long distance teases?

[manwithcape]

Hi all,

I'm exploring the wonderful world of femdom with a curious but enthousiastic new Domme.

I was wondering if anyone knew of any webteases that are suitable to be played over webcam?
Or if there are any other games or activities that facilitate long distance femdom play?

I have a lot more experience and need to be careful that I don't take over and top from the bottom.
An external guiding ruleset could be useful for us.

If anyone has experience with a long distance femdom relationship and has tips for making it work, I'm all ears as well.
My experiences so far has all been in person or virtual one night stands.

ideas/suggestions:

[Helequin]

I've been having quite a bit of fun with the EroFights website highlighted in this thread here: viewtopic.php?f=13&t=22789

Great community, some fun games and you can even help build out all the actions players can take. There are both the Classic style game modes that are more about playing a fantasy based game to win (or just RP around) and then the Interactive/Femdom modes which are meant to follow along with the actions in real life.

The Femdom mode would play sort of like having your Domme make a webtease for you as you go from a few select options. Of course, she could always expand on the actions the game suggests and give her own orders too. Often the players on the site do just this through the text chat to make it more fun. I have yet to try it with a person I am speaking to in voice/webcam, but especially if your Domme is new or worried about running out of ideas the site can help always suggest from a few actions to pick.

All that said, once you have a webcam chat going the only real limit to the games you can play are up to your creativity. Dice rolls or cards can be shown (or there are websites for sharing rolls and such too).

As for topping from the bottom, it can be a concern for sure. But really just talk to her about it if you haven't already. If you have ideas or games you think are hot but not sure she would even think about, then try to find some time to have a talk outside of play where you can be equals. That's probably the best place where you can suggest ideas to her as tools she can keep in the back of her mind and make entirely her own in how and when she decides to use them. This can be done with any feedback too, where you two talk about what worked well and what didn't after a session. That keeps her completely in charge while you play, but allows for her to learn from your experience too.

And ultimately whatever works best for both of you is the best option. Sounds obvious, but maybe she'd love the idea of being guided for just a single session where you deliberately top from the bottom to show her some of the things which work really well on you and/or some which really don't.

[manwithcape]

And ultimately whatever works best for both of you is the best option.

I completely agree with this statement, and of course we'll try to discover that.
But I found the rest of your reply helpful as well.
Thanks for the effort.
I'll be checking out erofights for certain.

[Toyboyy]

I've been having quite a bit of fun with the EroFights website highlighted in this thread here: viewtopic.php?f=13&t=22789

Great community, some fun games and you can even help build out all the actions players can take. There are both the Classic style game modes that are more about playing a fantasy based game to win (or just RP around) and then the Interactive/Femdom modes which are meant to follow along with the actions in real life.

The Femdom mode would play sort of like having your Domme make a webtease for you as you go from a few select options. Of course, she could always expand on the actions the game suggests and give her own orders too. Often the players on the site do just this through the text chat to make it more fun. I have yet to try it with a person I am speaking to in voice/webcam, but especially if your Domme is new or worried about running out of ideas the site can help always suggest from a few actions to pick.

All that said, once you have a webcam chat going the only real limit to the games you can play are up to your creativity. Dice rolls or cards can be shown (or there are websites for sharing rolls and such too).

As for topping from the bottom, it can be a concern for sure. But really just talk to her about it if you haven't already. If you have ideas or games you think are hot but not sure she would even think about, then try to find some time to have a talk outside of play where you can be equals. That's probably the best place where you can suggest ideas to her as tools she can keep in the back of her mind and make entirely her own in how and when she decides to use them. This can be done with any feedback too, where you two talk about what worked well and what didn't after a session. That keeps her completely in charge while you play, but allows for her to learn from your experience too.

And ultimately whatever works best for both of you is the best option. Sounds obvious, but maybe she'd love the idea of being guided for just a single session where you deliberately top from the bottom to show her some of the things which work really well on you and/or some which really don't.

That`s really cool! Thanks! I also like such games, but now I have no one to play with, so I`m watching videos on some sites. I like the ones with arab girls webcam where they share their webcam shows, they are really awesome.

[JaneJLocane]

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