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I've been coming to this site for quite some time now and I realized I still do not have any sex toys. I was wondering if people had any suggestions as to what I should get. As a side note I'm really not into anal play. Thanks in advance for your suggestions.
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pocket pussy is a nice rookie toy...i don't know what you are into so i can't really give any advice...i like CBT and i love my ball crusher, so that would be another toy.
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strokerboy3 wrote:I've been coming to this site for quite some time now and I realized I still do not have any sex toys. I was wondering if people had any suggestions as to what I should get. As a side note I'm really not into anal play. Thanks in advance for your suggestions.
As has been said, it really depends on what you're into.
I've only just purchased my first 'toys' (It gets addicitive by the way. :lol: ) which were a CB and a small plug. But that's because that's what Im into.
If you tell us what kinda stuff you're into we should be able to provide some more bennifical advice. :smile:

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I'm really into denial and the idea of a chastity device has been going through my head but I think my girlfriend would be a little weirded out. She is going away for the summer which is why I want a toy. She's gonna have me jerk off on cam nearly everyday so the idea of longer term denial is out of the question. She knows that I like to edge for what seems like forever only to be denied so she does deny me sometimes and I'm not allowed to cum without her permission. I hope that's enough background and thanks again guys and gals
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strokerboy3 wrote:I'm really into denial and the idea of a chastity device has been going through my head but I think my girlfriend would be a little weirded out. She is going away for the summer which is why I want a toy. She's gonna have me jerk off on cam nearly everyday so the idea of longer term denial is out of the question. She knows that I like to edge for what seems like forever only to be denied so she does deny me sometimes and I'm not allowed to cum without her permission. I hope that's enough background and thanks again guys and gals
Hmm. From what you said I'd talk with her about the idea of a chastity device. Not for long term use but inbetween your little cam sessions it would mean that you would not be touching your self without her permission. Since she sometimes likes to deniy you and only likes you to cum with her permission the chastity devices seems like a natural next step to me really.

There's a quite a few on the market and they come in various styles. I have a 'curve' myself which is a nice polycarbonate type CD. You just need to make sure that you get a model that's right for your size. Some sites even recomend that for your first one you get one that has pleanty of room in it. Just so that you can get used to the feeling. The only downside of most chastity devices is the price. But I think what I paid for min was worth it in the fun it's provided.

Another idea could be a fleshlight or some varient. Your girlfriend could have you use it on cam to tease your self with. No cumming though, obviously. :-P

That's all I can think of at the moment for toys that you can use solo and without going into anal toys. Hope that helps. :-)

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Dix both of those make sense and were the same two I was thinking of. I'm leaning towards the fleshlight for price. But I'm def gonna keep the other in mind.
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strokerboy3 wrote:Dix both of those make sense and were the same two I was thinking of. I'm leaning towards the fleshlight for price. But I'm def gonna keep the other in mind.
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ariareflection wrote:If you like anal, buy a Rudeboy
It will the prostate and your cock will leak a lot of precum. I think it will be very sexy for your girl to watch all that precum coming out of your cock and still deny you. :-D

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Yeah - if you want a toy that has a pretty serious effect, this is the one. I don't even really like anal play too much, but this does the trick.

If you were to ask Miss Jay or Mistress D I'm pretty sure they would both recommend the combination of a cb and the rude boy.

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PS - And if by some chance you are lucky enough to have real orgasms while this thing is going, its pretty intense (in a very good way!)

EDIT- if you do get a cb, you might not want to get Points of Intrigue (see my avatar picture). These are allegedly designed as a mechanism to make it harder to cheat and remove the cb - but in reality they are little plastic torture devices...
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I don't know if you're into humiliation, but here's a couple toys that might make you blush:

Tranny clothes, or humping a blow-up sheep doll. On webcam for your g/f's amusement.
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