Real Life Experiences

[submissivemaletx]

A couple of years ago I had a "friends with benefits" that I use to see frequently. We had been friends for many years and we had never hooked up because the other was always with someone. But the sexual tension had always been there. Finally single, and not in any hurry to get in a relationship, or at least I wasn't, we hooked up. The sex became boring to me as my previous lover and I did alot of teasing and denial, bondage, domination, etc. So I finally opened up to her on what I liked. She took control of me with zest. Started out with dirty emails and phone calls, teasing me all day, then coming over to extract information, make me worship her, etc. She took control of my masterbation and would trust me to deny myself and only do it when told to. She didn't know about chasity devices and frankly, and never caught on to my hints about them when she had me weak. I never came out and mentioned one because I didn't have the funds for one at the time anyway. I was pretty good about obeying her masterbation laws as she could usually tell if I cheated just based on how I reacted when she would come over. She would tie me up, tease me, talk shit to me, make me beg and plead. She would humuliate just a tad, but it was mostly tease and deny, over and over. Most of the time I got to cum, which I prefer, as the idea of not getting to cum is enough for me. She eventually confessed she was falling for me, and I had just gotten out of an 8 year relationship. I cared for her deeply, but i knew i'd only break her heart, so we stopped. She moved away, and we are still friends. I miss her and our times dearly.

[Mz_Teneale]

John and I had a fight the other day.

Once we kissed and made up, i decided it was time for me to punnish him, in a good way of course

I wanted to do something a little embarrassing and humiliating, without it being too drastic. So i tied him to the bed spread eagled, he was naked of course. I wasnt wearing anything too sexy, just a mini skirt and a blouse. I took off his chastity belt and started giving him a blowjob. I was sucking him for about 20 minutes, nice and slow, lots of licking... Really teasing him senseless.

As soon as he was begging for release, i got my trusty riding crop and whipped his balls while i made him promise he wouldnt argue with me again about going to my parents house. Just so you know, John hates going to my parents' house, He and my dad do not get along at all.

Once i vented a bit of my anger out on his blue balls, (at this point he hadnt cum for a whole week, our personal best), i got my vibrator, put a condom on it, and put it in his ass and turned it on the fastest setting. I then gagged him and gave his cock head one last kiss goodbye.

I explained to him that i was inviting a few of my girlfriends over for a coffee and that i would be leaving the bedroom door open a little bit. At this point john was getting a little nervous and was moaning into his gag. Because our second toilet isnt working at the moment, so the only other bathroom we have is the one in the ensuite, so obviously they would see him all tied up.

I dont really care if my friends find out about our alternative lifestyle, i actually think it would be really interesting. I really want to explain how much i love chastity and introduce it to all my friends but john doesnt want me to tell them as he is really shy about it. Yes, thats another thing we fight about...... often.

Anyway, My friends came over and we chatted away. I directed most of the conversation towards sex as i knew John would be able to hear and in his aroused state it would really turn him on. Unfortunately none of my friends had to go to the bathroom so they didnt discover john all tied up.

I left him for a bit longer after my friends left but i did tease john for alot longer before we decided to have dinner... And no, i didnt let him cum that day

[submissivemaletx]

John and I had a fight the other day.

Once we kissed and made up, i decided it was time for me to punnish him, in a good way of course

I wanted to do something a little embarrassing and humiliating, without it being too drastic. So i tied him to the bed spread eagled, he was naked of course. I wasnt wearing anything too sexy, just a mini skirt and a blouse. I took off his chastity belt and started giving him a blowjob. I was sucking him for about 20 minutes, nice and slow, lots of licking... Really teasing him senseless.

As soon as he was begging for release, i got my trusty riding crop and whipped his balls while i made him promise he wouldnt argue with me again about going to my parents house. Just so you know, John hates going to my parents' house, He and my dad do not get along at all.

Once i vented a bit of my anger out on his blue balls, (at this point he hadnt cum for a whole week, our personal best), i got my vibrator, put a condom on it, and put it in his ass and turned it on the fastest setting. I then gagged him and gave his cock head one last kiss goodbye.

I explained to him that i was inviting a few of my girlfriends over for a coffee and that i would be leaving the bedroom door open a little bit. At this point john was getting a little nervous and was moaning into his gag. Because our second toilet isnt working at the moment, so the only other bathroom we have is the one in the ensuite, so obviously they would see him all tied up.

