Tonight's playtime!

[coconuts]

I am not in a CB though, so its all in my head....I feel a mind f**k coming on
Its already kicking in. Its worse than when I packed in the fags

[birdman284]

The girl we are talking about is Melissa Rycroft and the show is Dancing with the Stars - there are plenty of clips all over the internet - I have no idea if this show makes it onto the air anywhere but here. I couldn't care less about ballroom dancing, but attractive girls in skimpy outfits, contorting themselves in all sorts of ways does seem to hold my interest!

Birdman, there are no borders on TV anymore. You can find anything you want, either for download either in live streaming. American series and shows is one of the reasons i'm sleeping too late every day (i am +8 hours from you). I'm addicted.

Very true – I have several BBC channels on our standard cable package – plus what’s available on-line of course. There's less and less separation between countries all the time.

I am not in a CB though, so its all in my head....I feel a mind f**k coming on
Its already kicking in. Its worse than when I packed in the fags

Keep us up-to-date about your new experience, coconuts.

Coconuts - definitely keep us in the loop! The CB does take it to a new level - like not even being able to get hard when you see a hot girl dancing on TV! But the mental part - opting for chastity - is the toughest aspect of the process!

Birdman

[dix]

Coconuts - definitely keep us in the loop! The CB does take it to a new level - like not even being able to get hard when you see a hot girl dancing on TV! But the mental part - opting for chastity - is the toughest aspect of the process!

Using a CB definatly kicks it up a notch. It's very frustrating to be locked up an unable to get a full erection, and it's quite humiliating that you have to pee like a girl while wearing the CB. (Unless you have a compleatly open ended one.) At least that's what I find anyway!

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[coconuts]

I can't realistically expect to wear a cb device due to the nature of my work and activities.
I might get one to play with at some point.

I've said it before but I am here as a newbie and want to push my boundaries. I certainly did that last night! thanks to the brilliant Little Miss Jay.

There is an interesting discussion going on on one of the other threads about what makes you a sub. Without wishing to cross over topics here, I think I fall into the obedience as an end in itself category.
So while Miss Jay's teases do drive me absolutely wild. She is so good at what she does, I derive a lot of pleasure from seeing how much I can discount my feelings, wants and wishes in this siituation.

Winding me up to frustration makes Miss Jay happy, so I give myself to her to do that.

Take the cum cube experience. I can honestly say that the idea and the reality of eating frozen cum makes me feel sick. BUT the idea of eating frozen cum for Miss Jay because she wants to see how far I will go makes me horny as hell on a physical level and is a total ecstacy mind f**k on a completely different level.

Does that make sense? I think what I am trying to say is that the pleasure is in the pain, physically, but more so mentally. So the physical restraint of a CB is secondary to the mental chastity that Miss Jay now holds me in.
You could say she is the key holder of my mind! (Fuck that's deep!!! - note to self - lighten up coconuts or you'll scare the pets!!!!!!)


Dlx, I have to pee like a girl as I am not allowed to touch Miss Jays property at all without permission, so I can't pull the little blighter out of my fly without touching. Then getting it pointing down is an effort without touching. Even the slightest arousal means a visit to the mens room is a waste of time

[dix]

I can't realistically expect to wear a cb device due to the nature of my work and activities.
I might get one to play with at some point.

I've said it before but I am here as a newbie and want to push my boundaries. I certainly did that last night! thanks to the brilliant Little Miss Jay.

Yeah, I forgot to say that I only wear my CB at home. I can't wear it at work and I'm too scared that someone will notice if I wear it out.
I'm still quite new to submission myself. I still need to learn more control of myself though.

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[birdman284]

I can't realistically expect to wear a cb device due to the nature of my work and activities.
I might get one to play with at some point.

I've said it before but I am here as a newbie and want to push my boundaries. I certainly did that last night! thanks to the brilliant Little Miss Jay.

Yeah, I forgot to say that I only wear my CB at home. I can't wear it at work and I'm too scared that someone will notice if I wear it out.
I'm still quite new to submission myself. I still need to learn more control of myself though.

d.

Its definitely true that wearing it away from home takes it to a different level. Definitely a risk (however small) of it being somehow noticed. No showers or changing clothes at the gym, etc.

Mistress D told me that about a year ago, she bumped into a guy on the street and was sure he was wearing a CB (some stick out more than others). She said she sort of smirked at him, and he blushed instantly - so obviously he knew that she knew..

[slave alexander]

I can't realistically expect to wear a cb device due to the nature of my work and activities.
I might get one to play with at some point.

