How I told my girlfriend about my T&D fetish

[green]

Fantastic, chewit.

I hope you keep us up to date, I'd love to know where this is heading :'D... Hopefully not anywhere where you regret your decision .

Well..., Congratulations! =).. enjoy the time :D.

-green-

[Tease'n'Deny]

What a great tale - thanks for sharing, and please keep the updates cumming while you're not...

Cheers,

TnD

[chewit]

So, day 11 I think, it's starting to feel like longer :P

Yesterday was fun. When my girlfriend came home she wanted to see the CB I was wearing, and of course the first thing she did was start laughing. But, nothing else..

Sometime during the afternoon, we were hugging and she started rubbing me through my jeans

Gf: Do you want me to take it off (more laughing)

Me: I can't believe its been 10 days and this is my first in the CB

Gf: 10 days?! Is it really, I didn't realize hahaha, probably because I have come 7 times in the last 10 days. At least you'll get to cum one day, I know the exact day, time, place and technique that will make you cum..

I really didn't know what to say

So, nothing else happened for the rest of the day, until we went to bed. I was waiting for her to join me..

Gf: I think I'm going to sleep naked (more laughing)

I decided not to ask for anything or to touch as I have learnt over the last 2 days when I do I get pushed away followed of course by more laughing.

So I waited and luckily she moved closer to press herself up against me.

Gf: Lets take that CB off

Needless to say I didn't need convincing..

We began to play a little and I was surprised we actually started having sex. It would be an understatement to say that I felt every singe movement even though we were going very slowly.

Gf: Stop moving, I want you to lay perfectly still

She then climbed on top of me and proceeded to tease me very slowly going up and down, while I was forced to stay motionless. After a minute or so she stopped

Gf: I want you to do something for me

She laid on her back

Gf: Get my vibrator

A knowing smile (again) let me know exactly what to do.

Gf: You know what I want. But....only use the vibrator while you are down there, I know how much you love to touch and lick me but you won't get that pleasure tonight.

It honestly drove me crazy not being able to use anything but the vibrator. So, after a minute or so she came. Foolishly I thought maybe today was the 'day' and I moved up to see if we'd be carrying on with sex, as she sometimes likes.

Gf: No no, I'm satisfied now. You won't be getting anything else tonight. But you can think of a number between 5 and 20.

Me: Ermmm (worrying)

Gf: Quickly!

Me: 17

Gf: Today is the 5th, maybe you'll be cumming on the 17th

More laughing. I was speechless

Me: ok (yet another look of delighted horror)

Gf: Noooo, I am only kidding, I already told you today that I know the exact date and time

Me: Can you at least give me a clue as to when

Gf: No amor. Go to sleep. You've got an early start tomorrow..

Of course as she rolled over on her side, pulled me towards her so the belt pushed into her from behind it took some considerable time to calm down enough to go sleep

So today I woke up and can honestly say I didn't know it was possible to feel this excited. It's starting to seem like just about every girl I see turns me on yet I have a complete sense of loyalty to my GF (not that I didn't before lol).

Day 12 tomorrow.....

[ThomasKu]

So, did she let you cum on the 17th or are you still waiting?

[chewit]

In the end I had to do 2 weeks. I was pretty desperate after that, I take my hat off to guys that manage months at a time! Since then we had a little break from T&D, I don't want to overwhelm my gf with our new game ;)

Of course, she now knows what drives me crazy tho, so when she makes me wait 8 days like last week I absolutely love it.

I've ordered another chastity belt, this time a metal one, the shut rondo. Anyone have any experience of whether these are good or not?

[ThomasKu]

I've ordered another chastity belt, this time a metal one...

Looks like you already got this one?! Hehe...

You can always post here what else your gf does to you - sure everyone would appreciate that ;)

[Little Miss Jay]

Hi Chewit,

Sorry if this has been mentioned before, Is that you in your avatar picture? I love the chastity belt! What is it called?

Little Miss Jay x

[chewit]

Hi Mistress Jay,

No need to apologise. I hope everything's well with you!

It is me, it's my new 'shut rondo' tube. If you're interested in seeing more here's the link to the guy who makes them. They're not the cheapest and there's a waiting list of about 4 weeks (they get shipped from Germany) but they are well worth the wait and there's some great stuff on the site!

http://www.gerecke-kg.de/index_e.html

Happy surfing and let me know if you need anymore info

Chewit

[chewit]

Thank's indigo, I've been doing some flash teases but there's not really much of a story line to them..more or less command based teases. If I can think of an idea I'll give it a go writing a non flash tease sometime.

Anyway, as a quick update I thought I'd tell you all how my day went today. So, as I'm sure you know, some days when you're being denied are not as good as others, I mean you can't expect your gf to always be in the mood to tease etc. so some days over the last week or so have been a little tougher as I have had to suffer with very little attention.

Of course, this has served very quickly to make me much more attentive to my gf. Needless to say, a couple of nights ago I was in bed giving her a massage. After she was very happy with me.

