How I told my girlfriend about my T&D fetish

[ThomasKu]

Thank you so much for sharing this!

I really hope things continue to go so well for you both! Please, if you have time, do keep us updated! :)

I couldn't say it in a better way! Always looking forward to reading more!

[uberbear01]

Heh, same here Thomas - I always keep checking back to this thread to see if there have been any updates! :)

Thank you again Chewit!

[chewit]

I'm glad you enjoy hearing about these experiences, I certainly enjoy writing them and re-living them..

There was one experience I didn't put on here that happened a month or so ago. It was probably one of the best I have had to be honest.

I'd often been subtle and not so subtle pointing out to my gf that I'd like to be handcuffed and teased a little. Well after being patient she surprised me one day.

We were watching tv, when she gave a look that let me know exactly what it was she wanted. She grabbed me by the hand and we went into the bedroom. Now I have to say, amazingly I wasn't actually really in the mood for once, but that all changed very quickly.

We got kissing and undressed and then she told me to lay down on the bed. I was more than a little surprised when she reached into the bedside drawer and pulled out the handcuffs. She handcuffed one hand to the left bedpost, and then the other to the right bedpost. Immediately I felt completely powerless and excited.

Me: They're a little tight, hurting my wrists..

Gf: You can take it, stop being a baby.

She then put the blindfold on me. Now this made a huge change as I was powerless to move and had no idea what she would do to me. What happened next was the icing on the cake, completely unexpected as I'd never told her I like a little pain.

She slapped me hard around the face and laughed. I felt a mixture of emotions, the first definitely being shock, the second a little fear and the third extremely excited....so much so that I actually let out a little laugh of delight. That was a mistake and greeted by another slap around the face, much harder than the first one. I didn't laugh the second time.

Gf: I see that you like that.

Me: I do.

The third slap I was kind of expecting and although it seems strange to type this, I really enjoyed it.

So, the teasing began next. Lots of caressing with one finger, very light stroking with no possibility of edging. After I don't know how long, maybe 30 minutes, she climbed on top of me and pulled the blindfold off.

Gf: I'm going to cum. You will just lay there, don't cum.

She started to pretty much ride me until she made herself cum. Then she stopped.

Gf: I'm going for a shower.

And that was that. She left me handcuffed there while she took a shower.

After about 20 minutes she came back laughing. I was absolutely desperate to cum and more or less squirming on the bed.

She began stroking me again, very lightly just enough to keep me hard but not get anywhere near the edge.

Gf: Poor thing, I've been tormenting you for 90 minutes. Would you like to cum yet?

Me: Please...

I was now begging. She began to stroke me properly, and each time I was about to cum she stopped and started grabbing my balls, waiting a while and then starting stroking again.

After she'd had enough she let me out of the handcuffs. I was half expecting her to tell me we were finished for now, but she actually pulled me towards her and let me enter her. Needless to say I was almost cumming immediately.

Gf: It looks like you've got yourself quite excited. You can cum for me now.

As per usual I took immediate advantage of this before she changed her mind, the orgasm was great, and again my gf had done something very special for me.

So tomorrow is our one year anniversary, she told me this morning after grabbing my cock in bed that I'd be waiting for the weekend, it's only been 4 days since she last let me cum and she wants me desperate. I think tomorrow I'll be getting lucky again, whether there'll be T&D I don't know. To be honest I'm just looking forward to enjoying the weekend with her, I'm thinking I'm a very lucky guy to have such a great gf.

My CB still hasn't been sent back, which means I'm free to stroke as long as I don't cum. I was thinking yesterday, at the moment I can stroke myself as long as there's no orgasm, I'm not allowed...ever.....I really like this thought :) Now when this CB comes back things are going to change, I'll be wearing it every day, basically then I am never going to get to stroke at all...not even to tease myself....the only relief I'll ever get is at the mercy of my gf......it's a scary thought, but it sure does excite me! Either way, my days of self orgasm are completely at an end :)

[uberbear01]

Happy anniversary! I hope you have fun! ;)

Thank you again for the updates! It must be such a weird knowing you'll not be able to touch your cock again unless your girlfriend *allows* you to!!!! It makes me light headed thinking about that...!

Good luck! Also, I'd like to dub you Sir Chewit for the updates and the sharing! lol

[chewit]

Just a quick update, the CB is back, they've made the alterations and now I'm wearing it....my days of stroking are well and truly finished....

My gf has already been teasing me today while wearing it. I have to say, she's surprising me more every time. Today I was playing the xbox and doing pretty well, of course my gf knew how to distract me. She was drinking a cup of tea and she started licking the cup Now to be honest at first I started laughing and wasn't too worried.

