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[zab881]

Hello

So im kinda new to most sexual experiences. but recently i find myself being a submissive over kik to a person by the name of Goddess Candie and she is pushing me to buy a sub number and contract so we can meet in person and she was fun for the sessions we did have through text and i don't feel im being cat fished cause the picture have been consistent and live. i wanted to reach out some where and see if anyone has come a crossed this person before. feel free to ask any questions im a pretty open book.

you can find her on reddit if you search her name

[Xardas]

I don't know her, but a general rule of thumb when meeting anyone from the internet the first time: no sessions right away, meet in a public place (restaurant, cafe... provided that your place isn't in complete lockdown right now) and just have a chat. See if you'd be okay with her in person. Easy to play roles online, irl is a different scenario altogether. Also, to combat a general misconception that an unfortunately high number of people new to the kink lifestyle have: just because you are submissive, it doesn't mean that owe a dom or domme anything whatsoever, or that you are less than them or anything along those line. That's bullshit, and any dom or domme trying to convince you otherwise is either a moron or an abuser, with no third option, and both are gigantic red flags that should make you avoid them like the plague. Period.

[zab881]

thank you I appreciate the feedback on that.