Dan wrote:I guess it's just a preconception, which may very well be incorrect. Although as you said, there is a mix of people, and that applies everywhere, so it's pretty much down to luck who you end up talking to.
And I think birdman's got a good tactic there - get it confidently out of the way at the start!
I think a lot of the perception of America comes from TV and Movies and that is definitely far more liberal than the core American values. Plus if you travel here and go to cities like New York and San Francisco you'll see a lot more diversity than you would just about anywhere else.
So I could walk into a lingerie store in Greenwich Village in NY and I'd probably be one of a dozen guys buying myself panties. But if I went to one 10 miles away on Staten island where Mistress D and I used to live it was sometimes a little uncomfortable just buying things for her (and I'm about 7 inches taller than her and outweigh her by about 80 pounds - so anything I was buying for her had no chance of being for me).
Dan wrote:And I think birdman's got a good tactic there - get it confidently out of the way at the start!
Definitely - just go in and state right away what you are doing. It's a decent bet that at most stores they've seen this before - so they'll have a little laugh after you leave (or maybe while you are there!), but it probably won't bother them too much.
Of course, now my Mistress thinks buying matching panties might be too easy (I think she was a little disappointed that I didn't seem to have any problem with it!). So she's suggesting that it might be best to pick out matching panties, garter belt and stockings. Especially since I wouldn't have any idea at all of what size stockings to get for me so I'd have to get advice from the salesgirl. I'm not sure I'm feeling quite as confident about this new idea...
Wow! This looks great! To be honest I love the fact that they have a version for her also! We could tease each other, then later I would cum and we could think about letting Birdman cum!
Birdman just got me two nice presents yesterday (couples ballroom dance lessons and the black garter in my avatar picture!) so maybe he deserves a little gift too. He sure does like the rude boy that I got him a couple of weeks ago! Ever try those two items together Dan?
Mistress D (feeling very excited about the possibilities here!)
MistressD wrote:
Wow! This looks great! To be honest I love the fact that they have a version for her also! We could tease each other, then later I would cum and we could think about letting Birdman cum!
Birdman just got me two nice presents yesterday (couples ballroom dance lessons and the black garter in my avatar picture!) so maybe he deserves a little gift too. He sure does like the rude boy that I got him a couple of weeks ago! Ever try those two items together Dan?
Mistress D (feeling very excited about the possibilities here!)
Yes we have - it was very intense to say the least! The vibe on the cock ring is very powerful and enough to make me cum in minutes if on the right setting, and the rude boy makes my cock drip like crazy, and makes it a whole lot harder to hold back from cumming... Miss Jay likes tying me into a helpless position and leaving both of them in place, then she'll stroll in and out and turn them on and off as she pleases... drives me crazy!
Congratulations on your presents, birdman seems to have a good gift-sense! (although the garter's probably more for him than you I suspect!)
Devoted to the amazing Miss Jay ♥
Last orgasm on January 25th 2012
Earliest chance of next orgasm: May 11th
Dan wrote:Yes we have - it was very intense to say the least! The vibe on the cock ring is very powerful and enough to make me cum in minutes if on the right setting, and the rude boy makes my cock drip like crazy, and makes it a whole lot harder to hold back from cumming... Miss Jay likes tying me into a helpless position and leaving both of them in place, then she'll stroll in and out and turn them on and off as she pleases... drives me crazy!
Congratulations on your presents, birdman seems to have a good gift-sense! (although the garter's probably more for him than you I suspect!)
We have played like that with just the rude boy and having him tied up - but the cock ring would definitely add another level!
And I like to think the garter is for both of us... I just love wearing sexy things, and I know he likes seeing me dressed like that! I have to be careful when I wear it though - it's quite delicate (mostly lace and ribbon) and I suspect that it wasn't cheap and I don't want anyone having any unannounced accidents anywhere near it!
MistressD wrote:...I don't want anyone having any unannounced accidents anywhere near it!
Hardly seems like an accident if it's announced.
And I guess whether or not it's an accident isn't nearly as important as where that thing is pointed at the time anyway!
By the way JP - you were asking about the garter in the picture yesterday - it is really sexy in real life. I'm going to look and feel really hot when I wear it for him!
dubble wrote: LMAO!!! I'm busting up good here Helena! You're a RIOT! I hope you had ari take pics of his new warrior pose! You could start a nice new photo album! You are awesome!
Unfortunately his hands were busy keeping the pan and the vibrator. But next time i meet him, i want to see that pose.
MistressD wrote:And I like to think the garter is for both of us... I just love wearing sexy things, and I know he likes seeing me dressed like that! I have to be careful when I wear it though - it's quite delicate (mostly lace and ribbon) and I suspect that it wasn't cheap and I don't want anyone having any unannounced accidents anywhere near it!
Mistress D
Even a drop of precum can destroy it. birdman i would suggest you to be extra careful and keep your cock dry.
MistressD wrote:And I like to think the garter is for both of us... I just love wearing sexy things, and I know he likes seeing me dressed like that! I have to be careful when I wear it though - it's quite delicate (mostly lace and ribbon) and I suspect that it wasn't cheap and I don't want anyone having any unannounced accidents anywhere near it!
Mistress D
Even a drop of precum can destroy it. birdman i would suggest you to be extra careful and keep your cock dry.
Helena
I'm not real sure if I can control that one... unless Aria knows some tricks that I've never heard of? I don't want one of those plug things.
And it would help if my Mistress didn't keep finding toys that increased pre-cum!
MistressD wrote:
We have played like that with just the rude boy and having him tied up - but the cock ring would definitely add another level!
And I like to think the garter is for both of us... I just love wearing sexy things, and I know he likes seeing me dressed like that! I have to be careful when I wear it though - it's quite delicate (mostly lace and ribbon) and I suspect that it wasn't cheap and I don't want anyone having any unannounced accidents anywhere near it!
Mistress D
I don't think I'm getting on birdman's good side giving away these ideas... sorry buddy!
All this talk of garters is getting me worked up - I'm a sucker for lingerie, especially the frilly lacy variety!
Devoted to the amazing Miss Jay ♥
Last orgasm on January 25th 2012
Earliest chance of next orgasm: May 11th
MistressD wrote:
We have played like that with just the rude boy and having him tied up - but the cock ring would definitely add another level!
And I like to think the garter is for both of us... I just love wearing sexy things, and I know he likes seeing me dressed like that! I have to be careful when I wear it though - it's quite delicate (mostly lace and ribbon) and I suspect that it wasn't cheap and I don't want anyone having any unannounced accidents anywhere near it!
Mistress D
I don't think I'm getting on birdman's good side giving away these ideas... sorry buddy!
All this talk of garters is getting me worked up - I'm a sucker for lingerie, especially the frilly lacy variety!
That's okay Dan, if Mistress D wants to tease me, I'm going to end up being teased!
And I totally agree with you on lingerie. I love it all! Lacy, frilly, sheer, all different colors... It's all good! (on Mistress D - not nearly as exciting for either of us if I'm wearing it... )
And I definitely found the right mistress because she loves it too and loves to be my own private lingerie model!
ariareflection wrote:
I should write a book and name it "Aria's evolution". A boy like anyone else at 18, who turned to become an undisputed rock/metal boy at his early 20's, returned to his old habits at 22, got used to wearing girly panties at 24 and ended up as a maid (i hope never).
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How's everyone doing?
(Or then again she might just laugh.