sub3604 wrote: Mon Oct 09, 2023 5:53 pm
I don’t have any experience with chastity straps but hinged rings suck, solid ones are much more comfortable. It can take time to find the correct size of ring but don’t try to go too small find the best two options and start with the larger of the two but then when used to it try to go down until you figured out the best size. Also stainless steel is better than plastic but if you do use plastic make sure you sand off so it is completely smooth
Yeah I keep the hinged part covered in silicone tubing, but it only helps so much. The thing is my a grower so I need a pretty tight ring to keep the cage from moving around too much, but once I'm trying to get hard it gets quite painfully. I have experiment with different types of cheap cages, metal, plastic, hinged, solid, etc. Currently I use a metal cage and I find my body can sometimes adapt or come to accept the fact night time erection is no longer allowed after consistently wear the cage for a week or two, but it's a painfully process getting there. With a solid base ring it's very hard to put it on (and cold shower doesn't really work for me as I just get more excited), so hinged with silicone cover has been an okay compromise.
emma111 wrote: Mon Oct 09, 2023 6:03 pm
I am not experienced enough to tell if the strap will help with sleep. Tried it twice.
I wear it occasionally, it keeps the cage closer to my body, and also helps me avoid one my balls magically slipping from my ring (both because of counter pull, and making the ring a bit smaller). I tried a smaller ring of those I have, but it was too small, so a strap with a bigger ring is a compromise (till my smaller cage order arrives
).
Scrotum pain is why I didn't select 24/7 even though I would really like to
, but night erections pull my cage downwards and it hurts too much (and with chafing I would have to skip a day
). I feel enough pain with erections throught the day so I would not like to interrupt my sleep. Also when I wake up I have hard time (pun not intended) going back to sleep.
I tried sleeping with a strap today and yes the ring didn't slip downwards tugging on my balls, it kept the cage closer to my body, but I still felt some pain in the same area as without it. It was better though, more of numb than sharp pain. For 6 hours of sleep I woke up once. Also I had to sleep on my back, or on the side only with a larger pillow between my legs, because how the cage lies with harness on.
Another con is that my cage points downwards, but with the strap it is more upright, meaning it could show in some pants or be uncomfortable. So maybe don't go out in public wearing skinny clothes with the harness on.
I am going to try harness + coconut oil + (smaller cage in the future so there is no room to grow), and with experience I might join the 24/7 club
I some times find pushing the cage downward helps with scrotum pain. But yeah my sack is completely chafed up now due to too much physical activity over the weekend. Even just running my fingers across it hurts a bit, so I had to take off the base ring and use some strings as make shift straps for now keeping the cage off, hope that still counts as being chaste. I see they make a 3 point strap, with one that hook onto the bottom of the ring and goes backward around each butt stocks, that might help with printing through clothing. I want to give those a try. Will report back unless my dick has given up by then
Always, all caught up the teases, updates below
Day 4 reflection
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As I mentioned in the last post, kinda felt off the horse this week due to other irl issues. Waking up with ball sack pain while sick is not a good feeling. Fortunately, the inner cage is strong to stop myself from doing anything I shouldn't, and I'm trying to stay caged 24/7 now.
It has been an interesting journey so far, minus the days I couldn't do the teases. Shaved my full body for the first time because of this, and again on the at home spa day (didn't expect to do that as well). I'm not a very hairy guy to begin with, but this certainly has been an experience. Went out to the beach just before Oct 1st, wear the cage as I was trying to get adjusted to being locked 24/7. I was wearing pants but wanted to take off my shoes to go into the water, and it hit me when I was rolling up my pant legs that my legs are bare as a baby. Still did it but that was a rush.
Getting back on the horse is also challenging. As I stated above, my body need a while to get adjusted to being locked 24/7, and I didn't have my cage with me when I first found out about the event so I couldn't get a head start. I had a long hiking trip planned on Sunday so I tried jogging with my cage the day before to see how would it feels. Wasn't too bad so I thought hey why not just wear it to hike as well since it can't worse then running right. Turns out I was very wrong, can't go without secretly adjusting my cage every five minutes, and I didn't even bring my keys with me to stop the temptation of unlocking. Ended up finding that pushing the cage down towards my body really helps with the pain around the ball sack and somehow made it home with my sanity intact.
Doing multiple days' tease in a row has also been very fun. Sometimes I find myself doing things out of order cause it make more sense, e.g. the at home spa day after cleaning the house and body writing, as you can see in the picture. Being behind in points also pushes me outside of my comfort zone a lot trying to make up the missing baseline points. Ordinarily I would not post pictures of myself online, but here I'm posting the "day 5" pic with some body writing below. Have been really wanting to cum anyway I can as well. When watching hypno yesterday, I tried for a good 30 mins milking my prostate through my boi pussy with a dildo w/o much success. But I guess it takes a bit more to achieve that, and I probably will keep trying unless Mistress Blake prohibits it. I also proposed buttplug-salve custom weekly pledge through PM to SlenderSissyNewbie, but didn't have the exact parameter down yet, so I have wore my buttplug to sleep last night
Day 5 pic
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Taking a bath after body writing task. Also may or may not have something stuck up my boi pussy
. Some writings are faded afterward, I of course re-inked them and many have written a few more.
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Player Profile:
Name: locktoberfest
Genderidentity: male
Cage: metal midsize cockcage
Mode: 24/7
Cagepoints: 58
+ 20 (pronfree done)
+ 20 (day 2 and each day is a new line below)
+ 20
+ 5 + 10
+ 20 + 10 + 15
+ 10
+ 10
+ 18 (baseline yay!) + 25
+ 18 + 20
= 279
Baseline Cagepoints: 18
Pledges:
pornfree (20pt done)
keep-writings-24h (20pt till 10/10)
hypnoslave (40pt till 10/13)
buttplug-salve (???pt till 10/14)
Yes,Ma'am (50pt till 10/14)
get-in-shape (60pt till 10/31)
show-items-once-arrived (30pt till ???)
