Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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KinkyGermanCouple(F32/M29) is looking for a mistress or maybe a master to train both of us.

After exploring our bdsm fantasys we learned that we are both more subby than dominant
So we are looking for a mistress to introduce us furthermore into the bdsm space.

We have a lot of toys, bondage equipment and even a chastity cage for him.

We are looking for given scenarios which could include how we interact, tease, edge, ruin, deny each other and also mixed up with some bondage.

We are not into scat, piss, blood, drugs, findom and sending pics of us at the beginning.

If you are interested, send us a message
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Hi everyone~ 35 male submissive here. Im looking for a long term online Mistress/Master to take complete control over my pathetic little cock and balls. I want to be your 24/7 slave, forced to edge and suffer for your amusement. I enjoy orgasm control, cbt, sph, semi public/online humiliation. Im also ok with sending pictures/discord sessions as proof. If you're at all interested, im looking forward to hearing from you in my dm's :wave:
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Hello All!

I'm Lilly, 30 and from Germany. I am currently looking for someone that wants to lock me up and tease me. I love to get teased or told how to tease myself to all kinds of stuff. I do like to still cum in chastity. How that happens Im open for most stuff, but I still do like my orgasms :3 Preferably someone from Europe or at least someone with a similar timezone(UTC+2).

A little bit about me. I'm a huge nerd and love comic, anime and manga. I play a lot of Games and read a lot of books. Another big Hobby is PnP(Mainly DnD) and roleplay. I'm roughly 1,75, have long blonde hair and am a little bit chubby. And I'm pretty starved for a real kinky dynamic. I have nobody with whom I can share my more vulnerable and kinky side. I do tend to be rather clingy and want to communicate regularly. So I can be pretty high maintenance, because I will write regularly.

Now my kinks are: Bondage, Anal, orgasm control/ruined orgasm/chastity(would love to rarely get unlocked), humiliation/degradation, name-calling, Latex(even if I don't have any), nipple play, censors, hentai, porn, rules.

Limits: Scat, Blood, permanent damage, body writing, findom and exhibitionism

If you want to know more or if I missed something just write me! Im happy to answer questions
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Post by San_Tolomeo »

Greetings everyone!

I am a 27 old guy looking for anyone how is looking to engage in either making and developing tasks for each other, or engage in a sub-dom relationship. I'm not interested in infertile relationships focused only in sending and receive without further interaction, as I find these kind boring, in lack of a better word to describe it. I knot all of this sounds a little dull, so please allow me to explain it better

One one hand, I'm looking to meet someone with whom I can express myself and feel free to talk about these kind of topics without feeling being restricted, and I would enjoy more if this was mutual. I wanna talk about what feels good, or bad, or simply why we partake or not in this kind of activities. All this tasks, this assignments, or whatever you wanna think of them should be designed first with the idea of having a fun time, secondly with the idea of being criticised and critiquing them so we can improve or view them with other perspective, and lastly to explore further of our conception and learn about this topics. So I'm looking towards talking about them, about our kinks, our perspectives our feelings towards them.

Which leads to talk of the more naughty side, my kinks are many and my limits so far I would say few, but rather than posting a list I would like to talk with you in messages, but one thing that should be absolutely clear is I don't show off, make audios, videos or engage in any financial activity. I identify myself with a switch person, I can either be dominant or submissive and enjoy it, but my experience have always pushed me to a more dominant role and sadly never fully experienced being submissive. I always, always, love to explore bounds, try new kinks and see my limits, mine and yours so even if I don't share or understand one of your preferences I will try my best to do it and learn about it, but please understand that some limits are too much for me and I will probably not be willing to explore them.

I'm looking to meet all of you, have a nice day! :wave:

I would like to finish this post as an apology to anyone how might previously wrote me, or I have stopped talking suddenly. This last, one/two years have been very difficult and full of ups and downs, and had to stop for time, and motivation. I'm deeply sorry.
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by xxxxxx1 »

Hi!


I'm looking for a female to control my orgasm. Someone who will hold me for days without ejaculating.
things that involve edging and orgasm denial.

feel free to write a message
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Hi everyone~ 35 male submissive here. Im looking for a long term online Mistress/Master to take complete control over my pathetic little cock and balls. I want to be your 24/7 slave, forced to edge and suffer for your amusement. I enjoy orgasm control, cbt, sph, semi public/online humiliation. Im also ok with sending pictures/discord sessions as proof. If you're at all interested, im looking forward to hearing from you in my dm's :wave:
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I am looking for a female Domme for Online play or in person if in the Toronto area. I have lots of toys for every possible fetish.
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First of all, I must say that I am a very shy person. So it took me a long time to gather the courage to write this message. I am a total beginner in the world of femdom. I have absolutely no experience face to face only fantasies. So you could say I'm looking for a Mistress, who will have the patience to introduce someone completely inexperienced and shy to the world of femdom.

My turn ons:
Chastity
Humiliation / Degredation
Petplay
Pain
Forced Bi
Cuckold

My turn offs:
Financial Dom
Medical
Bathroom control
Sorry for my English, I hope you understand.
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I’m a switch with submissive tendencies. Interested in SPH, cuckolding fantasies, exposure online. No interest in findom.

Not interested in any 25/7 relationship. Have full time job so interested in bursts of activity.

Happy to try to do tasks or do humiliating things within reason.

I’m US East coast on ET.
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Hi ^^ sub here looking for a domme to control my orgasms and tease me.
I'm 24, skinny, short, from Europe.
Kinks: Femdom, chastity, anal, ruined orgasms, cbt, femboys, sissys, furry porn and more.
Limits: scat, gore, pee

If you want to have control over a poor boys balls and orgasms, while making him go crazy with teasing, here I am ^^
Anyways, I'm open for new stuff as well, so just tell me if you wanna try something out ;)
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Hi everyone~ 35 male submissive here. Im looking for a long term online Mistress/Master to take complete control over my pathetic little cock and balls. I want to be your 24/7 slave, forced to edge and suffer for your amusement. I enjoy orgasm control, cbt, sph, semi public/online humiliation. Im also ok with sending pictures/discord sessions as proof. If you're at all interested, im looking forward to hearing from you in my dm's :wave:
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Expert_Affect »

Hello I'm Hannah.


I'm a 27 year old sissy from Germany and I'm looking for a mistress or master who wants to fulfill some fantasies with me.

I love anal play, Chastity Play, Feminization, Humiliation, Denial, Edging, Spanking, Moderate amount of pain, i love seeing my Dom Happy and fufill their fantasies if possible, i like getting pegged, Getting spit on beeing told what im allowed to fap to and what im not, i Currently have Puryfi as a addon installed that can censor videos and pictures in real time.
i love the idea of beeing cucked dont know what else i could include here x.x

I dislike public exposure i dislike blodd knife play needle play scat, i dislike beeing denied a Orgasm for longer then a week.
if you need any more information look at my profile or message me :3

i really need a Mistress or Master to turn me into a Sissy Loser
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