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Re: Porn videos to watch with your girl

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Interesting question. It sounds like your GF is pretty open to things once she is introduced to them, so there's that. You say she's shy and delicate, but I guess you have to decide if that's also true of her sexuality.

If she is a bit more open minded, you might be best off starting by talking to her and asking what sort of things she might want to see. If it were me, I'd just be pretty frank that a lot of mainstream hardcore porn is pretty much sensationalized entertainment and so it tends to be over the top. One way to put it is we all know what Hollywood makes action shows/movies look like. Think that, but sex.

Otherwise, you can try to look for what is usually considered more 'female friendly' porn, or at some of the producers who (at least try to look like they are) put a little more emphasis on intimacy, eroticism or art. I'm thinking 21Naturals, SexArt, XArt, Abbey Winters. I don't have any specific links I can send you to, but a bit of time scanning porn tubes for those companies or similar might give you a lot of insight what to look for.
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https://www.reddit.com/r/chickflixxx/ -Girls talk about porn subreddit, could be useful

https://www.pornhub.com/channels/belles ... ideos?o=vi -Bellesa studio makes porn for women. On their pornhub profile they have a couple of full scenes, and there is a clear difference in direction. It's well made, high production. This can still be a turnoff to someone who doesn't like porn just because you can still see directors' influence, even though it is somewhat minimised compared to other big studios, but still the main focus is that it looks good on camera. Similar to this are the scenes with Holly Michaels and Bruce Venture -you've seen the gifs from this one (https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php? ... 1903180106)

https://www.pornhub.com/pornstar/owen-g ... pload?o=mv -Second pick, Owen Grey is the guy with letter tattoos, and has his own series with Deeplush. They have some full videos on pornhub. Videos have minimal editing. He is very focused on pleasing the girl, and girls like his stuff, at least according to chickflixxx subreddit.

Third pick is Manuel Ferrara Raw series. Here you can find this info of scenes he has made so far and the girls (https://www.adultfilmdatabase.com/videoseries/2371/raw/), and I do recommend watching the full scenes. The premise is that in the room there is he, the girl and the camera. That's it. No editing. He is good. Chickflixxx absolutely loves him. Now, the difference between him and Owen Gray in my opinion is in that Manuel is way more dominant. You can say Owen is vanilla option. Also it's duration of scenes - Owen's usually lasts around 30 minutes, Manuel's goes from 40 minutes to maybe an hour and a half.

Other than that maybe some amater-ish stuff that you can find that also cater that some kinks that you know she has.
Amateur vanilla straight sex -Eva Veil (https://www.pornhub.com/model/eva-veil/videos?o=mv)
Interracial amateur stuff -Ricky Johnson (https://www.pornhub.com/pornstar/ricky- ... pload?o=mv)
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Watching porn videos with your girl is fantastic. I have been doing it with my girlfriend for a while and she loves it. We play at being porn actors. Have you thought about webcam porn? It's really really hot too..
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Why starting which videos in the first place? I personally would start with pics.
In the end, porn is about triggering something in your head. And that works better if a little bit of fantasy and imagination is involed.

I've never been in that situation but I think this is what I would do:

I would wait for a situation where she is already quite aroused. Then I would start with something with is, "artifically" SFW.

For example this pic:
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Then I would ask her to look at the pic and fantasize about the situation:
Why do they kiss?
We see a bottle laying there. Probably some kind of game.
How do they feel about it: being forced to kiss in front of others? What do you think will happen next?

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Thinks to ask:
Who tied her up and why?
Did she struggle against being tied up? Or did she let it just happen?
Is she maybe afraid?
Makes the helplessness her horny?
What might happen next?
Even: What would you do with such a helpless naked body?

After you've shown her a few pics with different topics and fetishes, you could ask her if she wouldn't think that it would be even sexier to see actual kisses and naked breats without censoring.

If she says "no" and wants to stopp there and not climinbing up the letter any further - then sure, why not? (After all, censored porn is a fetish in its own right.)

If she says "yes", proceed with "real" pics. Ask again.

Next step would be GIFs. GIFs have movements, they tell their story more directly, they offer a lof of anchor points for further imagination.

Show her GIFs, ask her again about the situation and then ask her if she would like to see the full movie (that of course only, in case you have GIFs laying around and a link to the video at the same time).
(Side-note: It happens to me every now and then that I go for great lengths to find the whole video of a GIF/pic - just to get dissappointed. In my head, the story I extrapolated from the GIF/pic is quite often better than the one depicted in the video.)

Even if she says "yes" to videos now, I would not go for them for now. At least not unrestrained. I would blindfold her and then put the movie on.

Listening to porn without being able to watch can be a great mind-fuck. And I know that some girls really enjoy it.

You could then go for the other way round - video without audio - or go directly for the full experience. I think by then, you might have discovered what kind of videos might trigger her.
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first you have to be 18+second…chose someting soft porn for the begining.. something more erotic, not hardcore. look on my site, you should find. good luck! :)
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Well I like when the camera focuses on the man and not mostly the woman. Oh hes gotta be hot, not a out of shape guy with a tshirt hanging down from his bellly :innocent:
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recently had a similar conversation with my wife. she's sort of into japanese porn, so i picked like 8 japanese porn videos that i thought she might like. she basically rated each video from 1 - 10 and explained why.

it seems like for my wife, the following things are important and make her more likely to enjoy the video.

- the male actor should be handsome and young
- the video should be completely uncensored
- there should be foreplay involving lots of breast fondling and nipple licking
- she likes mmf threesomes
- she likes when the story involves a younger woman being naughty and punished by an authority figure
- the female actor should also be attractive to her--my wife likes it when they have pink nipples and a traditionally beautiful / cute face, and they should look young and not too mature
- i thought she might like longer videos with a slow buildup but she actually doesn't have that long of an attention span--12 - 20 minutes is the ideal length for her

Anyway, everyone is different so your mileage may vary.
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