[Discussion] Do you think an AI sexual heaven will exist?

[Alex69]

Hey, I opened this thread to speculate, imagine, think of a better future. Or, at least, a more dopamine-intense future.

Introduction

For many years, I’ve used videos such as CH or more recently PMVs to ease my sexual needs. Despite the fact that I am average looking (leaning towards the attractive side), other factors such as not being physically very masculine, or rude, or dominating, but rather being emotional, relatively weak and submissive, have made me not very sexually active. At least, not as much as I desired (as most men LOL).

Adding to that, is the fact that what really turns me on, maybe influenced by porn like Nubiles, WowGirls or Ultrafine, are women in their 22-25, with natural breasts -even if those aren’t too big-, pale and soft skin… and beautiful faces. You know, beautiful cute girls.

However, in real world, approaching this type of girls is extremely difficult. I can pass as a 30yo guy, despite being quite older, but they get defensive, demand to know your real age, and usually hang out with guys that look quite older than me, but are younger than me. It’s kind of a paradox. There are women on their 40s that I still like, but those are very, very rare. There’s an interesting niche on the 30-35 population but honestly, the ones that are worth it are already married or with kids. And the ones that aren’t, are too focused on being moms.

All of that introduction is a bit of context to know my situation, and maybe you can identify with that… or not.

An AI sexual heaven

So… with all this AI explosion we’re experiencing… I was wondering, what if all of that sexual gratification that we crave, the act of mating with beautiful women, could be made true through virtual assistants?

I know the point we’re at in 2025. We have large language models, that are capable of generating smut, erotic ideas, games, pictures, voice, and even video. We also have had VR headsets in the market for at least a decade, right? And the immersion in virtual worlds is only starting…

My question is: do you think that, in the next 5 to 10 years, we will be able to have a virtual sex life almost as fulfillng as the real thing? I know generating tactile sensations all over the body is difficult, but maybe NeuralLink (or something similar) finally is made possible.

So there are two routes I envision for this sexual utopia: The inwards route (Neural Link and similar neural interfaces) and the outwards route (Hyper realistic sex dolls with emotions and self agency).

Although the sex dolls are a thing, I am not quite sure we will see realistic enough ones at an affordable price any time soon. And I am afraid the realism won’t be quite there… Their skin is silicone. And if they are able to move by themselves, all of that mechanical chasis will be ultra expensive. They should be powered by an LLM, sure, but that’s not the hardest part, but rather the mechanical and realistic one.

So that leaves me with the more substantial, interesting, realistic experience, the one that made me open this thread, one that could be affordable for everyone and satisfy us in unlimited ways: The inwards route, maybe assisted by VR headsets in the beginning, and a Neural-Link-like connection in the future to experience what we desire with a customized, trained AI.

Do you think we will get something as realistic and satisfying as that Black Mirror episode where two friends start playing a VR fighting game where they incarnate the players, an attractive guy and an attractive woman, and instead of fighting they end up having sex using their avatars? That’s the utopia I envision. What I’d really love to experience. Being able to incarnate a hot, customized avatar with full body sensitivity, and interact with other hot avatars occupied either by AIs or other players.

Do you think we will be able to connect to a virtual reality where all the experiences we nowadays enjoy through the CH videos, or the e-stim videos (such as the new Euphoria series), are perceived it as if they were real? Dreams, and lucid dreams, show us that it is possible. A paradise where we could write our own fantasies, be the dominant or the slave, or switch, try new things, experience sex in all of their forms (genital, anal…), all of that with the confidence that all is ruled by an AI.

I mean, the technological advances are huge, and at this pace, I think we could live enough to see this technologies become a reality, but I’d like to know what do you think about it.

Will it happen? Soon enough? How do you envision it?

[ostermanblue2]

The AI future I'm hoping for is one in which the AI helps humans connect with each other without becoming a substitution for connection with each other. I am hoping it makes technology more invisible in our lives. Full dive experiences that involve real actual other humans could be interesting too--like in Demolition Man! Like how abstract it became by that point in the future because sex became so virtual that intercourse was no longer needed as a metaphor.

Gonna say this because it feels contextually relevant: I can totally see the appeal of the AI utopia youre imagining in that everything could be totally customized to your preferences etc, and you've clearly given this fantasy a lot of thought. But going back to the beginning where youre talking about traits you have i.e. submissiveness and less conventionally masculine appearance, I've definitely seen people with those traits who are very successful in life and you could reframe those as positive qualities the right person will find desirable. There are women who are as unconventional in their preferences as you are, and all in all the dominant, aggressive type is appealing only to a subset of women and probably it's less important than you think. Basically, us nerds end up with smarter and more reliable partners because we have patience, self-restraint, and curiosity. While you're waiting for Neuralink to develop you could also invest energy in your health, hobbies, and friendships because in truth those are the higher priorities for IRL dating.

Wrote this on the small screen, pardon any typos.

[edger477]

I'm gonna drop the odd one here.

I think you are now at the initial stage of where Brendan Fraser was just when he met Elizabeth Hurley in Bedazzled.

You have a way to make yourself happy, and you gonna go for it. But, once you get there, something will be missing. And no matter what you try, there is always something wrong.

My point is, you might be wasting time. If you spend some time studying quantum physics and listening to leading scientists in that field, you will see that they don't think this physical world is fundamental. There is informational layer below it, it is all information, mathematics, probabilities and hidden links and dependencies between them. I am not saying that is the case, but it could already be what you are wishing for, just after many iterations we found that only way we can experience real feeling of pleasure and achievement is by making it very hard to reach the goals.

I would say to hedge your bets: while you wait for AI sexual heaven to arrive, go do something hard. If you don't know what, chose something that takes time. Learn to play an instrument well. Start playing it in public. Or start going to gym regularly. No giving up, for 2 years, 3-4 times a week. Don't try to push to huge weights, but to create beautiful form and do everything perfectly. Make David out of your body. Then, not only you will experience pleasure for persisting in your effort, but after you have done that, you will not be submissive, you will connect to energy cute women crave, strong, confident, protector, source of divine masculinity, not the toxic one. And you won't have to deal with women demanding to know your age, they will just say "no way" when you say it and it will not be an issue. Reward is sweet when is earned, not so much when you cheat to it.

[avatarbr]

Aren't there some web controlled toys?

Mix that with VR and AI, and you could get some initial idea about the future.