Question: Loosing control over edging?

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Question: Loosing control over edging?

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Hey everyone!

I have an issue thats kinda upsetting me for a while. In the past I could take a lot of edges in one sitting. Like 70, 80 .. sometimes even 90 or 100. I know that the edge becomes kinda "unpredictable" or "unclear" when you go for a long time but lately (like the past few months) I noticed it becoming worse.
Im starting to struggle after even 30 edges or so, where like moving even a few millimeters to far down my cock could cause me to have an orgasm. Thats kinda frustrating because I generally like the longer more intense edging sessions.

Has anyone ever experienced something like this or has tips?
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Re: Question: Loosing control over edging?

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Go to the edging centre, https://milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=54778 see ariel. she'll teach you some tricks
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Re: Question: Loosing control over edging?

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Yeah, noticed this is kinda variable, and it made planning teases difficult.

I ran a poll to get some feedback & discusion if you're interested;
viewtopic.php?p=342918
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Re: Question: Loosing control over edging?

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CumScream wrote: Wed Oct 02, 2024 2:18 am Yeah, noticed this is kinda variable, and it made planning teases difficult.

I ran a poll to get some feedback & discusion if you're interested;
viewtopic.php?p=342918
Oh, I remember reading through that thread once!

Maybe I should try something like chual is doing :hmmm: :
Personally, I can edge repeatedly for an hour or so.. but I use more of a rapid-fire technique. None of them are too close (probably a few strokes away from pushing over), and I'll take short 2-3 second breaks in between edges. It's probably more akin to repeatedly coming close to the edge. But I personally enjoy the sensation, and there's no "wrong" way to do something, as long as you enjoy it.
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Re: Question: Loosing control over edging?

Post by perik43 »

Well that is a lot of edges you do :)
Its kind of hard to say what the cause of it is. Maybe its a sign that your body dont want to do that anymore. I mean its physically hard for your body to edge, your heart beat faster and your blood pressure increases as well, I dont mean it is dangerous or unhealthy. Your body is not a constant organism, it evolves with you. Maybe you masturbate at different times of the day, cum more seldom, feel more horny. Your testosterone level varies and maybe you have a higher level now. Maybe you have stopped or started training or have less sleep. Everything can affect your sexual performance.
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