A warning based on something that just happened to me

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A warning based on something that just happened to me

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Hey, im not a particularly active member on the forums here, but ive been here from the beginning and have probably at least read every single tease on this place. I have posted infrequently and have had a few accounts, all variations of sexualreflex, (I tend to forget my login every so often!).

Anyway introductions aside, I recently downloaded a sort of femdom pov video where your instructed to self ball bust, this was 4 days ago and my balls are still in pain, is this normal?

Either way I wanted to put a warning out, when your horny its very easy to do things, but seriously your testicles are so damn fragile, since that video my orgasms have almost been dry (with very little cum coming out!) and its only now that theyre starting to slowly build up again, I hope I didn’t do any long lasting damage to myself!

So yeah be VERY carful, I only did light taps to the balls and I still almost destroyed them, this was a VERY scary experience and I don’t think ill ever be following non stroke tease instructions again.

Seraphox and the Admin team, although this video wasn’t on your site there are many teases which could cause pretty bad problems, is there any chance you could shove a sort of warning or at the very least disclaimer on the front page or on tease pages somewhere, this may make them think twice about following through on silly instructions while in a horny state. I wouldn’t want to think people have caused themselves real damage based on silly tease instructions.
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Leave it to me to ask this,...but could you point me in the direction of that video please?

Seriously, not that I will abuse myself to do damage, but I would love to see a good POV.

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Re: A warning based on something that just happened to me

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Indigo wrote: I understand where you're coming from, but in all honesty, if folks aren't smart enough to realize that they need to be careful with their bodies, and put a bit of thought into their actions before blindly following the directions that a tease may provide, perhaps they need to re-think their activities.

Past that, I really hope you're okay, reflex, and that everything goes back to normal. Although perhaps a visit to the doctor might be in order, just to make sure. Never hurts to get a professional opinion.

Happy Holidays,

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Thanks for the reply,

The thing is im normally very sane with what I do and dont do, but the video literally involved light tapping, nothing streneus, and as this place encourages exploration perhaps a warning would be good, I understand it would be a massive turn off, but I dont think it would destroy the atmosphere of the site if done right, safety first right?

I do appreciate its not my place to argue for a warning or whatever, just a suggestion from a member.

anyway rbtheservant it was a clubdom video with mistress kendra, thats all i remember right now sorry
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Like Indy said, you just need to know your limits.
Think before you act. Ofcourse you'll make mistakes. They're required to learn. But with or without a disclaimer, people will always be curious. So the only safe way to prevent most harm is destroying Milovana by removing most teases and thats no option :).

Hope you're regenerating quickly! :)

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Honestly, i would probably want to do the tease more if there was a warning. :) if i see a tease that says this could be dangerous, or extremely painful, or only for trained professionals, then i'm thinking DAMN, let me in! "what could be so bad that they had to put a warning? i have got to try this!" Then i would just be more dissapointed if it turned out it was nothing. Leave Milo like it is....how could anyone not love this place??? i'd also like to know what the video was....if it's free. :-D
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lol now im interested in watching the video to see what its all about. does anyone know a link to it or other videos that instruct you to ballbust or anything

thanks
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^^me too :-D
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Re: A warning based on something that just happened to me

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:lol: I love the responses here!

Again sorry I cant remember, it was a clubdom video that involved Mistress Kendra - the video itself wasnt that amazing or that 'dangerous' which is why I think even the stuff on here could cause seriuse damage to the wrong person!

That being said if I didnt have the scary experiance I had I would probably be just as curiuse as you all are
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I've put up a public quest to design a reasonable safety notice:

http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=4677

Please consider contributing. Thanks. :-)
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sexualreflex909 wrote:your testicles are so damn fragile, since that video my orgasms have almost been dry (with very little cum coming out!) and its only now that theyre starting to slowly build up again.
Contrary to popular folklore less than 2% of the volume of cum originates in the testicles.

Most of it comes from your prostate gland and there is usually small mount of urine that is still in the tubes...

Men who have had a vasectomy still cum, trust me on this one...
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