Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
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LillyRose
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
Hello All!
I am Lilly 29 years old submissive transfemale from Germany.
I am looking for a Mistress to tease me and play with me. Preferably someone from Europe, because of similar timezone. Currently looking for someone to lock me up during this locktober and maybe beyond.
Toys: 5 Dildos(one glass and one vibrating one.), 3 different size buttplugs(one vibrating one), chastity cages, Hitachi, Anal hook, rope, gag, nipple clambs, handcuffs
Kinks: Humiliation/Degradation, Teasing and Edging, Orgasm control/Denial/ruined orgasm, Bondage, Anal, nippleplay, hypnosis, censors.
Limits: Public Play, Scat, vomit, heavy painplay, findom, Bodywriting
For further question or if interested just DM me!
I am Lilly 29 years old submissive transfemale from Germany.
I am looking for a Mistress to tease me and play with me. Preferably someone from Europe, because of similar timezone. Currently looking for someone to lock me up during this locktober and maybe beyond.
Toys: 5 Dildos(one glass and one vibrating one.), 3 different size buttplugs(one vibrating one), chastity cages, Hitachi, Anal hook, rope, gag, nipple clambs, handcuffs
Kinks: Humiliation/Degradation, Teasing and Edging, Orgasm control/Denial/ruined orgasm, Bondage, Anal, nippleplay, hypnosis, censors.
Limits: Public Play, Scat, vomit, heavy painplay, findom, Bodywriting
For further question or if interested just DM me!
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toaster1337
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
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dmas964
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
First of all, I must say that I am a very shy person. So it took me a long time to gather the courage to write this message. I am a total beginner in the world of femdom. I have absolutely no experience face to face only fantasies. So you could say I'm looking for a Mistress, who will have the patience to introduce someone completely inexperienced and shy to the world of femdom.
My turn ons:
Chastity
Humiliation / Degredation
Petplay
Pain
Forced Bi
Cuckold
My turn offs:
Financial Dom
Medical
Bathroom control
My turn ons:
Chastity
Humiliation / Degredation
Petplay
Pain
Forced Bi
Cuckold
My turn offs:
Financial Dom
Medical
Bathroom control
Sorry for my English, I hope you understand.
- Achab1851
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
Hi,
I'm looking for some switches (male or female) to talk to and share dom/sub, forced-bi and cuckold themed fantasies.
I am a lover of models or porn stars with big, perfect boobs and would be happy to find someone with the same passion to talk to.

I'm looking for some switches (male or female) to talk to and share dom/sub, forced-bi and cuckold themed fantasies.
I am a lover of models or porn stars with big, perfect boobs and would be happy to find someone with the same passion to talk to.
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Maikorrelum
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
Hello
Male sub with a lot of things to discover from myself at all. Had not any sub expirience, but been interested in it for a few.
Hoping to meet any female dommes
Have a nice day everyone!
Male sub with a lot of things to discover from myself at all. Had not any sub expirience, but been interested in it for a few.
Hoping to meet any female dommes
Have a nice day everyone!
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GermanKinkyCouple
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
Still looking hoping to be lucky
GermanKinkyCouple wrote: Tue Jul 04, 2023 1:57 pm KinkyGermanCouple(F30/M27) is looking for a mistress to train both of us.
After exploring our bdsm fantasys we learned that we are both more subby than dominant
So we are looking for a mistress to introduce us furthermore into the bdsm space.
We have a lot of toys, bondage equipment and even a chastity cage for him.
We are looking for given scenarios which could include how we interact, tease, edge, ruin, deny each other and also mixed up with some bondage.
We are not into scat, piss, blood, drugs and findom.
If you are interested, send us a message![]()
- RubberToy2551
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
Found someone, so no longer looking at the moment.
Still tough if we have common intersts feel free to message me for a chat
Still tough if we have common intersts feel free to message me for a chat
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just_slave
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
Hello Princesses/ Goddesses/ Mistresses
I am a CBT and Ballbusting sub who is looking for an online mistress who wants to see me torture my cock and balls for her amusement.
I am 34 M, fairly fit and obedient.
Looking forward to getting you PM.
I am a CBT and Ballbusting sub who is looking for an online mistress who wants to see me torture my cock and balls for her amusement.