I dont really care if my friends find out about our alternative lifestyle, i actually think it would be really interesting. I really want to explain how much i love chastity and introduce it to all my friends but john doesnt want me to tell them as he is really shy about it. Yes, thats another thing we fight about...... often.

Anyway, My friends came over and we chatted away. I directed most of the conversation towards sex as i knew John would be able to hear and in his aroused state it would really turn him on. Unfortunately none of my friends had to go to the bathroom so they didnt discover john all tied up.

I left him for a bit longer after my friends left but i did tease john for alot longer before we decided to have dinner... And no, i didnt let him cum that day

You rock Mz_Teneale!

[leavemehanging]

Wow these are some great anecdotal stories Mz_Teneale et al... I figure since I've enjoyed reading about your experiences so much, it's probably only fair of me to share some of my own...

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I was actually fortunate enough to be introduced to teasing and denial by a girlfriend when I was quite young. We were both eighteen years old. She was was studying to be a dancer and I was studying to become an actor so we fancied ourselves as pretty creative and open people. We never shied away from experimenting in the bedroom, with role-playing etc... I already knew I liked being dominated by a woman and she was more than happy to oblige.

One night around thanksgiving, my parents through a dinner party for the family and my girlfriend was invited to come. She wasn't driving at the time, so I borrowed my dad's van and went over to pick her up. The moment I saw her, I knew it was going to be a long night. She was dressed to kill in a beautiful black low cut top that showed off her ample cleavage and a long black skirt that was tight in all the right places. She wore her very long, curly black hair down and it was big and sexy with the locks lapping at her cleavage. I told her she looked fantastic. All she said was, "good". She got in the car and we headed to my place.

While I was driving, she reached over and started caressing my thigh. I asked what she was doing, and she said it'd been a while since she'd seen me and she just wanted to touch me. I said, "ok" and she coutinued to fondle my thigh.

Eventually I became quite excited and told her if she didn't stop, I'd have to pull over and "have my way with her" right on the side of the road. Somewhat to my disappointment, she pulled her hand away quickly and said, "no, no, no". She told me that what my parents thought of her was very important and she did not want us to be late.

The party went well and she mingled with my family and our guests throughout the night, while shooting me mischievous glances every now and then.

Her parents were rather strict and she had an 11 o'clock curfew, so with quite a few people still at the party, I borrowed my dad's van again to take her home.

On the ride back she put her hand on my thigh again and started caress me.

"Your driving me crazy", I said.
"Then pull over", she responded.
"Really?", I asked.
"Yes".

She lived out in the boonies so I pulled into a dirt road that lead into a field and parked on the side of the road. I leaned over and kissed her and then we starting making out in the front seat, which was a little awkward and uncomfortable. I suggested we move to the back, but she looked at the clock and said we don't have time.

"What are doing to me", I said. "You can't leave me like this"

She just looked at me and paused for a moment and then said, "ok, pull it out, but you have to do exactly what I say, alright?".

I asked her what she was up to and she just said, "do it".

I unzipped my pants and took it out. She wet her hand and started to stroke me.

"God you look so good tonight", I said as she continued to stroke.
"Poor baby", she said. "I dressed up all sexy for you and all we have time for is a quick hand-job."

She brought me pretty close to the edge and suddenly stopped.

"What? Why are you stopping" I pleaded.
"It's late", she said. "we're not gonna make it"
"Oh come on", I begged.
"Ok", she said, "but you have one minute"

And then she pause and smiled and said, "oh and if you come within a minute I'm gonna smear it all over your pants".

The notion of having to walk back into my house with a giant stain on the front of my pants was very unsettling. I asked if she would consider any other way and she basically told me my choices were to take her home right away or get one more minute of stroking, but suffer the consequences if I cum. I chose the latter.

She wet her hand and went to town on my cock. At 18 years old, after a whole night of longing for my girlfriend, and all the making out and caressing leading up to this point, there was no way I was gonna let the minute pass without cumming. I blew my load with 10 seconds to spare, half thinking she wouldn't follow through on her promise to smear my pants. I was wrong.

I exploded allover myself and she smeared as much as she could onto the front of my pants. Despite the potential embarrassment she may have just caused me, I told her ow much I loved her, kissed her and took her home.

On the way back to the party, it hit me. What the hell was going to do about the stain forming on the front of my pants?

