Introducing your partner to webteases?

[ropeadope]

Hello all.

I've been a member here for years now and only just posted for the first time today wanting to ask a question around webteases. Simply put, I love webteases and have been watching them more and more often to the point that it's causing some frustration in my sex life.

I've been married for 6 years and our sex life overall is pretty good. Unfortunately for me his sex drive is decreasing as he gets closer to 40 while mine has been going off the charts.

I find myself day dreaming about my fav tease or when I'll be able to sit down with the next one. As a bisexual woman, I enjoy them from both guy and girls perspective equally. The thought of my husband following a tease and getting desperate for me is one of my biggest turn ons. Also following a tease together or me masturbating him through it. There are many ways it really excites me to introduce written erotica / sex games into our relationship.

Which is why I'm so frustrated with my inability to raise this with him or introduce it into the bedroom. I'm so comfortable with him sexually to be able to explore many kinks which he has introduced over the years (which most of the time, I do end up enjoying!) but for some reason I've built this up in my mind to be something deeply personal and almost shameful.

It sounds ridiculous I know but by keeping this to myself for so many years I dont even know how to raise the subject with him.

It seems like the vast majority of members here are guys but maybe some of you in long term relationships can relate. Have any of you successfully worked webteases or text 'games' into the bedroom? How did you approach it?

edit: Thanks in advance xox

[fapnip]

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[computergeek]

A story I used to tell certain customers when I worked in IT. In Hawaii, cliff diving is a huge local sport. There is even a school that teaches how to cliff dive. For the complete novice there is a class where that take you to stand on this rock that is simply a foot tall on a sandy beach. Then you have to jump off of it. Find a tease that you might think would interest him, give him the link and simply ask him what he thinks.

[Shattered]

Another possibility is mayhaps to tie him down and enact a tease on him, blindfolded or not!

I'd also mention that while they are rare there are some good teases out there aimed at couples...sadly I can't remember the names