Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Ive never been Dominated before. I Currently been chaste for 6 days targetting trying to do 14 days. Havent not cum for that long period of time. My balls are currenlty swollen and painful. I hope I can do 14

Im looking for someone who can guide me through the last day. I want to be able to get my first sissygasm and eat all that saved up cum. We can go into specifics on chat. We can chat live on the day its self or just leave me instructions and I can write back the next day.

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Hi I’m a 21 year old male looking for a female dom. I’ve never tried giving control to an actual person before but am begging to try it (although I might regret it) I do not own any toys and can not get any since I share a post box with a friend but I can get creative with using house hold objects as toys. I would love to try being dominated for at least a month. The biggest boundary I have is that I do not feel comfortable with sending pics of myself to you. PM me for more details or if you want to dominate me.
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Hi I am a 23 years old male looking for a female dom. I am interested in orgasm control, T&D, edging and ruined orgasms. I would love to chat with someone who owns my cock and tells what I should do. If you are interested feel free to contact me.
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Well hello there,

After being on this site for soem time I decided maybe it is time to give this thread a shot.
What I am looking for? A Mistress or a Master, I am fairly open minded and I am looking for a person with whom I can share my fantasies, kins and fetishes. We can be switches, I can tease you for one day and the other day you will be in command of my orgasm my Mistress/Master. I want to develop a friendship that can help us both in exploring our fantasies. If you are looking for someone you can chat with dont be shy and PM me. If you are a Mistress/Master looking for a slave with specific fetishes check them out (below) and PM me. If you are a sub/dom also feel free to write to me.
Alright a little about me. I am 23 years old male, I am fairly open minded thou my interest is crearly towards women. I am a simple fan of beauty. As for my other interests I know a thing or two about economics, history and many others (can be an interesting small talk). But well you should know what fetishes I am into so here they are:

•Cum eating – it was the first one I started and I feel attached to into despite the fact I was developing it pretty slow, it also made me a lover of the cumshots scenes and so on. My favourite way of eating my cum would be self facial which I dont consider an act of humiliation, right after that are cum cubes which I started enjoying more and more latly.

•Anal – I am not an experienced anal practicioner, my only experience comes down to fingering and hosuehold objects. I am very keen on exploring it further.

•Edging – I like it, that’s simple, but I found out that too long series of edging leave me frustrated (a good way to punish me).

•Ruined orgasms – I have nothing against tchem, I often perform tchem in order to make cum cubes. So keeping me on ruined argasms for a time before allowing me to have a full orgasm would be fun in my opinion.

•Nipple play – I have nothing against it, we can explore it together.

•A little bit of sissyfication… just a little bit.

The things I will not do because of various reasons: toilet play, public humiliation, chasity, ballbusting.
Soi f you are interested PM me, thou my time is somehow limited I will not ignore you. If we are about to play just know that I am a man of my word, but if I cant massage you back it’s probably because I dont have enough time in privacy. It can happen to anyone so I will not judge anyone.

Ok it’s all, stay safe!

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Post by damune »

Hello Everyone, yet another submissive male here.

I am looking for a dom or domme to sissify me in the ways they feel neccecary.
I have already stacked up on clothes and toys to use on myself.

My main things i am into is:
Sissification
Feminization
Chastity
Oral
Anal
Verbal degrading
Humiliation
Bodywriting
Denial
Ruined orgasms

One thing ive wanted to do for a long time is
extended periods in chastity, but without someone in control,
it has always been hard to stay locked.

Hopefully someone finds this interesting. Hope to see you in my pms
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Post by simonswitch »

Hey,
Straight male switch here, looking for another switch for a casual relationship where we exchange tasks, play some kinky games or maybe just chat etc.
Please feel free to dm me if you're interested in the same thing.
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Post by noch »

Hi everyone, Im 20yo male looking for cruel mistress, i would love to perform long term orgasm denial or ruined orgasm, CEI is also one of my kinks. Of course im open to any other fetishes just let me know via PM
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Not relevant anymore :blush:
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Hi,
I am looking for a mistress who enjoys RUINED orgasms as much as I do. I want a mistress who tells me how and when to RUIN my orgasm. I would love to sacrifice ALL of my orgasms to a woman.

If you are interested in watching and laughing at me while I RUIN my orgasms on your demand contact me. I also have kik, so we could stay in touch there as well. I also could send videos to you on kik.

Sincerely,
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Looking for a male submissive to do the following assignment on post orgasm torture for me. If you're interested, please send me a PM.

1. Get on your knees and set a metronome to 180 bpm. Start to record a video.
2. Stroke to the beat of the metronome until you cum.
3. When you cum, don't stop. You will continue for another 20 minutes without stopping. You must do hard strokes for the entire time. Your goal is to cum again.
4. Stop the video and make it availale to me.


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Post by Master89 »

Hey there! Im a somewhat experienced male sub who would love to find a mistress/master for online orgasm controll/denial and tasks. Without ownership i cum every couple of days, which is just ridiculous. Small cocks like mine shouldnt be allowed such freedom. From previous experiences i know this can be prolonged for up to 2 weeks or even more. If you'd like to better the world by keeping this beta dick under controll, and make a new submissive friend along the way, please give me a poke for further discussion :smile:
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Hi there! Im a 20 years old submisive boy, straight, looking for a Mistress, actually ive been looking for a while 😅. About me, im friendly, loyal, obedient and i love to talk and meet people. Im into many fetishes, like cbt cei humiliation petplay etc. I dont know if this is going to work, is the first time i try here, but anyway, if you are interested dm me🙂
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Hey there! I am a 18 years old male sub, straight (at least for the moment now), and I am looking for a Domme. I am pretty open minded and ready to discover and experience new things I like to obey and do what I'm told I am into many fetishes, like cei, cbt, humiliation, feminization and everything that come with it. I am totally okay with online and I would love to find a Mistress to serve for short or long term relatioship. If you are interested feel free to contact me.
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Post by Love_the_ache »

Hi.

I’m straight mid 30s/M. Looking for long term Domme. Interest include:denial, prostate play, forced orgasm, post orgasm torturing. Online only. Have a couple toys. If interested or would like more information message me.
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