Teasey Tuesday!

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coconuts wrote:Personal items, Miss Jay? I think I need a lie down *swoon* *reaches for cheque book*
Yeah - I think we've seen the last couple of days that there could be a pretty serious market for this!
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birdman284 wrote: Damnit! This time she caught me by logging into my laptop! That post was actually from Birdman, not Mistress D - although I'm sure she shares my thoughts on this!

I need to figure out a way to just lock her out of my PC!.

Birdman

PS - I'm a little overly stimulated at the minute thanks to my Mistress - I may post about it soon (probably don't want to read it if I do dlx!)
Sorry Birdman! Maybe to make it up I won't tease as much as I was planning today - although we've already gotten a good start on that. And he is wearing his small points now, so I know he's really feeling it!

And Miss Jay - I love what I'm hearing about your site! At a minimum you can block out that one guy who just posts "Hmmm" every now and then...
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Little Miss Jay wrote:That's mostly what I was going for - I love the community aspect here and I definitely don't want to take away from that, but I'd love to have somewhere to put up a few more pictures and maybe some videos! It's not going to be a paysite by any means, I don't really believe in charging money for this kind of thing! But after a few requests, there might be some 'personal' items for sale... ;-)

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Sounds great Miss !!
looking forward to seeing it :yes:
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MistressD wrote:At a minimum you can block out that one guy who just posts "Hmmm" every now and then...
:lol:

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Hmmmmm?

:lol:
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Seriously though, I love the idea of audio teases.
I'd echo Birdman's request for paypal payments too.
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coconuts wrote:Seriously though, I love the idea of audio teases.
I'd echo Birdman's request for paypal payments too.
There was a study I read somewhere where they asked a bunch of guys questions about their different fantasies in different sexual situations.

One specific item that I remember was that overwhlemingly American males who had fantasies about a dominatrix imaged that she had an English accent.

So, Miss Jay, audio teases with your voice (assuming you have an English accent) would probably be quite popular in the states!

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ariareflection wrote:Miss Jay, first of all give a lot of effort for your introduction.

Don't make the usual mistake "I'm X, i like this and that... welcome to my site". You lose a lot a visitors in this way.

Make a 'friendly' introduction. Explain why you like T&D, what influence has T&D in your life, what satisfies you when meating new people on the net etc... ;-)

2) I love the idea of audio teases! :blush: :blush:

3) Do not upload huge galleries in 1 day. You can upload 1-2 per day and keep the interest alive. ;-)

4) Do not use flash for pictures, because people like storing them on their computer. :-P

5) If you think about videos but you're afraid of expose, you can do it in POV style. :lol: You can wear some sexy lingerie, Dan will be lied on the bed and he will be recording everything except from your head. But take it easy with the ballspanks because the camera will end-up recording the ceiling. :lol:

6) I love the idea of gifts in the way MistressD said. :-)
Thank for your ideas aria!

1 - You all know I genuinely enjoy this. I've tried to reflect that on my introduction page too - it's just a hello from me and why I enjoy doing what I do. Like I said before, it's not a pay site, I just get off on it! Hee hee!

2 - Well, I've been thinking about the audio tease thing, and it might be something for the future. Or a treat for really, really good boys.

3 - Oh, I have a lot of photo sets to go up, and yes, they won't be up at the same time! And there shouldn't be any shortage of new ones, I love posing for the camera ;-)

4 - Hmmm... I'm torn on this one. I was originally intending on using a flash gallery (albeit a user-friendly one), just to circumvent the problem of people saving pictures. I'm still undecided though!

5 - We've actually already got a lot of videos like this... they're brilliant for teasing dan with when I'm not around, the POV style really lets him re-live every single feeling! Hee hee! And yes, the a couple of them do have some interesting camera shots as a result of my firm hand! I think a tripod might be useful, then I can really go wild... :lol:

6 - I love this idea too, obviously I'm not after payment for what I do, but girls love presents! :-D

Thank you again for your input, it's been very helpful :-)

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birdman284 wrote:There was a study I read somewhere
Hee hee! I love you trying to justify it with a study! :lol:

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Little Miss Jay wrote:
ariareflection wrote:Miss Jay, first of all give a lot of effort for your introduction.

Don't make the usual mistake "I'm X, i like this and that... welcome to my site". You lose a lot a visitors in this way.

Make a 'friendly' introduction. Explain why you like T&D, what influence has T&D in your life, what satisfies you when meating new people on the net etc... ;-)

2) I love the idea of audio teases! :blush: :blush:

3) Do not upload huge galleries in 1 day. You can upload 1-2 per day and keep the interest alive. ;-)

4) Do not use flash for pictures, because people like storing them on their computer. :-P

5) If you think about videos but you're afraid of expose, you can do it in POV style. :lol: You can wear some sexy lingerie, Dan will be lied on the bed and he will be recording everything except from your head. But take it easy with the ballspanks because the camera will end-up recording the ceiling. :lol:

6) I love the idea of gifts in the way MistressD said. :-)
Thank for your ideas aria!

