Help with chastity?

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Help with chastity?

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Hi all,
my wife and I are currently exploring the use of a chastitybelt for me. I bought a CB-6000 a while ago and I already wore it several times. The longest was for 29 hours.
Here comes my problem; it is extremly difficult for me to wear the CB at night.. During the day I can more or less control getting arroused (IF my Mistress doesn't do it...), but during the night that offcourse isn't possible. When I do get arroused at night, the CB slides forward and really crushes my balls. Now to some of you that might sound appealing, but it just isn't my cup of tea so to say. I already tried diffirent the different sizes that come with the CB, but the one i'm using now really seems the one best fitted for me.

The problem being that I (and my Mistress) really want to wear it for longer periods of time but it doesn't seem possible :-( Does any of you have any suggestions of how I can keep the CB in place during the night?? A "real" CB with waistbelt and all isn't an option because of the price, but maybe someone al already done some DIY and is willing to share possibility's for the CB-6000, because I don't think I'm the onlyone with this problem?

So any ideas or tips would be really helpfull!?

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you just need to suck it up and deal with the uncomfortable squeezing and tightness that occurs. There really is no solution without comprimising the purpose of the belt.
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I call this ring creep, as the intensity of the erection increases even chastised it pulls the ring away from the pelvis unless it is secured in some way as a gentleman's testicles seem to be more mobile and elastic at night. That is not my observation by the way but from someone who spent the night watching them.

Anchoring the device to a belt with a crotch chain attached to the top and from a loop at the bottom of the ring initially might provide some relief but you will find irritation at the bottom fixing point where it becomes less smooth beneath the sensitive ball sack.

The solution we have found is to either use a plug harness with a cock ring or a strap on harness with a cock ring. The CB device ring is worn first and then the harness is worn over that and then the CB fitting.

Pros: No more ring creep, no more crushed balls, no more waking your partner for release.
Cons: Morning wood is hell with bells on, welcome to the chaste slaves alarm clock.
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I had the same problems as you.But I got a PA.
So the ring is removed from around my balls and the CB tube left on.
The ring of the PA goes through the slot in the end of the CB tube and locked through the ring of the PA with the padlock.
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Same to me. The CB6000 at night is like hell. Can't sleep without getting awake. I don't like to wear it at night.
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I have the same CB and like one of the others mentioned.. If this is the one that you have and that you can afford. You're just gonna have to deal with it. After a few weeks, I was able to sleep through it and all was well. You just may have a longer time, for your body to get used to the situation/feelings. It should come in time. (sorry for the bad play on words....)

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I'm gonna chime in here, but from a different angle. I would wake up the same way while wearing this type device. i thought of it this way... my Mistress wanted me to suffer and i adore her anyway. So i felt the erection was due to intense sexual thoughts of Her. When i woke, i had a choice, automatically think of say... Rosie Odonnell and get soft quick or think and enjoy the thoughts of my GORGEOUS Mistress and suffer the pain. i chose suffering and She was pleased.
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Post by dubble »

Lots of good points, thoughts and recommendations. I think everyone is different and you have to find what works for you, what your tolerances are, how willing and determined you are.

I started with a cb2000 and it hurt like crazy at first. I'd go to sleep with it on but woke during the night and had to take it off. This went on for a couple weeks. Sleep was definitely not as good, but I was determined to make it work. I got more used to it. Then came the POI, small at first. Again, pretty serious hurting and sleepless nights. A few more weeks passed with this going on. It got to the point when I woke, I smiled thinking of another having that control over my orgasms and pleasures. It did become pleasurable for me. Then came the medium POI. They were pretty serious at first and for some time, but if you want something bad enough you'll get yourself through it. Now with medium POI installed in any of my 3 devices, I wake, but throb intentionally into them. I've come to love that pain and knowing I'm doing that for another, being controlled by another (I also now use A cb3000 and 'the curve'). It's exciting, frustrating, painful, but erotic to me. Overall it took me over two months to adjust.

So take your time, adjust things, experiment, get more comfortable with it all before getting discouraged so quickly. It is a big adjustment to make in life. Hang in there. It'll be worth it. Do it for her.

p.s. Make sure your base ring size is correct. I started using one ring size too small and it did the same thing to my balls, actually making them swell as well as hurt. Try going one size larger and see if it's any better. Get 'used to' it, then reduce ring size by one, once you are accustomed to it, and try it again. It's amazing the difference a 1/8" smaller (or larger) size ring can have.
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Definitely try to find/design a harness fitting that will pull the CB ring back to your body, that will almost certainly solve the ball-crushing problem, morning wood, however...no help there. (mine was, arguably worse, several times during ordinary wear, one of the boys decided to try to escape...try having that when dealing with customers :-( )
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i've not used any of the CB range, but i've seen them quite a bit. you could try attaching a length of cord from the bottom of the ring round the hips to the top of the ring. or your mistress could tie you to the bed without the belt on so you stay denied but still sleep.
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