Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

[brickhouse05]

Hey!
24NB submissive beta here just looking to serve someone. If you're looking for a sub to own and control, just shoot me a pm!

I'm into chastity, edging, censored porn, feminization, cbt, and probably anything else you want as long as it doesn't interfere with the following limits: blood, scat, permanent bodily harm, findom.

I'm struggling to finish up locktober right now, and I'd really like to be pushed through nnn.

I'd love to serve any masters or mistresses looking to tease a beta sub. Can't wait to talk!

[Jamatora]

Searching for a submissive woman to play with and chat to
Hey! I am searching for a woman who would like to be commanded and teased, and who is ready to serve.
I am especially interested in making you do the things I want to see, including a wide range of kinks that you are ready to explore or try out. I would also be interested in giving sessions to you. It should be like a good friendship where you can live out your kinks and I can dominate you online. I am in Germany for time zones online, but I am also open to meeting in real life.
Greetings!

[LillyRose]

Hello All!

I'm Lilly, 30 and from Germany. I am currently looking for someone that wants to lock me up and tease me. I love to get teased or told how to tease myself to all kinds of stuff. I do like to still cum in chastity. How that happens Im open for most stuff, but I still do like my orgasms :3 Preferably someone from Europe or at least someone with a similar timezone(UTC+2).

A little bit about me. I'm a huge nerd and love comic, anime and manga. I play a lot of Games and read a lot of books. Another big Hobby is PnP(Mainly DnD) and roleplay. I'm roughly 1,75, have long blonde hair and am a little bit chubby.

Now my kinks are: Bondage, Anal, orgasm control/ruined orgasm/chastity(would love to rarely get unlocked), humiliation/degradation, name-calling, Latex(even if I don't have any), nipple play, censors, hentai, porn, rules.

Limits: Scat, Blood, permanent damage, body writing, findom and exhibitionism

If you want to know more or if I missed something just write me! Im happy to answer questions

[AsexualCake]

Hello My name is Cake and I'm looking for someone to help me experiment more with denial. That could either be someone dominent to force me to stick to things more reliably or like a partner in crime to keep each other accountable. I have been around in the HMCP thread lately.

One would consider me quite the oddball for being active on Milovana, since I identify to be asexual. There is a running gag in our community that asexuals would rather do anything else than have sex. Baking cake is one of them - hence my name. Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, not a dislike of sex or masturbation itself. Like a heterosexual is (generally) not attracted to their own gender, I'm not sexually attracted to anyone. It's more about the aesthetics of women that arouse me.

Asexual people might still engage in sexual activity despite lacking the attraction for various reasons like stress relief or the dopamine rush it comes with. From my personal experience it feels way harder to engage in masturbation and sort of not get distracted midway through. Fiddling with webteases, forum games or videos shared on here helps me immensly. It adds just the right amount of playfulness, maybe even gamification, I need to enjoy myself.

[raevenisgone]

Hi!! My name's Raven and I'm a sub looking for a dom for a one time tease only. It can go on for a few days depending on the tease and denial game we'll be playing and depending on whatever we're both comfortable with. I want this to be purely anonymous and online. For more details about me you can check my profile with all my turn ons and turn offs listed there. I'm bisexual so I'm fine with both men and women. (I'm a female) feel free to reach out and ask whatever you're curious about! I love answering questions. make it fun!!!

[Lustkontrolleur]

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[Lustkontrolleur]

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[raevenisgone]

Hi!! My name's Raven and I'm a sub looking for a dom for a one time tease only. It can go on for a few days depending on the tease and denial game we'll be playing and depending on whatever we're both comfortable with. I want this to be purely anonymous and online. For more details about me you can check my profile with all my turn ons and turn offs listed there. I'm bisexual so I'm fine with both men and women. (I'm a female) feel free to reach out and ask whatever you're curious about! I love answering questions. make it fun!!!

