Ruined orgasms?

matt2betied · Post by **matt2betied** » Wed Jun 06, 2007 2:34 pm

Can anyone suggest ways for me to ruin my own orgasms? My Mistress is not with me, and neither of us could figure out quite how to do it, but She wants me to ruin my orgasm for Her.

Thank you in advance

dominion · Post by **dominion** » Wed Jun 06, 2007 3:44 pm

let go just as you spurt, that will definitely ruin the orgasm....
takes a lot of discipline tho

MaddieFay · Post by **MaddieFay** » Wed Jun 06, 2007 8:00 pm

That's the only way I know of. Just let go as soon as the first spurt comes and watch the rest dribble out.

Once you get used to that feeling, you'll be able to let go before you spurt and let it all run out without ever actually cumming. Do that a few times, and you'll be well drained and extremely frustrated.

chastiseme · Post by **chastiseme** » Thu Jun 07, 2007 12:44 am

when you feel that you are on the edge just stop stroking and gently with your finger rub that "million dollar spot" (if you don't know what that is let me know) and just as you feel that you're over the edge stop touching yourself and remove any stimulation ... in about 5 seconds later you'll have cum dribbling out without any muscle contractions ...

As isurfer mentioned you'll get better and better at it as you practice, so have fun

MoneyMan07 · Post by **MoneyMan07** » Thu Jun 07, 2007 2:29 am

Hey, theres a pretty much all you need to know site for it. Here's a link:

http://www.taylorsteases.com/roguide/index.html

Mz_Teneale · Post by **Mz_Teneale** » Thu Jun 07, 2007 11:37 am

Hey!

I love giving abandonned orgasms! Or, i should say loved... (still no new bf)

I find it so funny to see the guy's face, as he feels that first micro second of pleasure before it becomes so damn frustrating for him! Im sorry but i havnt got many tips for the DIY'ers, although, Taylor's Teases is an EXCELLENT resource for this kind of thing... One of my favourite teasing web sites!

subglyn · Post by **subglyn** » Fri Jun 15, 2007 10:30 pm

Ruined are the worst, but the thought of them is so hot. Just let go right as things start and that should do it.

dominion · Post by **dominion** » Sat Jun 16, 2007 4:25 pm

ruined orgasms....

I would never wish it upon someone else... makes one feels so horny for days after, yet can do nothing about it

tfwater · Post by **tfwater** » Sat Jun 16, 2007 5:56 pm

jp wrote:I've tried to ruin my own orgasms, but it just doesn't work for me... if I cum I feel so relieved, no matter how I cum. I've never had someone do it to me, only tried doing it to myself. So maybe my subconsious really won't let me ruin it. Otherwise, I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

I usually feel that same way. Even though I don't get much pleasure at all from a ruined orgasm, the fact that I came is usually satisfying enough to me. I've never really felt the frustration of it.

MaddieFay · Post by **MaddieFay** » Sat Jun 16, 2007 8:32 pm

I usually feel extremely energized after one. My body's all full of hormones (maybe, I really don't know to be honest) and I've got tuns of energy. But, since I technically emptied my prostate, I know that I won't be able to try to cum for a few hours, so I end up with a tun of energy and no place to use it.

To be honest, sometimes I have a ruined orgasm before working out for the extra energy boost.

It's also nice for when you are all horned up but have something to do and you don't have time for the full energy drain of a real orgasm. Just lighten the load a bit, and you're good to go.

Makarov · Post by **Makarov** » Sun Jun 17, 2007 4:57 am

If you're getting pleasure out of your ruined orgasm, you're probably doing it wrong. So, here's something that might work out. I haven't tried it yet due to current promise to the mean girls club, but I think it should work.

Reach the edge, what you think is the absolute edge and stroke five times more, and let go.

Dontask · Post by **Dontask** » Sun Jun 17, 2007 5:11 am

Get yourself to right to the edge of orgasm.

Let go. If you were really close you will have a small amount of cum dribble out.

At this point you can wait a minute or so and continue stroking and do the same thing again. Keep on letting go before you feel the rush of an orgasm. You should be able to keep on losing just a little bit of cum. You can do this several time.

You can also just stroke till you feel the orgasm kick in and let go. You'll shoot mostly like a regular orgasm, just not as much pleasure behind it.

There's also using pain to ruin it. When you get on the edge of orgasm slap your balls hard with a ruler or your hand. Just keep on slapping them till the orgasm happens, but is ruined, or the feeling subsides and you start over.

There are plenty of ways to do it, but the main thing is don't keep stroking once the orgasm starts.

alpahde5 · Post by **alpahde5** » Sun Jun 17, 2007 8:36 am

I hate them, they turn me on like hell though to think about them, but the only couple of times i've actually done them i've still been so horny that a few mins later im back whacking off again.

big_tease · Post by **big_tease** » Sun Jun 17, 2007 8:39 am

Mz_Teneale wrote:Hey!

I love giving abandonned orgasms! Or, i should say loved... (still no new bf)

I find it so funny to see the guy's face, as he feels that first micro second of pleasure before it becomes so damn frustrating for him! Im sorry but i havnt got many tips for the DIY'ers, although, Taylor's Teases is an EXCELLENT resource for this kind of thing... One of my favourite teasing web sites!

I'm with you, it's a big turn on to see that happen. Not feeling it first hand, I probably kept stimulating for too long. If you really want to, stop before you think you've gone too far, if you haven't gone far enough, you can always try again.

Post by **dark** » Sun Jun 17, 2007 9:31 am

jp wrote:Well, after the Mean Girls Club, I may have to try some of those, Dontask. As I said before... just the relief of emptying my balls makes it feel like, well, relief. I thought the whole point of ruining an orgasm was so that you not only don't get the pleasure of an orgasm, but you don't get that feeling of relief.

Then you should try out a prostata massage

For me a ruined orgasm is hell! It's so unsatisfying, I prefer to be denied some days more and get a real orgasm than have a ruined orgasm.