Gf: Imagine I was licking something else like this..

That got my attention and I turned towards her. She smiled.

Gf: Is there something you'd like?

I didn't even get a chance to answer. She started playing with my nipple, teasing and laughing. I could feel myself trying to get hard in the CB, quite unsuccessfully.

Gf: I know what you want. It's so easy to play this game with you when I enjoy it so much.

She moved her hand down and grabbed the tube of my CB. Then she started laughing.

Gf: Oh, you poor thing, you can't have anything cos you're locked up.

She laughed and went back to reading her book...

[chewit]

It's really starting to dawn on me that I'm never going to be stroking again....a very strange feeling that causes a mixture of emotions but without a doubt the dominating one is excitement.

My gf just left the flat, but before she went she dangled the key to my CB in front of me.

Gf: Would you like to be unlocked before I go?

Me: Please!

She started laughing.....the laugh that I love to hear because it completely sums up how much she's enjoying tormenting me.

Gf: Not a chance. Why don't you spend the afternoon watching a porno film just to remind you that you're wearing that CB.

She then left the flat singing 'I've got the power' and laughing to herself as she closed the door, leaving me sitting there with a look of astoundment on my face..

It really is amazing me how good she is at teasing, just a couple of sentences from her and I'm left in complete torment all afternoon. I don't think I've ever been so blissfully under someone's control. I'm starting to think that people who don't have this 'fetish' are seriously missing out lol.

[chewit]

So, it's now 6 days since I was put into my chastity device and I have to say it's a very different experience to the denial where I was allowed to at least stroke and edge even if I couldn't cum. Now things are much more intense as I am in complete denial and unable to touch at all. 6 days feel a lot longer..

Each morning I have been caressed and teased, with no stroking or edging, then showered and locked into the CB. Every evening I have been unlocked after getting into bed, my cock and balls caressed until I beg for release..and then told to sleep. All of this has been done so my gf can be sure I don't get any chance to stroke. There has also been no stroking or edging on her part either, just the caressing. During the day I've received a lot of verbal teasing. Now that I think about it, she's really been teasing me a hell of a lot this week....I'm sure you can understand this has kept me extremely excited and needless to say I have done all the housework, cooking and food shopping without question and also given my gf a lot of attention and massages....something I am sure she is enjoying immensely.

So last night we were in bed, she'd taken off the CB. She grabbed me by the balls as she so often does now and waited for me to get hard....it didn't take long.

Gf: Maybe you'll get lucky and have a wet dream tonight. That's the only way you're gonna get to cum.

She laughed.

Me: I don't think I will. Last time you kept me in denial for 2 weeks I didn't have one and it's only been 6 days.

She laughed again, although this one was a little more evil.

Gf: Maybe you'll have one after a month.

I wasn't sure what to make of this, she loves to keep me guessing as to when I'll cum next, so basically she's saying I've got a month like this. It drives me crazy not knowing and I know she enjoys teasing me like that.

Gf: Is it safe for you to wear your CB all the time, day and night?

Me: It is, but I think it can be painful sleeping at night.

Gf: That's good to know. Just so you know, if I go away for a few days, you'll be locked up during the whole time.

She didn't even acknowledge the idea of the pain at night, I know why, because it's irrelevant to her.

She started caressing my balls and cock until I was begging, then she actually started stroking it slowly.

Gf: Enjoy your few seconds of pleasure.

I was almost cumming after about 10 strokes. She stopped and to my amazement, slapped my balls. This was a first. She slapped them, not too hard but hard enough to make them hurt. Then she laughed.

Gf: One day you're going to masturbate in front of me, I want to watch.

Me: I'd love to

Gf: But not today, it's getting late and I'm a bit tired. Tomorrow I want you to shave me and then please me using just your tongue.

I was so happy to hear all this. This whole experience was like a dream come true.

Gf: Take off your boxer shorts, I want you to sleep naked.

I did what she asked, amazed that this was happening to me and she turned on her side.

Gf: Now come here and hug me.

I hugged her from behind with my groin firmly pressed against her buttocks.

Gf: Can you remember what it's like to cum honey? Soon you'll struggle to. Turn the light out.

I'm sure I don't need to explain how long it was before I got to sleep.

This morning I woke up as my gf had grabbed me by the balls. What a fantastic way to start the day!

Gf: Did you enjoy sleeping naked?

Me: I did, I was aware of it every time I woke up during the night.