I figured out that my jacket was long enough that if I hunched over and ran straight upstairs with it on, I should be okay. Luckily, when I got back to the house most of the guests had dissipated, and I managed to run up to my room without incident.

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Hmm ... telling that story brings back a lot of fond memories. It is one of many. Thanks so much Mz_Teneale for giving me the opportunity to relive that and to share it with you.

[Mz_Teneale]

You rock Mz_Teneale!

I know

Bill, that was quite a hot little story, i may have to try that with John one time

[leavemehanging]

Bill, that was quite a hot little story, i may have to try that with John one time

Glad you enjoyed it ... and I'm sure if you do put John through the same torture, all of us will enjoy reading about it. I think it's great that you guys share your relationship and experiences with us. The strap-on stuff is very hot. I know it's not everybody's cup of tea, but I am a huge fan.

[WorkinOnIt]

John and I had a fight the other day.

Once we kissed and made up, i decided it was time for me to punnish him, in a good way of course

I wanted to do something a little embarrassing and humiliating, without it being too drastic. So i tied him to the bed spread eagled, he was naked of course. I wasnt wearing anything too sexy, just a mini skirt and a blouse. I took off his chastity belt and started giving him a blowjob. I was sucking him for about 20 minutes, nice and slow, lots of licking... Really teasing him senseless.

As soon as he was begging for release, i got my trusty riding crop and whipped his balls while i made him promise he wouldnt argue with me again about going to my parents house. Just so you know, John hates going to my parents' house, He and my dad do not get along at all.

Once i vented a bit of my anger out on his blue balls, (at this point he hadnt cum for a whole week, our personal best), i got my vibrator, put a condom on it, and put it in his ass and turned it on the fastest setting. I then gagged him and gave his cock head one last kiss goodbye.

I explained to him that i was inviting a few of my girlfriends over for a coffee and that i would be leaving the bedroom door open a little bit. At this point john was getting a little nervous and was moaning into his gag. Because our second toilet isnt working at the moment, so the only other bathroom we have is the one in the ensuite, so obviously they would see him all tied up.

I dont really care if my friends find out about our alternative lifestyle, i actually think it would be really interesting. I really want to explain how much i love chastity and introduce it to all my friends but john doesnt want me to tell them as he is really shy about it. Yes, thats another thing we fight about...... often.

Anyway, My friends came over and we chatted away. I directed most of the conversation towards sex as i knew John would be able to hear and in his aroused state it would really turn him on. Unfortunately none of my friends had to go to the bathroom so they didnt discover john all tied up.

I left him for a bit longer after my friends left but i did tease john for alot longer before we decided to have dinner... And no, i didnt let him cum that day

I've only fantisized about a scenario like that about a thousand times! Very nice! Keep us posted :)

[waffles54]

I found out rather on the late side of a now-failed 23 year marriage that i absolutley LOVED the idea of being teased and denied, then eventually made to cum.

I went with it the first time, i fantasized about it, and as couples do, talk turns to sex, and sometimes your mate asks what you fantasize about, and i simply told her "i like the thought of you controling my orgasms, and taking total control of our sex life". I think I said it becasue i had grown tired of making love with her, yet felt compelled to continue to be a dutiful husband and keep her satisfied. this became more and more difficult as the years unfolded.

I told her I would give her complete control, and she could have sex with me as often as she wanted (which was a lot as she was very sexually active). To get the desired result, i told her that it was much easier for me to perform and perform well if I had been teased some for a day or two, and denied orgasm. It made me VERY attentive to her needs, especially if I thought by being subserviant to her sexually that it would eventually bring about my release. She tried it with instant positive results, and she liked my new found attentiveness so much, she kept me that way more often than not.

Sure, she let me come when she new she was going to be away for a few days, or when she was sick, or going on her period, but generally, it was tease and deny, and i had to fullfill her every desire.

which of course, in that sate, i was more than happy to do.