I've said it before but I am here as a newbie and want to push my boundaries. I certainly did that last night! thanks to the brilliant Little Miss Jay.

Yeah, I forgot to say that I only wear my CB at home. I can't wear it at work and I'm too scared that someone will notice if I wear it out.
I'm still quite new to submission myself. I still need to learn more control of myself though.

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Its definitely true that wearing it away from home takes it to a different level. Definitely a risk (however small) of it being somehow noticed. No showers or changing clothes at the gym, etc.
EDIT Also if you had ten tease commandments- what would they be?? any ideas!!
Mistress D told me that about a year ago, she bumped into a guy on the street and was sure he was wearing a CB (some stick out more than others). She said she sort of smirked at him, and he blushed instantly - so obviously he knew that she knew..

WOW dont you find yourself dripping all day aswell! What do you do about that ???

[dix]

Its definitely true that wearing it away from home takes it to a different level. Definitely a risk (however small) of it being somehow noticed. No showers or changing clothes at the gym, etc.

True. I have a curve and it does seem a little hard to hide the damn thing. No matter where I seem to put it, it always looks like I'm semi-hard in my trousers.

Mistress D told me that about a year ago, she bumped into a guy on the street and was sure he was wearing a CB (some stick out more than others). She said she sort of smirked at him, and he blushed instantly - so obviously he knew that she knew..

Hehe. I think people in the States have a more relaxed attitude towards alternate sexual activities when compared with people in the U.K.

WOW dont you find yourself dripping all day aswell! What do you do about that ???

I find I 'leak' quite a lot when I'm in my CB. The problem is the more I leak the more aroused I feel and therefore the more I leak. A cruel (And rather sticky) circle.

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[birdman284]

[quote="slave alexander
WOW dont you find yourself dripping all day aswell! What do you do about that ???[/quote]

Well, this is pretty new to me too - until last week I had never been locked up more than a day. And actually without direct stimulation, I don't seem to drip too much. If my Mistress teases me while I'm locked up, then it kicks in, but it isn't too bad during the day.

I guess if it becomes more of a problem, I'll just have to make sure that I wear dark pants all the time!

[birdman284]

Its definitely true that wearing it away from home takes it to a different level. Definitely a risk (however small) of it being somehow noticed. No showers or changing clothes at the gym, etc.

True. I have a curve and it does seem a little hard to hide the damn thing. No matter where I seem to put it, it always looks like I'm semi-hard in my trousers.

Yep - I have the same issue

Hehe. I think people in the States have a more relaxed attitude towards alternate sexual activities when compared with people in the U.K.

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It's pretty hit or miss - some people are very open, but a lot would be horrified if they knew what people were up to. Most people here would probably think that its more relaxed in the UK...

[dix]

It's pretty hit or miss - some people are very open, but a lot would be horrified if they knew what people were up to. Most people here would probably think that its more relaxed in the UK...

I think people here are pretty open about sex in general. But as with most things, british people generally don't stray too far from the main stream.

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[dix]

I'm pretty bored at the moment I'm still stuck at home.
The other day we answered the question of "What 3 things do we fear the most" in respect to being a sub.
So now I want to ask, what 3 things do you enjoy most? (Other than when you finally get to cum obviously )
Is it T&D? chastity? humilitaion? Forced feminisation? Answers on a postcard people.

1.) T&D - Being constantly teased and kept aroused by a Domme makes me feel musch more receptive to them. I enjoy the feeling of being almost willing to do anything to let them grant you the releace you desire. But then again all slaves should be hard and horny for their Mistress's.

2.) Humiliation - It actually makes me very uncomfortable as I'm an incredibly self conscious person. But I guess that's why I like it so much as well. Nothing for me puts a sub in his place quite like being humiliated by a Domme.

3.) Anal play - For me this is one of the best ways (Next to chastity) for a Domme to emasculate her male sub. The exchange of power it signifies is superb. She's the one with the cock now! She's the one doing the fucking! And you're just her little bitch!!

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[coconuts]

In no particular order

1) Forced feminization
2) Cum eating
3) humiliation

[MistressD]

I'll offer the three things I like to do from the Domme perspective:

1) create the risk of humiliation

2) Long slow stroking - especially if my toy is begging to cum

3) Days (maybe weeks) of teasing & denial - its a very powerful feeling to control a man's orgasm!

Mistress D

[dix]

In no particular order

1) Forced feminization
2) Cum eating
3) humiliation

Hehe, c'mon Coconuts you can do better than that.

d.