How I told my girlfriend about my T&D fetish

[chewit]

Hey guys, happy new year to you all!!

A few people were asking how things were going with my gf so I thought I'd just write a quick update as it's been a while.

I live in Barcelona but am from the UK. My gf and me have been back in England for the last 2 weeks, for xmas and the new year.....and the cb wasn't packed.

So, during that time I've been getting xmas presents...the main ones being 4 orgasms in the space of the last 17 days, now that's probably not very many for the average guy but for me it's a lot! However, it's not all been fun and games, take yesterday morning and evening for example..

So, we woke up and my gf was telling me about how she had an erotic dream after which she told me she wanted me to make her cum orally. Of course I did as I was told.

Gf: Now I want you inside me..

You can imagine I was very happy to hear this, thinking orgasm number 5 was on it's way, ho ho ho merry xmas and all!! However after about 30 seconds..

Gf: The bed is making noise, I think someone downstairs might hear us.

Me: No, don't worry I'm sure they can't.

Another 30 seconds...

Gf: No, I think they can. Stop.

I stopped and she pulled away from me. I didn't need to even speak, I knew where this was heading, she saw the expression on my face and responded.

Gf: It's ok, I've already cum.....and you don't get to.

She said it so matter of fact, of course it made me want her even more but that was that and we got dressed.

Later on in the evening we got into bed, we were hugging and all of a sudden she reached down and started slapping my cock, I was a little shocked and had to listen carefully as she whispered in Spanish..

Gf: Te voy a castigar....te voy a castigar....

She was repeating 'I'm going to punish you' over and over as she slapped it. Well, within seconds I was hard and more than intrigued.

Me: What do you mean by punish?

She leant down as if she was actually talking to my cock instead of me.

Gf: I'm going to punish you, at the moment you're on holiday but when we get back home tomorrow I'm going to lock you away again....so enjoy your freedom..

I was speechless and extremely turned on as she kept slapping it.

Gf: Would you like me to suck your.....

Just hearing these words made me think how perfect it would be for her to let me cum from a blowjob, that was all I was thinking at that moment, all that I wanted.

Gf:...nipple.

She didn't even laugh, it was as though I should be grateful for the little pleasure she would give me.

Of course I said yes and after she obliged I was absolutely desperate to cum, this never happened of course, instead we went to sleep.

Well, the snow in London has kept us trapped here today and there's no way we're going back to Barcelona anytime soon so I'm not gonna be locked away just yet. I'm thinking I'm going to beg for more orgasms tonight.

It's an interesting time now. Sometimes I'm locked away for days with no release, then I'm let out for days at a time....but not necessarily with any release...I'm completely under her control....I don't even think about the possibility of masturbation to make myself cum anymore, the 'No making myself cum' rule has been enforced for so long now (April 09) that it doesn't even seem like an option.....masturbation has been replaced by a blissful torment...happy days.

[janmb]

You are one lucky guy chewit, and a fantastic writer!

Keep'em coming (no pun intended)

[chewit]

Hey all,

So another little twist happened last night, not necessarily sexual for my gf but definitely for me.

We finally made it back to Barcelona yesterday (oh I'm back in the CB still with no release now). Now the first thing you'll notice is that the weather in Barcelona is nowhere near as cold as the uk, and there's certainly no snow here. However, the second thing is that although it's a mild 12 degrees outside, due to the serious lack of heating in Spain its only 12 degrees inside too. Now, bearing that in mind after a nice central heated house in England it was somewhat difficult trying to get into a freezing cold bed. Hopefully that sets the scene for what followed..

I was in bed, boxers and a t-shirt. My gf was wearing just about everything she owns, even a jumper.

Me: This is crazy, I'm freezing.

Now what happened next was a surprise, my gf opened her underwear draw and passed me something.

Gf: Put these on, they'll really help with the cold.

She had passed me a black pair of her tights!

At first I laughed, how many Milovana teases had told me to put tights on, and now here was my gf telling me....although not in a sexual way, I really think she sincerely wanted to help me.

Of course I put them on :) it really was a case of kill two birds with one stone, instantly heated and horny lol

Immediately my gf started laughing, and not just a little, she was literally rolling around laughing...and of course I was loving the humiliation

Gf: Get out of bed and let me see you properly

I obliged no longer even thinking of the cold

She made me stand up, turn around and commented on how they were see-through as her eyes started watering from laughing so much. I was kinda laughing too.

