Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Slaveboy0987 »

Hello to all the Goddesses. I am a 34 year old useless small dicked married sub. My wife is not interested in that. I am on here looking for a long-term key holder for my chastity cage. " wife and I dont fuck often " and to be blackmailed. Hit me up I am ready to serve.
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Post by LillyRose »

Hello All!

I am Lilly 29 years old submissive transfemale from Germany.

I am looking for a Mistress to tease me and play with me. Preferably someone from Europe, because of similar timezones.

Toys: 5 Dildos(one glass and one vibrating one.), 3 different size buttplugs(one vibrating one), chastity cages, Hitachi, Anal hook, rope, gag, nipple clambs, handcuffs

Kinks: Humiliation/Degradation, Teasing and Edging, Orgasm control/Denial/ruined orgasm, Bondage, Anal, nippleplay, hypnosis, censors.

Limits: Public Play, Scat, vomit, heavy painplay, findom, Bodywriting

For further question or if interested just DM me!
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Post by Expert_Affect »

Hello I'm Hannah.


I'm a 27 year old sissy from Germany and I'm looking for a mistress or master who wants to fulfill some fantasies with me.

I love anal play, Chastity Play, Feminization, Humiliation, Denial, Edging, Spanking, Moderate amount of pain, i love seeing my Dom Happy and fufill their fantasies if possible, i like getting pegged, Getting spit on beeing told what im allowed to fap to and what im not, i Currently have Puryfi as a addon installed that can censor videos and pictures in real time.
i love the idea of beeing cucked dont know what else i could include here x.x

I dislike public exposure i dislike blodd knife play needle play scat, i dislike beeing denied a Orgasm for longer then a week.
if you need any more information look at my profile or message me :3

i really need a Mistress or Master to turn me into a Sissy Loser
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by phips_berlin »

Hey there,

I am looking for buddies and doms, mainly to exchange porn and for the occasional domination. I am interested in PMVs and hypno trainers. Maybe I have already watched a bit too much of them ^^ because I feel myself being conditioned. I would love to give up control over that.

Other than that, I really enjoy latex, bondage, BDSM based porn, trans and feminisation. I usually wear a cage during the day, where either my partner is holding the key, or I put it on chaster.app.
I collected some content on xhamster and hypnotube, but I am mostly online on discord.

So if you are up to chat, or to make me your bitch, I would love to read from you :love:

Cheers
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Ryuteka »

Hi all, my Miss ordered me to find a cruel DOM that wants to keep using, humiliate and degrade a trashcan slave. LIVE tasks with proof sending, you will own, make it do and make it eat what u wants. let me know if u want more info..
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Thomas92755 »

Good Afternoon all !

I'm posting today in hope of finding a Domme that would like to play online from time to time.
I'm very much into serving, CD, anal, pain, cbt and of course estim.

My limits would be anything related to my "real life", blood, scat, marking, torture.

I have plenty of toys, lingerie, camera and much more.

I'd be more than happy to chat a bit see if we can be a match !

Looking forward to meeting you !
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by rainyfixation »

26m switch looking for SWITCH/SUB (ANY GENDER), or a FEMALE DOMME, for a longer-term relationship (weeks to months at least)

I am open and flexible to many kinks as both dom and sub, but the core is orgasm control/denial
I will not participate in findom

Please message me on here or on discord (@rainyfixation) if interested and we can chat more and see if we are compatible

-Rainy


P.S. I don't mind acting as a female, and you are welcome to do the same.
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by polto »

Hi everyone,

So I’m a 21 years old transfem and I’m looking to be owned by a bratty dom.

I don’t have a lot of experience in serving someone, but it’s something that’s I’ve always to do. I don’t live alone, but It’s not gonna be a problem because I have my whole basement for me. If your interested you can dm me and we can we’re compatible !
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Post by SC2 »

Greetings! I am a straight young male, a lost boy looking for a mistress that would lead me, show me the way, and teach me my place. Online is the way to go.

Some of my interests:
1. Female domination
2. Female feet
3. Female armpits (as well the body in general)
4. Hypnosis, brainwashing, mindfuck
5. Denial

And willing to explore new things...

Limits:
1. Male bisexuality related stuff
2. Cross dressing/sissy stuff (except being called a girl and to act a little like it, it's hot).

I just want to learn from a Mistress, and be her slave. :-)
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Saikopathic »

Hello I am a straight 24yo male looking for a Mistress to show me a new way to both enjoy and serve and maybe a few new things along the way.

Kinks im Into?willing to try Include:
1. Female domination
2. Female armpits (as well the body in general)
3. Hypnosis, brainwashing, mindfuck
4. Denial
5. Cross dressing/sissy stuff (willing to try this as I have started to have an interest)

And willing to explore new things...

Limits:
1. Scat
2.Blood

Im hoping to learn from a mistress to both serve and look at things from possibley a new perspective. Feel free to PM me if you would like to have a new slave to train.
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by someonebad »

Hello I am a M18 sub looking for a female dom, What I have to offer is my body and I am looking for a dom because the anal webteases on milovana are not cutting it anymore and I would like something a little more personal
My kinks include
Worship
Anal
Cbt
Open to really anything but distraught from buying things,
I have a few phallic objects that I use as dildos

I can provide a dom with the attention that they need when they are domming me and the worship they seek.

My limits are probably just cum eating since I have not tried that before.

I would love to serve you and if you would like, I can send you my snapchat so that I can send you videos of me doing the orders that are assigned to me.
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by IronRose »

Just looking for a sub or slave to train or maybe talk about the lifestyle and stuff.
I take time to think about my tasks and customized them to what your fantasies are. Because I spend quite a bit of time thinking about tasks and how for you to get the most out of doing them, this is why proof is important to me.
I also love to give punishments.

My kinks are: Humiliation,chastity,feet worship,bondage,edging, sissy training,Orgasm control,spanking,Edge play,
I love taking care of my sub, making sure He is happy, spoiled and filled with attentions. I love to give and receive aftercare and I am very affectionate, and loving.
F 35 US Domme
Diving into my Dom side and handing out fun, kinky tasks like candy.
https://discord.gg/uH2rDjtwT4

My kinks:
BDSM tasks, Humiliation, Chastity, Feet worship, Sissy training, Spanking...

P.S. If I haven’t replied, it’s probably because I forgot to log in to my Milovana account.
I’m much more active on Discord and Telegram. You can find me by searching @IronRose35 on either of the platforms.
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The cat is back in black … Meow.. who wants the be this Kittycats pray?
Mistress Kittycat is on the prowl for fresh meat … Who’s gonna make this kitty purr???
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twistedcat wrote: Sun Jul 06, 2025 12:17 am The cat is back in black … Meow.. who wants the be this Kittycats pray?
Mistress Kittycat is on the prowl for fresh meat … Who’s gonna make this kitty purr???
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Hello 👋🏻 I've just messaged you on Snapchat 😊
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