[Master89]

Hi everyone~ 35 male submissive here. Im looking for a long term online Mistress/Master to take complete control over my pathetic little cock and balls. I want to be your 24/7 slave, forced to edge and suffer for your amusement. I enjoy orgasm control, cbt, sph, semi public/online humiliation. Im also ok with sending pictures/discord sessions as proof. If you're at all interested, im looking forward to hearing from you in my dm's

[dmas964]

First of all, I must say that I am a very shy person. So it took me a long time to gather the courage to write this message. I am a total beginner in the world of femdom. I have absolutely no experience face to face only fantasies. So you could say I'm looking for a Mistress, who will have the patience to introduce someone completely inexperienced and shy to the world of femdom.

My turn ons:
Chastity
Humiliation / Degredation
Petplay
Pain
Forced Bi
Cuckold

My turn offs:
Financial Dom
Medical
Bathroom control

[ChrisHolm]

Hello,
just trying to find a match for online play. I would really appreciate to please a dominant woman by doing what she wants me to do.
My turn ons are: femdom, chastity, sph, light feminization, panties, adoration, mindfuck, worship, verbal humiliation, seduction, tease and denial, light cbt, buttplug and rolegames.

I have got some remote toys availabe, like lock or vibe, if you like this. I am willing to prepare scenarios as requested, as long my turn offs a respected, see profile.

I am looking forward to any pms, let's find out if it is a match.

[thebigsleep97]

M25 sub looking for domme - 39 days of denial and counting...

Initially I planned to keep myself denied for one full year.
I started on December 17, 2025, with the earliest release date of January 1, 2027 in mind.

Now, I tend to struggle with having too many wet dreams during denial periods (resulting in a feeling of failure) and I also want to establish a healthier lifestyle overall. Therefore I decided to add one more week of denial for every day that I

1. have a wet dream
2. skip my workout
3. don't drink at least 2L of water

Well, with 5 wet dreams and 1 skipped workout already on the clock, my earliest date of release right now is February 14, 2027

My ultimate goal though is, to safe all my potential orgasms for a domme who makes me earn them. So if there is a female dominant out there who wants to go on this journey with me, my DMs are open. I'm also very open to discuss certain things, maybe to try out new stuff and also just talking casually if that is what you desire!

[slaveq]

Why is it so hard to get a domme to a sissyslut.

I am submissive sissyslut, with no masculinity left.

I have a limp clit and well trained fuck holes.

I want to be somebodys slave sissyslut.

slaveq

[Expert_Affect]

Hello I'm Hannah.


I'm a 26 year old sissy from Germany and I'm looking for a mistress or master who wants to fulfill some fantasies with me.

I love anal play, Chastity Play, Feminization, Humiliation, Denial, Edging, Spanking, Moderate amount of pain, i love seeing my Dom Happy and fufill their fantasies if possible, i like getting pegged, Getting spit on beeing told what im allowed to fap to and what im not, i Currently have Puryfi as a addon installed that can censor videos and pictures in real time.
i love the idea of beeing cucked dont know what else i could include here x.x

I dislike public exposure i dislike blodd knife play needle play scat, i dislike beeing denied a Orgasm for longer then a week.
if you need any more information look at my profile or message me :3

i really need a Mistress or Master to turn me into a Sissy Loser

[mowlboon]

Hello everyone,

I’m new to exploring chastity and looking for a dominant partner to guide me through this journey. I have a Master, who does not practice chastity himself, but is supportive and happy to “lend” me for this experience, and he is curious to hear how I do.

Experience is not required—what matters most is patience, respect, and clear communication. I’m eager to learn, curious, and willing to follow guidance in a safe and consensual way.

I’m looking for someone dominant who enjoys taking the lead and exploring the dynamics of submission, while keeping trust and mutual respect at the center.

If you are interested in guiding a submissive in chastity, I would love to hear from you. Please share a bit about yourself and how you like to lead your partners.

Looking forward to connecting with the right dominant partner and feel free to private message me.