Help me please Toxic Treat?

[stevecraigslist]

I couldn't resist Sophia. I am in.

[stevecraigslist]

I gave her pics of my wife, video of me and my wife, video of me. I couldn't resist. I just couldn't.

[demosthenes]

I've always (well for a couple of years) been a bit of a distant admirer of Sophia Stafford's. I can see why slowly giving up control to her must be enjoyable to you. And though I have only read articles by her, I think she is a woman of her word, and trustoworthy.

However I agree that it's completely unfair to your wife to send pictures / video of her without her permission. Toxic Treat is wonderful; interacting like this must be great for you, but I think you're being an utter git to your wife. No matter the cajoaling, no matter the game you're playing and how much you're enjoying making the fantasy a reality - you are distributing pictures and video of your wife to someone you do not know if you can trust.

This is always your decision, and I'd say it's a very selfish one.

Again - this is just a stranger's opinion. And I'm sorry that I come across as confrontational here. But I have to be honest, and what you say here bothers me.

This is your wife. You can go ahead and let yourself get messed with or destroyed or whatever, but don't involve your wife in even the tiniest way.

[stevecraigslist]

I can't argue with any of the criticisms. I just can't resist. The seduction and power of the play is just too strong. I try to stay away but can't. I resolve to not email, then don't. I look at my wife and know I am betraying her, and yet go ahead. The rush is that strong. She is that powerful. I know I am just a "chew toy" for her, yet I lay at her feet and beg for more.

[Incubo]

Well, then pardon my bluntness, I don't know you personally, but it would certainly seem that you're a weak and selfish idiot. You deserve what you get.

[demosthenes]

I just can't resist

Yes, you can.

You choose not to. Make no mistake about that. No matter how much you are enjoying being controlled and getting lost in a clever, dangerous, powerful, beautiful woman's plans - and I can see you are revelling in that - you are CHOOSING to do this, and choosing to involve your wife without asking.

Now, this is none of my business and I know you didn't actually ask for opinions on this. So I will shut up now.

[SophiaStafford]

Have you considered the possible implications of what you're doing, before you do it? Now you're involving someone else into your actions without their knowledge or consent ... and above that, it's your wife! Dude, seriously ... when your actions effect the lives of other people, think before you act, if not for your sake, then for the sake of your family.

What if Sophia decides to use that "evidence" somehow, and your wife finds out? Or your friends, or co-workers, or employer? I'm not saying she will, necessarily, but consider the possibility that your *life* could very well turn into a living nightmare, controlled by someone who gets off on wrecking you.

Excellent advise, Indigo. I want be clear that I do not in any way recommend anyone ever trust a near-complete stranger they only know through webcam with their whole identity. It's a really dumb and risky thing to do...

But of course, there will never be any shortage of weak individuals eager for a chance to do dumb and risky things in order to amuse their social betters?

S

[stevecraigslist]

What in the world have I gotten myself into?

[timm]

What in the world have I gotten myself into?

Steve if you are really doing this you must not be happy with your marriage, your sex life, something, I think You need to figure out were the problem is then try and fix it, if its sex between you and your wife talk to her, if your not liking your sex life I bet your wife isn't ether, maybe you need to seek help!
As for Toxic Treat, if shes for real then she must really have a low self worth and only fills good about herself when she is able to bring others down, my-self I think she's just trying to get her website started and is looking for shock and aw, ether way "I would stay away" cause nothing good is going to come from this!
On the other side I would love to see her underage joke on someone cause that's just funny!

[formerlurker]

I emphasize that I don't do blackmail because I want it crystal clear-- what I do to people, what I've done in the past, what I AM going to do to steve-- I do it because it's what _I_ enjoy. _I_ enjoy making people giving me great power over their lives. _I_ enjoy smashing things. _I_ enjoy carving and molding and reshaping human minds. _I_ enjoy scaring him and _I_ enjoy watching him overcome his fears, watching him break down, and watching as he eagerly does exactly what he was scared of.