Gf: That was amazing. You're always doing these things for me, there must be something you'd like me to do?

I know it sounds like something out of a tease, but that's exactly what she said.

Me: Well you know how much I like to be denied

I'm not ashamed to admit this came out as a blatant hint. At this my girlfriend started laughing..

Gf: Ok, you're going to beg me....but not now, I'm relaxed from the massage.

With that she grabbed my cock and squeezed it once.

Gf: Go to sleep.

So, just from one squeeze I was hard and excited about what the days would bring and of course unable to sleep.

The next day was reasonably uneventful at least for me. My girlfriend wanted me to 'shave' her, which inevitably led to me pleasing her with my tongue. After she came she stopped and we got ready to go out, that was it...no teasing or anything for me, but I've learnt my place...sometimes the best thing to do is not apply any pressure.

Today however was great. We woke up and she began caressing my cock and balls, I use the word caress because there really wasn't anything I'd call stroking. After about 5 minutes of her toying with me (she loves to tease and make my cock twitch about, she laughs a lot and it makes me even more excited) I was unbelievably hard.

Gf: Will you put it inside me, it's so hard it's making me excited too

She laughed, climbed on top of me and let me slide inside her. Next she began to move herself back and forwards, getting more and more excited. Well obviously I started 'moving' myself.

Gf: What are you doing? Stay still.

This turned me on even more, she was basically using me to cum and not letting me do anything, although obviously I was enjoying it too. After probably 30 seconds more I involuntarily began moving my hips.

Gf: Stop, I told you not to move.

I was in heaven. After about another 20 seconds she came, then she pulled me on top of her and let me have some fun. I was going fairly slow and I have to say I was loving it. Of course after very little time I was so excited I was about to cum...then I heard the words I love to hear but at the same time destroy me, how she knows I'm going to cum is a mystery to me!

Gf. Stop, that's enough.

She pushed me away and laughed. We sat talking for a few minutes and I told her how happy she was making me keeping me denied, it's been 7 days since my last release, from one of her handjobs. (I'm never allowed to stroke and cum alone, the last time was back in April!!) She also told me how easy it is to keep me in denial. Anyway, she wasn't finished with me, she went back to caressing my cock and balls, laughing at how it twitched and amazed I was so hard for so long....she kept this up for about 10 minutes. At the end I was unbelievably excited, and do you know what she did..just to top things off...she sat there and masturbated to make herself cum again while I was allowed to kiss her.

Gf: Three orgasms in 2 days for me

She smiled and got out of bed

Gf: Let's go and make breakfast.

What can I say....

[Foxhawke]

Amazing story. Thanks for sharing chewit. I wish to one day be lucky enough to meet someone who'd play with me like that.

[uberbear01]

Thank you so much for sharing this!

I really hope things continue to go so well for you both! Please, if you have time, do keep us updated! :)

[chewit]

Ok, I have to tell you that last night was even better.

As you know I'd already had a lot of 'fun' waking up in the morning and to be honest last night I wasn't really expecting anything at all, especially as my gf had already came twice that day....but due to a little luck from my neighbours I had an amazing time.

So, we went to bed together just like normal and we were lying there talking. All of a sudden we both stopped due to the noise coming from the flat below. Well, to put it bluntly the couple in the flat below us were from the sounds of it having very very satisfying sex. The girl was almost screaming with pleasure and the guy pretty much the same. My gf found this quite funny as we've been in this flat 4 months and never heard them ever....I made a joke and said maybe he gets denied even more than me :) Anyway it went quiet for a couple of minutes and then the noises started again.....this pattern continued for about 20 minutes...stop start stop start. Finally my girlfriend was on all fours with her ear pressed to the floor listening. Now, the site of her in that position naked really wasn't helping me as I'd suffered all day wanting to cum..

Gf: It sounds like it's two girls down there now!

Me: Are you serious? Please don't tell me that or I'm never gonna get to sleep.

With that we both laughed. Well, the 'people' downstairs had obviously had enough and no more noise was heard. We were back in bed and my gf noticed that not only was I hard but pretty much dripping precum. Then she gave me the look I love to see, the smile that tells me she loves to tease me. She made me lay back on the bed, pulled my boxers down and proceeded to start giving me the slowest blowjob ever. Well you can imagine that it took practically no time before I was about to cum. She stopped for a few seconds, then started again changing between the blowjob and squeezing my balls. Again as soon as I was getting near to the edge she stopped. This went on until I had edged four times. Then she stopped. It was time to go back to just caressing, no possibility of edging, just pure torture that all I was getting was very softly caressed.

Gf: Pobrecito (Spanish for 'poor little thing')

She then stopped touching my cock completely. We started kissing and I was unbelievably desperate to cum, something I shared with my gf as I began to beg. Each time I tried to touch her she pushed me away laughing. I really was desperate, I can't put into words just how much. I'm not sure how but eventually I ended up as so many times I do with my head between her legs....now I honestly thought after cuming twice that day that she'd maybe let me play with her for a little why and then stop, so you can imagine my surprise when she pulled my head closer and made me make her cum again with my tongue.