I instinctively started caressing her back and shoulders. She let out a little sigh to tell me she liked it....then I stopped. At this she grabbed my balls and squeezed them. I knew what this meant, it meant why have you stopped. I continued caressing her.

After she'd had enough she starting teasing my cock with her hands until I was begging again to cum.

Gf: No, you're not going to cum, you like to be kept in denial remember. Have you started your 16 army exercise program yet. I want you to do it, I'm sure you're motivated enough by now.

She laughed.

Me: I'll start it today.

Gf: Good.

Then she started stroking me very slowly. I tried not to get to the edge to quickly so I could enjoy these precious moments but inevitably I was on the edge within 30 seconds....she stopped and slapped my balls once.

Gf: NO!

I was amazed, where was she learning to do all this? But before I had chance to think much she slapped them 3 times, much harder and with each slap said:

Gf: Malo Malo Malo

That means bad, bad, bad in Spanish. So, my balls were aching a fair bit, but I couldn't have been happier. I was beginning to think she'd found my milovana account as she was doing every thing so perfectly, but to be honest, seeing how much she enjoys all this I am really thinking she's actually just a natural.

Gf: I bet you'd love to be inside me now?

Me: I would

She laughed and said with an air of non importance.

Gf: Not now

She went back to caressing me, and I went back to begging.

Me: Please let me cum, can you at least tell me when it's going to be?

Gf: No, you know I don't like to plan the exact date. Wait here a moment.

She left the bedroom and came back with her laptop, I quickly saw that youporn was open. She then made me sit with her and watch porn while she just rested her hand on my cock, no stroking, no caressing, nothing. After about 10 minutes she was excited herself.

Gf: I'm going to put a condom on you and fuck you. The condom is so you won't feel so much, I think you might struggle otherwise not to cum

She made me fuck her until she came.

Gf: Keep going.

I carried on until I was about to cum

Gf: Stop, don't move.

She let me rest about 10 seconds and then started riding me very slowly until once again I was about to cum. Of course then she stopped. I immediately began some serious begging.

Gf: That's enough for you. You're not going to cum.

Me: Pleeeeeeeeeeese!

Gf: Do you really want to? Think about it..

Me: No......Yes....No

She laughed.....and then slapped my balls again!!

Gf: NO NO NO!

She really started laughing as I curled my legs up in agony..

Gf: Come here

She hugged me

Gf: Relax, it's time to have a little sleep.

Of course I couldn't sleep at all, I just laid there looking at how relaxed and content she looked after cumming....in complete shock at how my dreams were coming true. After about 10 minutes I got up, took a shower and went back into the bedroom. She locked the CB on me and I went to make her breakfast, blissfully tormented yet strangely contented.

After breakfast, as if I wasn't already tortured enough she said to me..

Gf: I'm going to have a sort through all my clothes.

She's just spent the last hour wearing nothing but a thong and high heels, putting on miniskirts, making me look and telling her whether she should keep them or not. Now, not wanting to be big headed or anything but I have to say everyone says my gf is a spitting image of penelope cruz, and given the fact that she models you can imagine how tormented I am looking at her amazing body. I don't say this to boast, more to give you an idea of how much I am being teased. She really is absoluteley stunning to look at and each day I wear this CB I can honestly say I feel like a really really lucky guy....although I honestly never knew a guy could be teased this intensely.

Gf: I'm going to wear this little dress out with you and my friends tonight.

She laughed.

Gf: And you're going to wear that CB

I just smiled.

[ThomasKu]

Oh my god - I can only repeat: Thank you for sharing!

While reading I thought a second that not stroking for a few days isn't that bad. Sometimes I'm just busy and don't even think about it. But being reminded not to be able and having a girlfriend looking like Penelope Cruz (that demands a picture-proof... *g) who is permanently teasing... well... I would be at attention the whole time...

[uberbear01]

Good lord man!

Ball-slapping (and the whole damn post) is just too hot! I dread to think how that must feel after 6 days without cumming! Again, thank you for the updates!

...wow...!

[chewit]

You're welcome for the updates guys. So, today is day 8 wearing the CB. I can't believe I haven't stroked at all for 8 days!

So, yesterday was kinda fun too. Being a Liverpool supporter I was getting ready to go to the pub to meet some friends and watch the game.

Gf: How long until you leave? Do you have time to shave me?

That definitely wasn't what I was expecting to hear.

Me: Er, I do.

My girlfriend laid on the bed and I began to shave her pussy. Afterwards of course I ended up making her cum with my tongue, don't ask me why but I was really keen to do it, well even more keen than usual.

