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Solo play techniques (M)

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Through webteases. I have discovered the torture headplay method of gliding something smooth over the bone dry cock head. (Now I know how intense it actually is. I lost the feelings in my legs and whimpered. I had to stop and couldn’t follow the webtease)

Are there any other techniques / household toys I can use to torture myself? (Not explicit punching and hitting kind)

I’m about buy stockings or pantyhose. Are they supposedly different? And what if I drench it in lube? For example dry cock and stocking. Or lubed cock dry stocking. Or dry cock lubed stocking. Does these make a difference ? Concern being that it’ll be hard to wash and dry the lubed up stockings cuz I’m still living with family.

Also shoelace seems to be a thing. Thank you all for reading this :)
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Regarding pantyhoses, some teases (the last ones) by Sikysheering (https://milovana.com/webteases/?author=1334) include this topic and their website (https://www3.xfreehosting.com/fetish/si ... index.html) also has fun ideas.

For shoelaces, unfortunately most teases include them mainly for CBT, even if some don't, or at least have very light cbt.

Some other items that may turn useful are cleaning gloves, which usually have interesting surfaces, or soft brushes.

These are my 2cents, but I'm always happy to seek out new ideas.

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Thamrill wrote: Wed Mar 26, 2025 9:53 am Play safe,
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Oh wow thank you for that site. It looks real informative and good! Gna check it out
Meanwhile, the tease that killed me was the honeywort rehab center : day two :)
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You have estim of course, but you need to have the power box and electrodes. Then there is chemical play with toothpast, ginger, tiger balm etc
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Thamrill wrote: Wed Mar 26, 2025 9:53 am Regarding pantyhoses, some teases (the last ones) by Sikysheering (https://milovana.com/webteases/?author=1334) include this topic and their website (https://www3.xfreehosting.com/fetish/si ... index.html) also has fun ideas.

For shoelaces, unfortunately most teases include them mainly for CBT, even if some don't, or at least have very light cbt.

Some other items that may turn useful are cleaning gloves, which usually have interesting surfaces, or soft brushes.

These are my 2cents, but I'm always happy to seek out new ideas.

Play safe,
~Thamrill
Awww that second link brings me back to the early 00s when I first began exploring T&D and realizing there indeed was a major fetish community around it. Even just seeing the page design gave me nostalgic feelings for the good ol' days!
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ccgssdtttew wrote: Wed Mar 26, 2025 8:40 am Are there any other techniques / household toys I can use to torture myself? (Not explicit punching and hitting kind)

I’m about buy stockings or pantyhose. Are they supposedly different? And what if I drench it in lube? For example dry cock and stocking. Or lubed cock dry stocking. Or dry cock lubed stocking. Does these make a difference ? Concern being that it’ll be hard to wash and dry the lubed up stockings cuz I’m still living with family.

Also shoelace seems to be a thing.
You can try some soft or hard bristle brushes, either for like make-up stuff or tooth brushes (more versatility if you use an electric one :3) and just use those on the head or shaft or any sensitive spot really, just try to keep them a bit dryer since they'll clump a bit if they get too wet.

all pantyhose are stockings but not all stockings are pantyhose, pantyhose are stockings with a bit of extra fabric in the panty area so they're basically thinner leggings with a reinforced area where panties would be, as for lube or dry, experiment a little, see how well they wash on a small area before full committing. I'd personally recommend dry on dry, since nylon is a pretty nice feeling fabric. if you just plan on using them for solo play and not cross dressing or humiliation type things than keeping them dry would mean less need to clean them, unless you finish in or on them.

shoelaces are basically just replacement cockrings, or to keep everything somewhat in place, if you plan on using shoelaces use ones that won't easily tangle, or catch on anything. you don't want to be caught having to struggle with them, and risking them getting tighter. If you do want to use shoelaces then use a fresh pair, that you're willing to cut if needed, practice any knots that you plan on using making sure you know how to undo them.
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Miss_Eve wrote: Thu Mar 27, 2025 8:38 pm You can try some soft or hard bristle brushes, either for like make-up stuff or tooth brushes (more versatility if you use an electric one :3) and just use those on the head or shaft or any sensitive spot really, just try to keep them a bit dryer since they'll clump a bit if they get too wet.

all pantyhose are stockings but not all stockings are pantyhose, pantyhose are stockings with a bit of extra fabric in the panty area so they're basically thinner leggings with a reinforced area where panties would be, as for lube or dry, experiment a little, see how well they wash on a small area before full committing. I'd personally recommend dry on dry, since nylon is a pretty nice feeling fabric. if you just plan on using them for solo play and not cross dressing or humiliation type things than keeping them dry would mean less need to clean them, unless you finish in or on them.

shoelaces are basically just replacement cockrings, or to keep everything somewhat in place, if you plan on using shoelaces use ones that won't easily tangle, or catch on anything. you don't want to be caught having to struggle with them, and risking them getting tighter. If you do want to use shoelaces then use a fresh pair, that you're willing to cut if needed, practice any knots that you plan on using making sure you know how to undo them.
Oooo Thank you this is quite the info too. Ah it makes sense now, shoelace to keep things in place. Basically mini bondage rope or smth. Alright thanks for the sharing!!
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To anyone that see this update QUESTION.

How / what do yall men do to add on to playing with yourself? (meaning no real life partner / human involved face 2 face)

Simplest illustration would be via toys, here is what my current knowledge is:-
>add nipple clamp, pegs
>add butt plugs (not something im into, as i dont touch my anal. Or that i have not crossed that line yet)
>add stocking / gauze play
>add lube, as apparently diff lube with fleshlights reap diff pleasures
>add clothings (im guessing this is for sisssies/sissys)
>add bondage

So of course not splurging money carelessly, i bought this bondage set for USD 17 from a local shop. Coincidentally, i found it to be USD 50 from ddlgplayground. Currently i have only tested the cuffs (which i broke by accident, the chains) and nipple clamp.

In that website, the costumes r really hot but its of course due to them being on a hot girl. Will it be fun to buy such costumes and wear them while i play myself? Or have some of yall tried and its a bit of a disappointment? And Idk, cuffing myself means i need some sort of automatic stroker?
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Another update question / idea. Linking it since i posted it there
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