1 - You all know I genuinely enjoy this. I've tried to reflect that on my introduction page too - it's just a hello from me and why I enjoy doing what I do. Like I said before, it's not a pay site, I just get off on it! Hee hee!

2 - Well, I've been thinking about the audio tease thing, and it might be something for the future. Or a treat for really, really good boys.

3 - Oh, I have a lot of photo sets to go up, and yes, they won't be up at the same time! And there shouldn't be any shortage of new ones, I love posing for the camera ;-)

4 - Hmmm... I'm torn on this one. I was originally intending on using a flash gallery (albeit a user-friendly one), just to circumvent the problem of people saving pictures. I'm still undecided though!

5 - We've actually already got a lot of videos like this... they're brilliant for teasing dan with when I'm not around, the POV style really lets him re-live every single feeling! Hee hee! And yes, the a couple of them do have some interesting camera shots as a result of my firm hand! I think a tripod might be useful, then I can really go wild... :lol:

6 - I love this idea too, obviously I'm not after payment for what I do, but girls love presents! :-D

Thank you again for your input, it's been very helpful :-)


Little Miss Jay x
Miss Jay - I understand Aria's point on #4 - but I think I agree that it's probably better to go with the flash gallery. You put an awful lot into this and I do think it's in your interest to keep control of everything. That's an important differnece between a pay site and a free site anyway. You are far braver than I, but even if I ever put pictures like this of myself out there, I would want to protect them. You have no idea where you'll be 20 years from now - if you become Prime Minister, you may not want millions of copies of these floating around!

And Aria, #6 was Birdman's idea (I messed him up when he posted that). He's always looking for ways to get pretty girls into more lingerie!

Miss Jay - I think this sounds like it's going be a wonderful site - I'm hoping you'll give me lots more ideas of what to do with my toy! I can just imagine snuggling up with Birdman in front of a computer and teasing him mercilessly as we look at your pictures and videos together!
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MistressD wrote:
Miss Jay - I understand Aria's point on #4 - but I think I agree that it's probably better to go with the flash gallery. You put an awful lot into this and I do think it's in your interest to keep control of everything. That's an important differnece between a pay site and a free site anyway. You are far braver than I, but even if I ever put pictures like this of myself out there, I would want to protect them. You have no idea where you'll be 20 years from now - if you become Prime Minister, you may not want millions of copies of these floating around!
Even though I would love to have a stash of Miss Jay photos on my laptop, I think Mistress D is right. We will all be happy to be on your site 24/7 if neccessary, and maintaining control of the images is a good idea, from a personal point of view, and from a teasing point of view. Also, people may start ripping off your images for fake Little Miss Jay teases, and we couldn't have that!

Just my 2 cents :-)
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Little Miss Jay wrote:
birdman284 wrote:There was a study I read somewhere
Hee hee! I love you trying to justify it with a study! :lol:

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Alright - maybe it was a study of one (Me!) I always imagined Elizabeh Hurley would make a good domme!

(But it really was from a Psychology journal - all sorts of wild info shows up in those, but they manage to take exciting topics and make them boring with too much technical jargon. And I think this article suggested Margaret Thatcher as a possible model for a dominatrix, and that doesn't do anything at all for me...)

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ariareflection wrote:
Little Miss Jay wrote:4 - Hmmm... I'm torn on this one. I was originally intending on using a flash gallery (albeit a user-friendly one), just to circumvent the problem of people saving pictures. I'm still undecided though!
I know it's a big dilemma for many people, not only for you. Personally i don't have any problem with flash. But i'll just tell you one fact... If someone wants to have a picture, he can get it anyway by pressing printscreen. Unfortunately you can't prevent it.
I do realise that, and there's many other ways to grab flash galleries from websites if someone wants to. But I see my pictures as a treat for my pets, and any kind of a deterrent is a deterrent nonetheless.

Having said that, I may still decide on normal galleries!

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birdman284 wrote: Alright - maybe it was a study of one (Me!) I always imagined Elizabeh Hurley would make a good domme!

(But it really was from a Psychology journal - all sorts of wild info shows up in those, but they manage to take exciting topics and make them boring with too much technical jargon. And I think this article suggested Margaret Thatcher as a possible model for a dominatrix, and that doesn't do anything at all for me...)

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Hee hee! Dan's got the same idea about Liz Hurley!
But Margaret Thatcher...?? I can see where they might be coming from, but still. It's just nasty!

:lol:

Although she might be able to put Mr Gordon Brown in his place...!

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Little Miss Jay wrote:But Margaret Thatcher...?? I can see where they might be coming from, but still. It's just nasty!

:lol:

Although she might be able to put Mr Gordon Brown in his place...!

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On the plus side, my cock isn't hurting for the first time all day after thinking about Dominatrix Maggie! I don't even really feel the points right now!
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