Gf: Thanks, you can go and watch your football now. Make sure you don't come home too drunk.

As if to prove a point she took her keys out, gave them a jingle and laughed. That was it, no teasing, caressing or anything...let alone any chance of cumming.

So, I went to the pub, still wearing my CB. This was the first time out without my gf and with the guys so I was a little nervous, but also kinda excited. Anyway, if you're a football fan you'll know Liverpool won, hence I stayed out a little longer than planned for a couple more celebration drinks. Now, we left the first bar and headed to the next which was about a 20 minute walk. After about 10 minutes walking I was absolutely desperate for the bathroom, so were a couple of friends. Of course they had no trouble finding a discreet place to relieve themselves....I on the other hand realized I need to sit down to pee.....a thought that made me laugh a little....needless to say when we eventually arrived at the next bar sitting down and peeing was like heaven lol.

Of course I eventually arrived home a little drunk, but I'd stopped before things got too out of hand. My gf had cleaned the flat while I was out, Liverpool had won.....maybe, just maybe I'd get lucky and the day would be perfect...

After dinner and talking we went to the bedroom and my gf undressed. That was enough to make me start begging. She went to the drawer and took out a black leather glove. She pushed me onto the bed so I was laying on my back with my legs spread, and then she slapped the CB with the glove. Now, as it's a steel CB I obviously couldn't feel anything..and stupidly, I laughed...the fifth slap wasn't aimed at the CB, she lifted the CB and the fifth slap hit me straight on the balls. It was hard enough make them ache. She laughed and then unlocked me.

Gf: Go and take a shower, it's time for bed.

So I was in the shower, balls aching a little but still happy from the football and seriously hoping I'd be getting another happy ending soon. Why else would she be telling me to shower..

After the shower I got into bed. My gf immediately grabbed hold of my cock

Gf: Was it fun in the pub wearing that CB?

I explained the not able to pee story and we had a laugh about it.

Gf: You smell better now, not of beer and smoke (in Barcelona people still smoke in the bars)

'Ahhhh' I thought to myself, that's why I had to shower, not because I was necessarily going to get lucky.

She reached down and started stroking me....and got me to the edge quickly.

Gf: No...

She stopped.

Then she made me edge again, and stopped.

She laughed.

Gf: I hope you're not going to make so much noise when I stroke you in a couple of weeks time. Two of my friends are coming to visit. Do you think you'll be able to handle having 3 females in the flat?

Now, I'd already met one of these friends at the beach and I know they're certainly not shy about being topless in front of guys etc. so who knows what they'll be wearing coming out of the shower. I really don't need these kind of thoughts right now lol.

Gf: I think things are going to get very difficult for you when you're wearing your CB. That's right, it's not coming off just because we have visitors.

I was speechless, ok, so firstly three females in the flat. Secondly, they're not arriving until around the 10th of November, thats a lot more time in the CB with no release...

She started stroking me again, quite fast. I got to the edge really quickly and of course she stopped. Then just like the last time she slapped my balls, just the once but hard enough to make them ache.

Gf: No! No cumming, that's your punishment for coming home drunk when I told you not to.. Time to sleep.

She laughed and that was that. Luckily for me the alcohol played it's part and I got to sleep fairly quickly.

It looks like I'm gonna be in for an interesting time..

[camel]

Chewit,

Thanks much for sharing. It's an amazing thread!

Also, congratulations on not ruining it. I'd have probably made the mistake of giving her tons of suggestions (i.e. topping from the bottom) and it doesn't sound like she's been asking for your ideas much and is instead a true natural.

[chewit]

You're welcome, it's kinda cool to share the story. It's the only release I get lol

My gf made it quite clear that I don't become a pain and start pressuring her, making any kind of demands etc. It's good to have everything clear on each side before beginning this type of thing I think. Anyway, I have respected her wishes and things are going great, a little too great maybe lol.

She's relentless in teasing me, always giving me a little look and laughing or making comments. When we started I honestly thought 'ok, I'll be getting teased about once a week' but its several times a day.....and she's already told me it won't stop because it's so easy for her to do and she enjoys it.

This morning in bed she got on her knees, pulled her panties down and spread her pussy open.

Gf: Is this what you want?

I tried to touch her but she pushed me away, as usual laughing. Then she grabbed my cock, it was already hard. She didn't stroke it or anything tho, just gave it a little squeeze and then she went and showered. Less than 20 seconds and she'd teased me to the point where I was completely desperate. Next I showered and she locked me away, simple as that, and the thought went through my head....'another 12 hours before this will be coming off again'. Day 9 today and I am now in a pretty much permanent state of arousal.