It progressed to the point where first she was calling me at work or when i was at home and she was at work, and ordering me to masturbate to the edge whatever number of times she felt like. just random numbers, or rolling dice or choosing cards or some number that popped into her head. sometimes i could edge one after the other right away, or other times, she would make me wait until i had become soft before beginning again. she learned to love the controlling aspect of the game we played.

she never really had me play with myself in front of her, which i thought would have been great, as i find it to be the most private of things you can do, and therfore the most embrassing and revealing, oh well.

she teased me on long car trips with my clothes off. she made me service her at virtually every opportunity and in many unusal places and times.

she made me confess other fatansies, which grew from this (and my mind became quite fertile at it!) one was being forced to eat my own cum. she thought that was just plain gross, but one time after she gave me a blowjob while tied to the bed, she held my nose and forced me to open my mouth and she spit it into my mouth and made me swallow it. it's the only time i ever did that, but i still dream of it. i can never seem to eat it on my own after cumming, i lose all interest. oh well , again.

i wanted her to use me to service her girlfriends, but she never could bring herself to do that.

later she upped the ante by a bundle, and she began tying me to the bed, and brining other men home at night to the other bederoom and leaving the door open so i could hear, then after they left finishing up with me, ususally teasing me and leaving me that way.

later she would go out, leaving me either tied up or not, and have a night out on her own, then come back and the same thing would happen.

she never really needed to tie me up, i would have complied with any request certainly, but she got a power surge from it. the only time, in fact she needed to tie me up is when she intneded to make me cum several times..which she did only once....then she simply would not let me go, threatened me with various punishments if is whined or complained in ay way, and made me cum i think it was four maybe five times before letting me go.

later she took me to bars she frequented and made me sit at the opposite side of the bar with a remote control vibrator atached to my dick, while she tortured me, and while she danced and flirted with men all night, and more than once went in some back room to fuck and blow them. one time she brought their sperm in a cup for me to see, another time she kissed me and i could taste it on her tongue.

she would somtimes leave with a guy, and come back an hour or so later, ordering me of course to stay in the bar like a good boy.

later she had me attend swing clubs with her as her escort. sometimes she would just go off into a room with one or more guys and later come out. other times she ordered me to come in and watch, even once to participate with her and two other guys. i recall one time she was in a room on her back being fucked by a guy, and another from behind, with still another in her mouth and one in each hand. when one guy finished, another would take his place...i think in three hours she must've made maybe twenty-five guys cum in or on her.

once, and only once, she was tipsy in a swing club, and some big guy just came on her face, and she ordered me to come over a lick it off of her face....i got to one lick, and she thought better of it and told me to stop, while she wiped it up. i gues it still grossedher out, but that would have been quite the moment, and even though i fantasize about that type of thing, being FORCED to eat my own or anyone's cum, I consider myself quite heterosexual and have never considered a male partner.

so i became teased, denied and cuckolded all at the same time.

for other reasons, our marriage failed, certaily not the sex part.

since then i have been searching for someone to play with in person or on line. i have a regular vanilla gf, and have only barely hinted at liking when she holds me off, but it has not taken root, and i don't expect it to with this girl, whom i love very much. i still have my dreams though, and i come to this site and try to do just aobut every tease there is at least once.

i can't spend any money on this "hobby" so anyone who is insterested in controlling me on line must do so as their hobby....that's my story, it's all 100% true and real life. it's fun to talk about, and very stimulating!

btw, i am a regular guy, otherwise, into sports, movies, running the venice boardwalk. i think i am tall dark and handsome 6-0, 195 dark mustache, with regular size equipment ranging in size from 7" on a good day to 6" on another. i don't enjoy humilation, just being controlled in terms of how when where and with whom!

[dark]

Nice story waffles54. I don't know if I could accept it when my wife has sex with other men.

[waffles54]

i am not sure if a accepted it or not, she just did it, and told me she was going to do it, and tough shit for me, and then she asked me later if i liked it, and of course, while she was teasing me, what could i possibly say, but ....YES!

[subboytom]

My last girlfriend, was a strict Christian, who thought sex before marriage was roughly equal to child abuse in the eyes of God. She was a totally unsexual person; if she had any sexual desires or needs, I never discovered them, and so for her, it wasnt a problem at all. I, on the other hand, have a strong sex drive - like any other teenage boy, and this was intensely frustrating for me. More frustrating still, because she was genuinely stunning, with a willowy figure, pert little breasts, smooth skin and warm, full lips.

Initially she would only let me kiss her, but I would try to push the boundaries a little, and even though I dont think she really enjoyed it, she would eventually allow me to sort of dry hump her. We would be fully clothed, and just grind together on the floor. I have never been so horny as I was then. When I got home, I would immediately jack off, thinking about it, and as soon as I put my hand inside my boxers, I would discover that I had leaked drop after drop of pre-cum - enough that my boxers would still be damp hours later.

