forcing yourself to....

[Philze]

Hey,
just have a question...
how do you manage to complete a tease?
I often startet one, and in the middle i thougt...*umh somehow it is crap..*
so i came,
and ended the tease.
or just closed the site.
Expecially in teases with forced cumming i have my problems...

Is it only me? am i not man enough for teases?
or what is it?

[all2true]

I like to follow directions in a tease
as closely as possble.
However< i too, have stubled upon the forced orgasmic teases
well my mistress does not want me to, so I don't
So I end up reading the rest of the tease
just to see it.
There are several teases that are good to read
but just do not do anything for me.

Remember the milovana rule
if there is something in a tease you don't want to do... DON'T DO IT !
simple enough. Now, I sometimes read through a tease first before actually following instructions
to see if it is do-able
However I usually just do the best I can to follow instructions, skipping ones I don't like or
can't or will not do.

I don't have a suggestion because each person seems to approach teases differently
just remember some teases are NOT to be taken seriously
Heck I wrote a few 'joke' teases.
Werewolf tease- for example.
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=2676

[Lindsey]

Is it only me? am i not man enough for teases?
or what is it?

No, there's no problem here. Without going against the grain too much, i've never understood the allure of being made to do something you don't want to do. I understand the fun in giving up control, but these are 2 very different things, IMO.

If you don't want to do something, don't do it. If something doesn't turn you on, that's simply all it means...it doesn't turn you on. There's nothing "wrong" with you, and it has nothing to do with how much of a man you are (whatever *that* means, LOL).

Everyone has different likes and dislikes. Don't ever let anyone tell you that you should try and alter yours to fit in with other peoples' criteria.

I'm not sure it's helpful, but sometimes understanding the basics of a "problem" can give you the necessary insight to figure out a solution for onesself.

Well said. I think it's worth noting that the most important point you made, IMO, was by putting the word "problem" in quotations.

-L