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Hey All

I've just came home from a 2-week business trip, and I somehow managed not to jerk off during those days. It was actually quite easie with lot’s of work to do and no time to surf milovana ;)

Now I’m back and browsing through all those new teases, reaching the edge after just a few strokes ;)

And the thing is, as much as I want to cum, it feels like a waste of the 2-week “chastity”-phase' Whenever I manage not to cum for more than just a few days, I get this feeling. I want that orgasm to be special ;)

Do you guys know that feeling? How do you do it when you finally allow yourself to shoot?

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goodslave, I know that feeling well. It's hard to overcome (no pun intended) the feeling of loss after spunking when you've saved it up for a week or so. In the past I would just pick a trigger, say if my favorite sports team won, then I would cum if the tease allowed me to.

Now, since I have a girlfriend I leave it up to her, if she say cum then I do, if she say hold out for me a little longer, or isn't around, then no cumming for me :-D
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Post by dark »

Yes I know that feeling very well :-) I suggest to have a ruined orgasm that makes it a lot more frustrating :lol:

But I would never have sex with a woman after such a long period, you know nobody wants to be a " 2 minute man".
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LOL dark, good point about the "2 minute man" :lol:

And for the ruined orgasm, well just had one :\'-(

I was edging a little too much, letting go hoping I could hold it, but then I went over the top without any stimulation at all. VERY frustrating!! And what a mess!

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Post by kinkydomina »

Congrats on saving it for so long. Try adding one more week next time... and another ruined orgasm at the end. :innocent:
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Thank you Ma'am.

I've never managed to save it longer than 2 weeks so far, but you never know :smile:

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The longest I went without touching (at all) was about 8 days. However, much like you it wasn't something I planned. It was just I was away for 8 days, and was basically constantly busy and never got the time to masturbate. And let me say. After a period of not touching your penis, every single stroke is an absolutely amazing sensation. I wish I had the willpower or the means to do it reguarly.

As for your question. After I've got a 'load' stored, after a (relatively) slow build up, I try to ruin my orgasm. Often it's difficult, but I've got to the stage that I can allow myself to do it fairly effectively. Then I give myself another quick orgasm.
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Well, that sounds like fun the little mistress's missed or could have helped with, couldn't we? Just checking, not wanting to interupt, just trying to help! ANGEL :whistle:
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Hey Goodslave, what teases worked best for you, just curious! Or prhaps somefeedback, maybe I need to get some male feedback and change up or something. Eveyone feel free to chime back (BE nice)! Angel :innocent:
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Post by goodslave »

Hello Ms. Executive Angel,

It really depends on my mood which teases work best for me, but I can try to give you some ideas. Generally, beside stroking and edging of course, I enjoy clothespins on my nipples, tying up my balls or other mild CBT. Having to eat my own cum as a fantasy makes me hot, but when I’m actually instructed to do so I chicken out sometimes. Nice pictures, some story around the actual tasks to drag you into the fantasy and a few unexpected twists are always helpful ;)

When it comes to real life, probably my biggest turn on would be face sitting, but unfortunately that’s not possible to do online ;)

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Post by dark »

The only bad thing about your teases is that your pictures are sometimes too small or they are not the best material for stimulating. For example a picture of a cock is a real turn off for the most here ;-) But I already wrote I like your style, because it's different and I like to read your stories :-)
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