Stroking vs. no Touching

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What do you think is harder while being denied?

Forced Stroking
21
58%
No Touching
15
42%
 
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Stroking vs. no Touching

Post by Tobias23 »

Hello,

i've been wondering what you guys think is harder, while being denied an orgasm. Is it if your are not allowed to touch your penis at all, or if you are ordered to stroke in certain way (like in most of the webteases)??

For me it is like that: Stroking is more fun at first, but when you have to stop, and realize that you won't get an orgasm that day, it is way more frustrating. really frustrating!!! :-(

And if i'm not allowed to touch myself, well then i get a bit frustrated, because i like stroking :-) , but at the end of the day the denial felt like a no problem at all. The less i get aroused, the less i get frustrated by being denied. or not? well for me that is.

One of my Onlinedommes had to go away for a week, and told me not to touch myself in that time, so i didn't. After she came back, she asked me how horny i was, and how my cock is aching for a touch. And i answered with a "Not that much", which was true. I just drowned myself in work that week, and didn't even think about sex or orgasms ...
Needless to say she got angry, even after i explained it to her, she thought i cheated. Well i didn't, but she ended our Relationship :weep:


Okay thats my point of view, and a sad story from my life about that theme ;-(

But i'm way more interested in your thoughts, so please feel free to share them :-)

Oh and i made a Poll out of this post, just because i like polls :-D, but please share your thoughts too :-)

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tobi

PS: Sorry for my bad English :-|
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Re: Stroking vs. no Touching

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My list from "thats is bad" to "AWWW WHY!!"

1. No touching allowed.
2. Stroke that thing, but dont cum
3. Stroke it - but tell me when you are ready to cum.... "When!" - STOP...

I can do "no touch" for weeks, "stroke but don't cum" for days... But "stroking and hoping..." couldn't do that many times without going mad I think - haven't really tried yet.
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Post by prisoner4612 »

as to be the no touching as it does get interesting when given a time limit like for the day or two.
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Post by joeliwan »

I have to agree, Tobi. If you can keep yourself from getting too aroused, denial becomes a non-issue. I just did a week and a half of 13+ hour workdays and didn't have the energy or the interest for anything sexual. On the other hand, if I've got a lot of free time, or if I'm being aroused periodically, denial becomes much more difficult.

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P.S. Your English isn't all that bad, so don't worry about it.
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ts wrote:My list from "thats is bad" to "AWWW WHY!!"

1. No touching allowed.
2. Stroke that thing, but dont cum
3. Stroke it - but tell me when you are ready to cum.... "When!" - STOP...

I can do "no touch" for weeks, "stroke but don't cum" for days... But "stroking and hoping..." couldn't do that many times without going mad I think - haven't really tried yet.
See now I would flip this list for me. I love to be brought right to the edge and left there, but no touching, are you kidding me! I walk around my house naked, most of the time, just in case a sexy TV commercial comes on!
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Post by prisoner4612 »

lol, but if you touch it going for a pee wearing groves have you failed or just been smart.

the devil is in the detail and what you told to do.
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Re: Stroking vs. no Touching

Post by Tobias23 »

JelloBoy wrote:
ts wrote: I love to be brought right to the edge and left there, but no touching, are you kidding me! I walk around my house naked, most of the time, just in case a sexy TV commercial comes on!
And then you wank to the commercial and get off? I mean if you know u won't be allowed to cum, then whats the point of stroking? I mean if there is only a tiny chance you will be allowed, okay, then i would be worth it.
But if u definitly know, that there is no chance you are allowed to cum today, why bother stroking your cock?? Except for the amusement of your Mistress of course :)
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Post by ts »

prisoner4612 wrote:lol, but if you touch it going for a pee ...
I am sure that most of the time "no touching" means no play - so holding it while you pee is OK (Just dont shake it more than 3 times after you are done :-) )

And for JelloBoy - I say that "no touching" is the easiest, because when I know I am not allowed to touch I can just avoid most things sexy/porn-like things - Of course I can't avoid a few sexy commecials and other stuff like that, but watching a 30 second commecial for a brassier doesnt make me grab my penis anyway....
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Post by Shaft8888 »

ya at first the stroking can be great, until you've been brought too the edge over and over again..
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Post by dark »

A difficult question... I hate it if I am not allowed to touch. On the other hand forced stroking without an orgasm can also be annoying.

But I prefer the forced stroking, the week without touching while waiting for the next Mean Girls Club part was soooo frustrating :\'-(
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