Let's talk Edging

[huhjpg]

Yo,

I like the thought behind edging in these webteases but lets be real, are you guys actually able to edge all those times.
Like trying to edge again after the first one, for me takes wayyy to long. Like I get less horny and go semi after the first edge and have to build myself all the way up again takes like 5mins and I need decent stimulation a lot of these teases just have like one pic they expect you to edge yourself to, I just end up losing interest or just not following along.

Is it just me or am I doing something wrong.
Tips and tricks would be nice.

Leave your experiences down below I'd be interested to know.

[kerkersklave]

Yes. The first edge can take a bit, but when I am doing a tease, I am already horny or I would do something else. So usually it is only like 1-2 minutes if it is right at the start of the tease. I'm rock hard after the first edge usually and the following edges come much quicker. I can follow teases for hours normally.
Of course at some point exhaustion can show, but that is really something that happens with rather extreme gooning sessions.
Everyone is different, but I would expect most people on here can do a couple of edges in a row quite easily.

[derrickx757]

I recommend playing the teases when you are horny and have not cum for a week. It will make it a whole lot better.

[CumScream]

I asked this question myself a while back, check out the feedback & discusion here;
viewtopic.php?p=342918

[Chico]

Just as a side note - if edging is all about pleasure and frustration, what about pre-edging?
By this, I mean stopping stroking just as you feel the first beginnings of the build-up to an edge.
That is pure frustration and no pleasure !
Chico

[rodyodi]

@huhjpg I think that everybody experience is different.

For example, it takes a long time for me to reach the first edge. Then, the following ones come easier to me. But at first, they are also difficult to control: first ones really look like I am going to cum any moment and they require a lot of discipline. But after ~10 edges, I can eventually both enjoy, and control them better.

This to say: I can't always follow the instructions of every tease. There are some tease where they just instruct you to edge after a couple of minutes: no way, I need much more time! And also some others where you only edge: again, big stoppers: I need time, I need some plot, I need some variability (stroke? pause? ball play? whatever)
Just enjoy and make your experience unique.

[Ghingis]

I think there is a difference between edging and edging.
Let me elaborate, to me it seems there are 2 types of edging:
- first, you can edge, like, it is no longer just stroking, it feels better, and you are on a straight path to cumming, but it just still needs a bit more, like if you were to stroke a tad bit faster you would cum, or just adding an extra stroke in the next second, some call this edging
- second, you are literally a couple of strokes away from cumming, like you are doing 1 stroke in 2 seconds or so and there is no way, to keep stroking at the same speed otherwise you would be cumming. I think this is what should be called edging. let's call these proper edges.

I think teases/some joi videos that require you to do 20+ edges are asking for the first one since they sometimes ask you to keep the same pace that brought you to the edge, I think that is impossible with proper edges.
Or you are at a point when you can cum without orgasm or orgasm without cumming with or without stimulation and let's face it that is not an easy thing to do.

So it seems to me you are doing the latter:

Like I get less horny and go semi after the first edge and have to build myself all the way up again takes like 5mins and I need decent stimulation a lot of these teases just have like one pic they expect you to edge yourself to, I just end up losing interest or just not following along.

It happened to me as well, it is more like a ruined dry orgasm than an edge at that point.
(you go semi-hard and you need a lot of build-up)

It happened to me as well a couple of times.
It can happen any time, I mean, there was a time, when I did the same with the first edge and there was a time when it was like the 12th or so.
It seemed to me I was doing the same edge as before, but I guess I was just too horny, so the last stroke was just too much and I took one stroke further than I should have.
I did not cum, it was not pleasurable in any way, but the biological function of starting the refractory period (would have) triggered.
Also, it seems if I go fast and try to edge too close there is a higher chance it will happen to me, so now I tend to do the last couple of strokes just a tad bit slower, where I feel I still have proper control.

Be patient and try to do a couple of strokes less than you feel you could do and let's call that a proper edge.
I find it more often than not, that I'm climbing down from an edge even if it felt, I could have done better, so...

Also cumming/ruining when you just wanted to edge feels way worse than "missing" an edge and ruins the fun altogether.
Plus, if the tease does not time you, you can always just do another closer edge.