I am 34 M, fairly fit and obedient.
Looking forward to getting you PM.
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Substats
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
Hey everyone,
I am Substats 23M and I am looking for a domme who would be interested in chatting and remote orgasm control. I am fairly new to these kinds of things so I am unsure of how these things go. As of late I've really wanted my orgasms to be in someone else's hands so I'm hoping to find someone here who would be willing to explore these things.
My interests are edging, orgasm control, femdom, latex, BDSM.
Some turn offs are scat and heavy CBT (I don't mind light)
I am Substats 23M and I am looking for a domme who would be interested in chatting and remote orgasm control. I am fairly new to these kinds of things so I am unsure of how these things go. As of late I've really wanted my orgasms to be in someone else's hands so I'm hoping to find someone here who would be willing to explore these things.
My interests are edging, orgasm control, femdom, latex, BDSM.
Some turn offs are scat and heavy CBT (I don't mind light)
- ccgssdtttew
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
Hello to the Dommes, i would like to get some perspective as a sub.
Direct question is, what kind of reactions/replies (or anything applicable) that you would love your sub to respond with that would turn you on / make you happy etc (however doms feel)?
Context:
1. Imagine your sub is not super duper active, but will definitely try to check in to milovana (i.e. at least once every 3 days? and maybe due to real life commitments, may be gone for month at least twice a year)
2. Purely internet relationship; meaning no disclosure of personal details (i.e. real name, real social media, etc. | Yes to location timezone, and details that do not give a specific internet trail, male, fit, day to day schedule, married/attached/single/virgin/sex)
3. I rmbr seeing a reply somewhere here that a sub shouldnt just be getting another online person just to be a wank off material. I would want to know how to make a dom happy too, so its a two-way street
Thanks for reading!
Direct question is, what kind of reactions/replies (or anything applicable) that you would love your sub to respond with that would turn you on / make you happy etc (however doms feel)?
Context:
1. Imagine your sub is not super duper active, but will definitely try to check in to milovana (i.e. at least once every 3 days? and maybe due to real life commitments, may be gone for month at least twice a year)
2. Purely internet relationship; meaning no disclosure of personal details (i.e. real name, real social media, etc. | Yes to location timezone, and details that do not give a specific internet trail, male, fit, day to day schedule, married/attached/single/virgin/sex)
3. I rmbr seeing a reply somewhere here that a sub shouldnt just be getting another online person just to be a wank off material. I would want to know how to make a dom happy too, so its a two-way street
Thanks for reading!
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- Ariell
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
I'm ready to offer strict, yet sensual domination to all submissives and I genuinely enjoy my work. I respect all limits but actively explore and exploit them to completely fulfil my fantasies first before yours.
- Chtoper
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
I'm interestedAriell wrote: Mon Dec 02, 2024 7:31 pm I'm ready to offer strict, yet sensual domination to all submissives and I genuinely enjoy my work. I respect all limits but actively explore and exploit them to completely fulfil my fantasies first before yours.
- j3rry
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
Dear Domme Ariell, I'm ready to be your slave.Ariell wrote: Mon Dec 02, 2024 7:31 pm I'm ready to offer strict, yet sensual domination to all submissives and I genuinely enjoy my work. I respect all limits but actively explore and exploit them to completely fulfil my fantasies first before yours.
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gagaslave
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
gagaslave wrote: Wed Dec 20, 2023 7:32 pmStill looking for a domme...gagaslave wrote: Tue Nov 14, 2023 12:50 pm Hi everyone, im a 23 male who loves femdom... Im looking for a domme, i have many kinks: cbt, nipple torture, cum contro and edging, ruin and continue, precum eating, anal play, feet worship (even if im not obsessed with them). If u wanna try something new with me we can. Dm me if u are a domme who wants to have fun with a sub!
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gagaslave
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
Idk why I cannot dm you, but I'd like to let you explore my limits and kinksAriell wrote: Mon Dec 02, 2024 7:31 pm I'm ready to offer strict, yet sensual domination to all submissives and I genuinely enjoy my work. I respect all limits but actively explore and exploit them to completely fulfil my fantasies first before yours.
Accept friend request so maybe we can dm