And, _I_ am the one who made a website that documents my desires, _I_ am the one who is beseeched by letters from people asking to please me, and _I_ am the one who takes reaches out and controls. The things I do are not a separate activity, they are my identity. They are interwoven into my life. Toxic Treat, the website, is the ultimate empowerment-- I published my sex life on the internet, for the world to see.

It is not a chronicle of a woman doing mean things to people. It is a chronicle of a proud woman ENJOYING doing mean things to people, owning that desire, reveling in it, and announcing it to the world. That is the art of it.

_I_am the one who thinks the original post was a put-on and that this is merely a clever marketing ploy.

[stevecraigslist]

I guess you are not a follower of Miss Sophia. Really not her style. This is real -- I am truly struggling, but I think I am, honestly, also getting off on the attention. I only get so much from her. I am selfish, I realize that. But that knowledge just drives me deeper.

[MisterBarville]

One question, Steve. Do you have any balls? Take a minute and check.

You have an opportunity to fulfill an ultimate fantasy. Make no mistake, this is a once in a lifetime opportunity. To be the source of entertainment and amusement to the woman of your dreams. Is there some risk? Of course. Perhaps not the prudent thing to do. Then again, someone probably told Kurt Warner it was not prudent to continue playing football after multiple concussions. Someone probably told George Washington it was not prudent to fight a war against the most powerful army in the world. The prudent thing would be to wait until your wife goes to bed, turn on the computer, and jack off, dreaming about what might have been. But what kind of man would you be? Sure, there is some risk. Maybe Sophia will send the video to CNN or TMZ, and if you happen to be running for office you are screwed. But somehow I doubt that is the case. Or maybe she will post it on a website and your wife will come across it while researching new bondage and domination techniques to use on you. Again, not likely. The fact is, there is a .000001% chance that anything bad could come of indulging your fantasy, and even if this occurs, it will be forgotten in a few days. If you don't, there is a 100% chance that you will regret it for the rest of your life.

And another question. Does Sophia look stupid to you? Again, take another look. Check her website. If you do what she asks, and you entertain and amuse her, she would have no incentive to abuse your trust, as that would bring an end to her sport. She has presumably invested considerable time and effort in developing Toxic Treat. Do you really think she would risk that investment by doing something illegal, particularly to someone who actually entertains her?

I don't know what you are doing with the rest of your life, but I suspect that risk-taking has not played a significant part in your life or career decisions. You have taken the prudent course, and are married to a woman who does not share your deepest erotic secrets. Take the plunge with Sophia. Feel the rush. Whether you ever choose to share this adventure with your wife or anyone else, you will know, in your heart, that you are not a pussy.

[slavetrev]

I emphasize that I don't do blackmail because I want it crystal clear-- what I do to people, what I've done in the past, what I AM going to do to steve-- I do it because it's what _I_ enjoy. _I_ enjoy making people giving me great power over their lives. _I_ enjoy smashing things. _I_ enjoy carving and molding and reshaping human minds. _I_ enjoy scaring him and _I_ enjoy watching him overcome his fears, watching him break down, and watching as he eagerly does exactly what he was scared of.

And, _I_ am the one who made a website that documents my desires, _I_ am the one who is beseeched by letters from people asking to please me, and _I_ am the one who takes reaches out and controls. The things I do are not a separate activity, they are my identity. They are interwoven into my life. Toxic Treat, the website, is the ultimate empowerment-- I published my sex life on the internet, for the world to see.

It is not a chronicle of a woman doing mean things to people. It is a chronicle of a proud woman ENJOYING doing mean things to people, owning that desire, reveling in it, and announcing it to the world. That is the art of it.

_I_am the one who thinks the original post was a put-on and that this is merely a clever marketing ploy.

You might be on to something there...she is the owner of a paysite, after all....oh wait, what's that? She's not.

[droog]

<a couple of months pass>

So what happened, if anything?

[darkstar]

ypu sound like a domme of the lowest order. intersted in there own powertrip and none of the responsibility that comes with it. you are nothing more than a bully preying on those who have a desire which is unataniable to them. it is the likes of you which gives the scene a bad name the world over.
destruciton of lifestyle indeed. would you like a person to enter your home and destroy that which is closest to your heart?

that is what you seem to delight in doing.