He locked himself up, mailed me the key. But he didn't write my real name on the envelope, so I could not receive the parcel.
Apparently, he will spend more time than expected IN CHASTITY.
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Nika Ferlinghetti wrote:Considering that you are doing this for Lent, I suggest the following. Anoint the palms of your hands with lube, then put them in the praying position. Say a silent prayer to me, Nika, patron saint of cummies, then lower your hands, still palms together and push the head of you twig between your palms. Now, keeping you hands perfectly still, hump your hand pussy.

Did I answer your prayers?

Nika
Wow, I'd nearly try 40 days of voluntary chastity just for a response like that.

Nearly :innocent:
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kinkydomina wrote:Talk of lent...
I thought I could share this somewhat funny story.
One of my slaves begged me to be his keyholder. He locked himself up, mailed me the key. But he didn't write my real name on the envelope, so I could not receive the parcel.
Apparently, he will spend more time than expected IN CHASTITY.
an eternal life in chastity domina?
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Frightening perspective, huh? :whistle:
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Not that bad, been chaste for Miss Jay over 100 days now.... it`s hard for the first few days but after a while you feel like some kind of numbness....... the urge is still there but not as vivid.

It really depends on the amount of tease you get, I am realizing that when I get teases I get desperate to cum faster.
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kinkydomina wrote:Frightening perspective, huh? :whistle:
i'm sure, if you want chastity can become the worstest experience in world :-D
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Yes, it can.
But it can also be pleasant and rewarding. The slave's reward is my content smile, after he has performed his tasks in a satisfactory manner.
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kinkydomina wrote:Yes, it can.
But it can also be pleasant and rewarding. The slave's reward is my content smile, after he has performed his tasks in a satisfactory manner.
you are a great domina!!!! wise word :yes:
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My slave entered his fourth week of chastity, and the key has not been returned to him yet.
So I guess he will celebrate Easter in chastity as well.
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