Me: These are really comfortable!

That really set her off laughing even more.

Gf: Be careful not to ladder them, they're new.

More laughing

Me: Seriously I think I'm gonna wear these each night, they really help with the cold.

Ok a little lame, it was true but maybe there was a hidden motive too :P

Gf: You'll have to buy yourself some, you're not wearing mine every night!

I'm going to get some tomorrow....my gf has told me the shop I need to go to in the morning...

[uberbear01]

Haha! That's so cool Chewit!

Good luck to you guys and thank you for these updates! lol :)

[chewit]

Well it's now a week with no release and am still locked away in the rondo cb.

Every night in bed before we go to sleep (and some mornings) my gf has been rubbing or slapping my cock until it's hard, then runs her hands up and down it, grabbing my balls and verbally teasing me. She always finishes by giving my balls one hard slap and then it's lights out...no stroking, certainly no edging and orgasms....haha, can someone let me know what they are again? The only ones I get now are from handjobs, and sometimes even they are ruined...when I reach the point of cumming she slows right down so that I bearly enjoy it..as for sex, the last time 'I' came from sex was back in November..

Oh, I bought the tights :) Each night I'm now wearing them to bed and each night my gf laughs like crazy....this is seriously not helping me get to sleep!

[chewit]

So, things are still continuing much the same. Sometimes locked away, sometimes let out but very rarely allowed to cum. This month I've been allowed to cum 4 times, I think that's pretty good considering....however, things are taking a more serious twist now.

My gf seems to really be starting to realise I'll do anything to cum, so she's making me work a lot harder than before, and her teasing is getting much harder to handle...of course I'm not complaining one bit :)

So, a new rule that's been introduced on top of never masturbating and cumming EVER........I'm now not allowed to ask for any kind of sex, release or pleasure. After being teased and really begging, here's what she said:

Gf: What are you doing asking for release? It's my decision when you feel pleasure. From now on you're never to ask me for anything like that, you will get pleasure only if and when I decide, and nothing more.

She then stroked my cock until I edged, stopped, laughed and told me to go to sleep.

A tiny sentence like that has completely changed the dynamic of my chastity....it's now perfect, no topping from the bottom at all. She's completely in control and doing a damn fine job of it.

On top of that, things will be getting tougher for me soon. I'll be moving to England at the end of next month, and my gf will stay in Spain for 3 months before coming to join me.

Gf: What's the longest you could safely wear your CB?

Me: Well the one with openings I think I could wear longer term, maybe taking it off once a week to clean. I think it would be ok to wear overnight (at the moment she makes me sleep with no cb).

Gf: That's good then, when you're in England you're going to keep it on all the time.

I liked where this was heading...

Me: I could use those plastic locks, that way you can check the number when we chat on webcam to see that it's not been removed.

Gf: Exactly....and I can tease you while I play with myself on the cam....and you're locked away.

I didn't know what to say, just the thought really excited me

Me: So, I'll be locked away in England for 2 weeks at a time until we visit each other with absolutely NO physical teasing??

Gf: That's right, it's going to be interesting to see how desperate you are when we meet at the airport.

So, during 3 months the most I'm going to be cumming is 6 times....and that's if she doesn't come over, tease me with no release, put the cb back on me and leave for another 2 weeks...what have I gotten myself into lol...

You know, right at the beginning my gf said to me 'you don't know what you're getting yourself into honey'....I think I'm starting to see now, we play this 'game' on her terms now, how and when she wants to and so far it's exceeded all expectations :)

[camel]

Wow you are lucky!

Looks like the six month anniversary of the start of this whole thing is coming up. I suggest you ask her if there's anything she'd like you to do, or endure, that she's not sure you're ready for.

and/or roses. Lots of roses.

[Dan]

So, during 3 months the most I'm going to be cumming is 6 times....and that's if she doesn't come over, tease me with no release, put the cb back on me and leave for another 2 weeks...

From what I've read, that's most definitely going to happen!
Thanks for posting these updates up, they make a good read, and it's great you've found someone who enjoys this as much as you!