She came home for lunch today, which of course was already prepared, on the table and the dishes cleaned. I've also already offered her a massage for tonight, it's amazing the effect a CB can have. Every time she leaves the flat she picks up her keys, looks at me and gives them a little jingle. Its a real surprise for me that little things like that can make the experience so much more intense. For example, I never get to lock or unlock myself, having her take of the device when we go to bed is completely humiliating and I have to say its my favourite part of the day, not because it means I might be getting some kind of stroking soon, but because it really enforces the control she has over me.

It's a strange feeling to have a real desire to cum, yet also want to be kept in denial forever lol

[uberbear01]

Great stuff Chewit! :) I'm glad Liverpool won for you too! Fernando Torres, Liverpool's number 9! lol I'm a Villa fan, maybe masochism is my thing? lol

Another top post though, thank you! :) I can't believe you have to wait until 10th November at least!! Yeesh! Good luck fella! lol

[chewit]

Your comment about Aston Villa fans being masochist made me laugh.

So, let me tell you about last night.

As usual my gf unlocked me so I could shower and get into bed. But before she did, she started rubbing her leg up against the CB and my balls. She was wearing these black kinda lace tights and of course I was trying to get hard in the CB. Now I'm sure you guys already know that the ring type device pulls as you try to get hard and it puts pressure on your balls. She didn't stop as she saw it was starting to hurt me. Instead she pressed up against me and started kissing me. Then of course she laughed. She mananged to get the tube of, the A-ring would have to wait until I was soft again..

Gf: Go and shower.

I came back from the shower and we got into bed. She started stroking me very slowly and I got to the edge in less than 20 seconds, it's crazy how easily you can get to the edge after being in a CB for a while.

Me: I'm on the edge.

She didn't stop.

Gf: You're going to cum.

I didn't argue, cumming was all I wanted to do and she continued stroking me, but very slowly.

I came and it was really good. I've never felt so under someone's complete control before.

She laughed.

Gf: I hope you enjoyed your surprise. Look at how much came out, I think you better go and shower again.

So, feeling VERY relaxed and content I fell asleep.

This morning I woke up around 9am, after sleeping really well. I laid there in bed thinking about how for the last 9 days I had woken up very early each morning, unable to sleep due to feeling really excited, not today though. Today I was completely relaxed and more than content. I started thinking to myself, now that we've finished our little CB game for a while I can finally stroke a little, and seeing as I've spent all week downloading porn it will be nice to be able to watch some and stroke, even if I'm not allowed to cum. This thought made me very happy.

Gf: I'm gonna go shower

She was in the bathroom and had just finished showering when I went in.

I looked at the CB.

Me: It'll be nice to not have to wear that today.

I was being serious, I was so relaxed and not too interested in cumming or being teased. You know how a guy can lose all interest after they've had their release.

Gf: What do you mean? You mean while you are doing your exercise program?

Me: Er, no I was actually just thinking in general.

She didn't laugh.

Gf: Of course you'll be wearing it today. Take your shower before I have to leave for work.

I showered, thinking to myself 'is she being serious?'

I went back into the bedroom with the CB in my hand

She started to put it on and I let out a kind of 'whimper' as if to say half joking half serious, 'I don't want to wear it'

Gf: Don't complain. You had a nice surprise last night and you slept like a baby.

Click. It was back on.

Gf: Understand something, the only time this comes off apart from to sleep is when you do your 16 week army exercise program, which you WILL start today.

She jangled the keys, laughed and left to go to work

Now, this has really really dawned on me. I'm back in chastity, and from the looks of things this is a permanent arrangement. I'm NEVER going to get to stroke my cock again, I'll only get pleasure when my gf wants me to feel it, and I'm always gonna have this CB on when she's not around.

Needless to say, the orgasm from last night is a distant memory and I'm now as excited as ever...I'm not sure how a little tease and denial play has suddenly changed into this permanent situation...not that I'm complaining, after all this has been my fantasy for a long long time. I sure am one happy guy and really appreciate how lucky I am to have such a great girlfriend......but then again maybe I should be thinking what have I gotten myself into lol.

[ThomasKu]

Hehehe, I always wonder why you don't start humping the sheets (or anything else) at night while still asleep :D Don't think too much about the denial - but I guess its hard with the CB and the permanent teasing... Just enjoy playing, as I enjoy reading. ;) Does your gf know about your reports here?
P.S.: What do you mean with "army exercise program"?