Help!

[futuremistress69]

Greetings to the Milovana community!

I am currently in a long-distance, monogomous relationship. We are looking to spice things up a little bit. I found this, among other, sites on my boyfriends email-in box. I know that he wants me to turn him into my little slave. However, I need to do so as quickly as possible because we are not together for very long. Is there anyone out there with any advice for me? How can i quickly turn my man into the slave he wants to be? Please help!


Rachel

[Little Miss Jay]

Hi Rachel and welcome to Milovana!

I'm sure lots of us ladies here will have some ideas about how you could do this. I've actually started replying to the Pm you sent me earlier

Little Miss Jay x

[slave alexander]

Hiya future mistress Rachel!

There are quite a few teases here for couples which could be good for ideas just reading thro or even more fun doing them together

http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=63

http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=6528

there's loads more in the tease section http://www.milovana.com/webteases/?tags=for-couples

hope that's of some help; i'm never sure whether to answer these kinds of threads as it's v hard to advise someone you don't know at all

good luck tho

[Nika Ferlinghetti]

Hello Rachel:

Would you rather have me share my ideas here, or privately? I'll give you some general thoughts here, but if want to converse privately please feel free to contact me.

I think you should start with you, and what you want. This relationship should be focused on your needs. Lay down the law as to your limits and interests. Just as a submissive has limits, a domme does as well. Things you will not participate in might include significant pain or humiliation, for example, as well as the typical things like children, blood, etc.

I do believe orgasm control is an easy and very powerful technique. After just a few days of denial, he'll be quite a pliable boy. And this can readily be done long distance. You can also require that any stroking he does only be done with your permission and while you are monitoring him (i.e. via phone).

Nika

[Forevergallant]

Check out Miss Akashas site, Shes got a good guide for women jsut beginning to learn about domination.
www.akashaweb.com

I put a thorough stamp of approval on her site ;)

[Evals]

Check out Miss Akashas site, Shes got a good guide for women jsut beginning to learn about domination.
www.akashaweb.com

I put a thorough stamp of approval on her site ;)

Ditto!

[dubble]

Welcome to the site Rachel. Hope all goes well for you and that your b.f. doesn't read this thread.

As Nika said, tease and denial and humiliation are strong candidates for control. I'm sure LMJ gave you some great ideas as well.

My thoughts: You can always tie him up, then fit him with your own chastity device which you hold the only keys (devices are readily available on many websites now). Even better, take 'compromising' pics of him while he's tied. He'd be embarrassed if those pics got out and should submit quite easy. Kind of a blackmail thing, but if you're both really into each and trust one another, other it can be tons of fun. On the flip side, if things go bad, it could be real scary for him... But the pics should make sure things go your way.

Hope you keep us updated. k