[chewit]

Thanks Dan, you know I was thinking I'm gonna find out how it feels when Miss Jay leaves you when you're in uni.

I'm not sure my gf gets 'turned on' exactly by it but she definitely gets a kick out of it, and I know she enjoys all the extras she gets now.

[uberbear01]

here's what she said:

Gf: What are you doing asking for release? It's my decision when you feel pleasure. From now on you're never to ask me for anything like that, you will get pleasure only if and when I decide, and nothing more.

She then stroked my cock until I edged, stopped, laughed and told me to go to sleep.

You're a better man than me, Chewit! How are you coping?!

[chewit]

Well I'm not sure about that Uber haha, but I'm coping pretty well so far.

Last night was fun, I was in the bedroom on one pc, and my gf was in the front room on her laptop. We got talking on messenger and before I knew it we were on the subject of t&d.

Gf: You're going to have to win me over, like when we started going out.

Me: Like a nice romantic dinner?

Gf: You'll see.

Me: Flowers and massages maybe?

Gf: It's getting late, what shall we have for dinner?

Me: I dunno, what are you going to make?

Ok, so I said it kinda joking, but she came running into the room. She slapped me lightly on the balls laughing.

Gf: You're getting way too cheeky.

She opened the draw and took out the CB

Gf: Put it on.

I did.

Gf: Dinner.

I went to the kitchen :)

Later that night we were sat on the sofa watching house (great series). Now, maybe there was too much onion in the dinner but I really had to let one go, and being a stereotypical guy I farted....and I'll admit I was almost proud of the noise (sorry ladies, us guys can be disgusting I know).

Gf: You are unbelievable, in the morning, in the evening....you don't stop.

I was sat there smiling as if I'd actually achieved something..

Gf: I'll tell you what, every time you fart and make a noise like that is another day you're not going to cum.

This was a surprise! I sat there for a few seconds contemplating this new idea. I mean, the idea's great but this could mean I never cum again lol, of course it could also mean that I learn to control myself a little better and I'm thinking it's gonna be the second option eventually.

That was last night on the sofa. So far I'm not gonna be cumming until at least Sunday.....I don't think I'll put onion in the dinner today...

[uberbear01]

Haha! Okay! so she's clocked the loud ones. Now for the "silent but deadly" ones and she'll be okay! lol

:P

[chewit]

lol, that's exactly what I was thinking, however I think my gf is having more fun

So, it's been 8 days since my last orgasm. I'd been told I wouldn't be cumming until at least Sunday, so today I was thinking maybe I'll be in with a chance even though I'm still locked away.

20 minutes ago my girlfriend got home from work and from the way I immediately started massaging her back...

Gf: It looks like someone's feeling a little horny?

She smiled.

Me: I'd describe it more as completely desperate.

She laughed.

Gf: You poor thing.

Me: But maybe today you'll give me release..

It was a desperate plea. She looked at me completely bewildered.

Gf: Why would you think that?

Me: Because you said nothing at least til Sunday.

Gf: That was before you did another 4 farts..

Oh no...I really thought the novelty had worn off of the game and she wasn't taking note anymore.

Me: I didn't realise you were still counting.

Gf: That's why I said 'what a shame' when we we watching the tv on Saturday. You've got at least 4 more days before I'll even think about letting you cum

I was really desperate, and I told her.

She laughed even more.

Gf: You poor thing.

Me: My god, the more you laugh, the more excited I get....

She really was laughing a lot now.

She grabbed my balls and started kissing me. They were hurting as I was desperately trying to get hard in the cb.

Gf: Don't get too excited, it's not coming off. I've got classwork to do.

'Oh noooooo' are the exact words I thought, but I can't convey the sense of complete and utter helplessness I felt lol.

Me: You really should charge for this, you're so good at it.

Gf: The funny thing is that it's so easy to do, I guess being a little 'bad' makes it easy for me to enjoy it.

And that was that, she's doing her classwork now (which I've learnt is time for me to stop asking and suffer in silence). I'm sat here thinking the expression 'be careful what you ask for....' applies to me at this moment in time...

[camel]

Very hot, Chewit! Please keep posting!

[janmb]

Brilliant read Chewit, unsure whether to consider you very very lucky or not at this point