At this point I thought maybe she'd take pity on me as she has done a couple of times in the past, saying no a lot and then surprising me and letting me cum. Tonight was not going to be the case. She kissed me and said thankyou for an amazing orgasm, she then put her head down by my cock, kissed it once and spoke to it in the most sympathetic yet almost evil voice...

Gf: When's it going to be your turn you poor little thing.

She returned to lying down normally again and laughed, just a little laugh.

Gf: You know, there's no better feeling than how relaxed you are just after cumming.

She let out a sigh of complete and utter contentment.

Gf: Will you turn the light out honey?

Again, like so many times before, I couldn't tell you how long I was laid there in the dark before I was able to get to sleep..

[uberbear01]

she then put her head down by my cock, kissed it once and spoke to it in the most sympathetic yet almost evil voice...

Gf: When's it going to be your turn you poor little thing.

She returned to lying down normally again and laughed, just a little laugh.

Gf: You know, there's no better feeling than how relaxed you are just after cumming.

She let out a sigh of complete and utter contentment.

Gf: Will you turn the light out honey?

You're a better man than me, Chewit! I really don't know how I would cope!!!!
Thank you again!

[chewit]

I don't know how I cope either lol, but I'm not complaining...

Last night we were in bed everything started with a story.

Gf: You know, you're a little similar to those priests that make a vow of celibacy. So that they're not allowed to masturbate, have sex etc.

This made me smile, I'd never thought about it like that.

Gf: You know what I'd like to do to a priest?

I really didn't see where this was going but maybe I should have known.

Gf: I would kidnap him, tie him to the bed and test him. I would try to make him cum, stroking him, fucking him, whatever it took to get him hard. Now I know, he probably wouldn't get hard if he really feared god etc, but just maybe he'd have a weakness. So, I'd spend days tormenting him to find that weakness.

At this point I was debating whether to ask her to marry me lol

Gf: Once I'd found that weakness do you know what I'd do next? I'd tease him to the point of orgasm everyday, until he couldn't take anymore, until he was begging ME to let him cum. So that I knew I had broken him.

I was in a little shock. This bordered on pure evil yet I loved it

Gf: Well honey, you're my priest.

I was blissfully speechless.

So after this, we got talking again about different things to do with sex.

Gf: You're as hard as an adolescent teenager

This made her laugh and she grabbed my cock again.

Gf: How did you used to stroke this thing when you were younger.....fast?

With that she started stroking it really fast, and I reckon I managed about 10 strokes before I felt like I was gonna cum....of course she then slowed it right down...

Gf: Or did you prefer it slower....

Me: Fast..

She went fast again, very fast and I practically got straight to the edge. Of course from the noise I was making she knew to slow it right down again. Then she stopped and started laughing, quite a lot of laughing.

Gf: Poor thing, who knows when you'll be cumming again

More laughing

Gf: You know, all this talk of sex has got me kind of excited.

She didn't need to say more. I knew what to do. I began to caress her and moved my way down to give her oral sex. After less than 30 seconds..

Gf: Stop, stop

Me: What is it?

I was thinking, she's just doing this to get me excited and now she's going to tell me to go to sleep.

Gf: You're going to make me cum and I don't want to cum too soon. Come here I'm going to give you a blowjob

This made me smile, a blowjob without cumming is the perfect gift....although I did feel it was getting very difficult now, not being able to cum. And knowing she's not going to let me doubles the excitement, it's like a vicious circle..she stopped and I began caressing her body, all the while thinking that I'm actually teasing her now, at her request. After a little while I went back to pleasuring her orally and she came.

Gf: Come here

She grabbed hold of me and slid my cock inside her. This was getting seriously difficult. I could feel every single tiny movement, multiplied by 10. I started moving in and out and immediately told her I was going to cum

Gf: Do you want to cum for me?

Me: Please

I genuinely meant it, I was practically begging and although a part of me always wants to be kept in denial I inevitably reach this point after so much teasing where I will cum without question, given the opportunity.

Gf: No

She laughed

Me: Pleeeeeease

Gf: Would you like to fuck me from behind, I know that's your favourite position

Me: I would

So we started again, very slowly

Gf: You can cum

I didn't need any more...I came within 2 seconds, before she might change her mind, and like always after so much teasing and waiting it was great! This morning I woke up and still felt that blissful relief, like I'd only just finished.

So, I guess there won't be anymore entries for a few days now. Until she teases me again. I'm waiting again for my CB, I sent the shut rondo back as it wasn't the size I ordered. It should be here by Friday. My gf has told me how things will work. She keeps the key, I wear the device during the day (my god, no stroking to webteases, not even to edge, that's gonna be tough). At night I sleep without the device, like she said..

Gf: You don't need to be wearing it next to me in bed. You won't touch yourself while I'm there, and that way I can tease you easily.

I couldn't agree more :)

[florida32835]

You are the utter envy of every guy here. Does your GF have a sister, cousin, or a friend?