It was all the more frustrating because she had absolutely no concept of what she was doing to me. I tried to explain how hard it was for me (no pun intended), but she couldnt really understand. That innocence and ignorance only made me all the hornier. In 10months of adolescent frustration, I never saw her in anything skimpier than a full length nightdress.

[N0-Play]

At last I was allowed my first orgasm of 2007.... on my Birthday yesterday!

Woke to find my wife's hand had been perking things up while I slept and then as she pushed me onto my back she grabbed my cock. As her hand moved up and down she was counting quietly in second intervals. As she reached 15 I felt my orgasm build and told her I was going to cum. Her hand continued and she kept counting. As i finally released she gave me 2 hard squeezes as i spasmed..... pure heaven!!!

Then she gently held me. " 29 and 30.... Happy Birthday!"

30 seconds to climax!!! I have been reduced to a teenager again!

[wonkywanker]

wow ur fisrt orgasm of 2007, i would probably shoot myself if i was denied that long, i think i must be on something like orgasm 460 by now. not that im keeping count

[subglyn]

Here's something that happened to me a few months ago. This is one of only a few teasings I've gotton.

I was running late for class one morning and didn't have a chance to masturbate before going. I was horny then normal because of this a had a hard on a lot of the day. I had to run home before work to grab some food and stuff and was planning on having a wank. But when I got there my ex was there(we are still friends and at the time she had the spare key) hanging out and studying. After getting food and stuff and talking I mentioned how horny I was and she suggested I take care of it. I didn't have a lot of time and said "I don't think I have enough time to get myself off, but I bet you could get me off fast enough." She responded by telling me with a wicked smile "Yeah, but knowing me I'd stop at the last moment and send you off to work!" before ushering me out of the door. I'm pretty sure she noticed the effect of her statement, it gave me an instant hard on and what I bet was a priceless facial expression. As I was leaving she said she'd have a present for me when I got back.

I got off early and she wasn't back yet so I thought I'd be getting the present when she got back. She arrived after about half an hour and asked if I had liked my present. I told her I hadn't noticed it and she rushed into my bedroom and pulled a pair of panties off my bed. She was disappointed in me, that she spent the afternoon playing with herself in the panties in my bed. and I had lost my chance. I begged for a second chance and asked her what I had to do for one. She said maybe and told be to clean the kitchen. Well I cleaned the kitchen we talked and the subject of my horniness and her panties keep coming up and I was so hard I couldn't think straight. A couple times I got down on my knees beside her chair and begged her for a second chance, telling her I'd do whatever she asked. I asked her if she was having a good time and she had a good giggle and big smile before saying yes. She was really enjoying the power she had. After a couple more times begging she said I was pathetic and told be to stop asking and that I had lost my chance for the night.

I tried to forgot about my condition and after a while managed to calm down and think non-sexual thoughts, when I mentioned this to the her she said "To think all it takes is thinking about dirty panties to turn you on" The way she said dirty panties was so hot and I was instantly back to being super horny. A few minutes later she told be to go to bed so I did.

After getting into bed I started playing with myself and it felt so good. I was maybe 2 minutes in and not that far away from cumming when I heard knock, knock on me door and her saying "It doesn't sound like your sleeping in there." She opened the door and walked to the bed while saying "I thought I told you to go to bed and I catch you doing this" I was speechless, she got to the side of the bed and said in a very assertive voice "Go to bed!" as she stuffed her dirty panties into my mouth.
I lay there trying to fall asleep with a raging hard on and her panties beside me. The next morning when I got a chance I masturbated sniffing her panties, they smelled so good. It was one of the best orgasms I've had. The only bad thing was is it wasn't very long, I think I took about 45 seconds to cum.

She let me keep her panties for a week and I sniffed them pretty much everytime I got a chance to play with myself. since then I must have cum 50+ times thinking about her saying "Go to bed!"

[alpahde5]

wow thats hot, although i personally would never let it get that far and i'm very good at concealing my true feelings and emotions so no one would actually notice unless they had a pych degree maybe.

i can honestly say though in a situation like that i would much rather have sex than go off and wank lol.

this fantasy is only for when im alone, and i dont have plans to make it into a two party thing.... not again anyway