Doubts about ballbusting

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Doubts about ballbusting

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So I have noticed that there are a quite a few ballbusting teases. I was thinking of trying it out. But before I start I want the opinion of someone experienced. How do I go about it? Is it dangerous? How can hurting my balls give me pleasure? Thanks in advance :wave:
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I have only recently started exploring this more, thanks to The Playboy Invitational tease made by TheBusted.
I gave up in round 3 and just read on, but it opened up a whole new world to me.

Even before that, there were teases that expect you to punch/squeeze right after an edge, as if that should lower my arousal. However that always feels fantastic to me and just sends me over, which I always found odd.

Am I a masochist? I doubt it very much. I value my health including every cell of my skin. I don't really know what's going on. All I know is that now I love ballbusting.

How dangerous it is, well, that's a matter of perspective, I think. Considering that you're hurting a delicate organ, it kind of is inherently dangerous. So you shouldn't do anything dumb and always try just a little bit before increasing the force.
Ironically, it's actually not so easy to cause any serious pain, because there is this mental block that makes you stop yourself from doing it as hard as you'd like.
On top of that balls are really good at escaping and I believe it takes some practice to learn how to properly grab them and hold them in place. You might want to experiment with some rope when you still have a clear head so you know what to do in the heat of it.

In any case, I think one finds out quickly, if it's something one likes or not. Does the idea of a sexy person slamming and grinding a thigh into your groin while passionately kissing turn you on?
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How can hurting my balls give me pleasure?
Just like many other arousal cues, CBT and ballbusting as a source of pleasure can be learned and developed. I wasn't always into it. Now I can orgasm just from my balls being whacked. If it's something you have even a slight amount of interest in then I'd say you can definitely turn it into a major source of fun.

There is, of course, inherent danger. I would advise doing some research on it and find out what your initial limits are as well as experimenting lightly. They are resilient little guys and can take a fair bit of beating. If you're safe the most you should feel the next day is a bit of ache and it should be gone by day two. If it's not you've maybe gone too far and might have caused some more severe damage.
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This tease has some good pointers on safety. No idea if everything in there is 100% correct, but it provides an idea of what is reasonable I believe.
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Okay, I'm going preface this with saying that I'm NOT a medical professional, so take everything I say with a grain of salt and double check. However, I am a sadomasochist with a rather high pain-tolerance, so I actually looked into general safety tips for this.

Here's how the mechanics of ballbusting works: getting hit in the testicles hurts. A LOT. I doesn't matter how tough you are, getting kicked in the balls will send you in a world of pain. For illustration purposes, here's a black bear hitting himself in the nuts while trying to dislodge a water-tank.

But, while it very much hurts, you balls are actually surprisingly well protected in their natural state. There's plenty of room inside, so if your testicles get hit, they can be pushed around inside your ballsack, which will dissipate most of the force from the hit, preventing actual damage. Not a perfect analogy, but imagine putting some water in a deflated balloon, then dropping a ball inside it. Hitting the balloon won't do much damage to the ball in it, since it can just move around. So punching and slapping, as long as you don't go ridiculous extremes (e.g. using baseball bat with full force) is in general safe. Will hurt like motherfucker, but highly unlikely to do any actual damage. Using devices to "crush" your balls (so, applying constant pressure from multiple sides), CAN pose actual threat if you are not careful. That's why I'm not a huge fan of parachutes or similar devices: is you screw up and it slips on your balls, crushing them together. that can cause real damage.

Now, this whole thing above is only true for unrestrained testicles. If you tied yours up tightly, be a LOT more careful: the main "defense mechanic" is that your testicles can move around in your ballsack. With that not being the case anymore, hits on your tied up balls will directly hit your testicles, the thin layer of skin and nerve endings won't do much to mitigate that. hits that would be more or less perfectly safe on an unrestrained pair of testicles could become legit health risk. if you look at the pro porn videos, you will notice that whenever a domina does something flashy, like full on kicking the guy in the ball so he keels over in pain, the subs balls are never restrained. Because that force on tightly tied up balls will very quickly make you an eunuch.
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Re: Doubts about ballbusting

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Thank you everyone for your honest opinion. Will give this world a try ;-)
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