Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by MaoMao3974 »

Following my comments above.

I'm new to this Milovana and i'm curios interested in trying a Dom relationship.

So I'm a Straight Male, UK, 37

Looking for a Female Dom

My ideal would be some fun similar to the experiences via Tease AI/Java / Edge & Cock Hero style challenges - being able to do a real interaction version of that would be perfect!

im not into any of the self pain or humiliation stuff, anything illegal, No guys, No sissy or anything like that. Basically a mild fun Female Dom who I can happily obey and worship.

PM me if interested. :wave:
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- - - Looking for a Domme - - -
27 yo male lookin for a Domme to serve as a loyal and devoted sub.
I already served other Miss and i'm in this from about 2 years.
I would like to find a Domme that can have total control over me and my orgasm, i am open to several things, but ofc i have some limits.
If any Miss is interested, i will give more information about me in pvt.
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Post by Puppy_corn »

Furry male looking for a fellow furry male, female, or trans to explore with. As for mindsets, I'm a switch, but for positions, I'm mainly a top.
What I'm looking for:
Simply some sexual intimacy with a mixture of our kinks to make things fun (long term of course) - and if it feels right, something more serious

I'm interested in:
Canine anthros, Knots, Tease and Denial, Edging, Feral content, AFTERCARE!

Turn offs:
Scripted roleplay scenarios that take place via texting, Ageplay, Humiliation (Receiving, unsure about giving), Incest, Pain (Receiving, unsure about giving), Exhibitionism, Gore, Scat, Watersports

As for distance, the closer we are, the better, because if I really like doing stuff with you, I'm going to eventually want to do it in person (provided you are a feminine type, as that is what I like IRL). However, I can still do just fine with something long distance. Currently I live in Washington. Feel free to send me a PM, I'd love to hear from you!
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Male slave and masochist here. I'm looking to hook up with a sadistic gay male dom who is interested in giving me self-torture orders to follow. Photo's and videos will be sent of me carrying out any orders given.
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Hey im a 19y/o sissy and im looking for a long term relationship with a dom. Male ore Female i love doing sessions and tasks.
As a prove im okay with sending Pics. Important for me are Loyality and Fun for both partner. If you are intrested send me a reply for further information.
My kinks are: anal, oral, humiliation, eding, cumplay and sissification ofc.
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Male sub here, still looking for an online master or mistress who would take controll over my pathethic little cock and offcourse its orgasms~ :smile: Im very loyal and obedient, interested in cbt, sph, orgasm denial, edging, ruined orgasms, humiliation and possible semi private blackmail. Everything is up for negotiation offcourse so please send me a private message if you're interested. Thanks! :-D
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by argonaut »

I'm a sub looking for a Dom, and Domme. I"m interested in becoming more of an erotic person. I'm 3 (36 in four days), a virgin, bottom submissive, looking for consensual but far out sexual experimentation. Long term masters for online and preferably in real life in the Phoenix area would be best but I'll take online master and domme too. I'm into a ton of different fetishes and I'm willing to expand a little for my superiors. My name's Jake and I promise I WILL expand very very far from where I am now into stuff that even some hookers would be embarrassed to do.

Yes, I am still looking.

Aftercare is a must.
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19 year old sub looking for an online master or mistress to control my cock and balls. I am interested in JOIs, tying up my cock and balls and humiliation but open to try new things. I only have household appliances and have no toys but need my cock and balls controlling. I have Skype (tomtom52222) and am available to pm on here. Look forward to any replies
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Hi, I'm new into this community so I would like to get some experience with both being a master and being a slave. I am looking for pretty much anyone, who you would also like to learn how to give / accept orders. Female, Male, I will gladly experiment with anyone. ;-)

Don't be shy and PM me for closer information, I will respond as soon as I can. :-)

Edit: I can't delete this post, which I should, because I am no longer looking for any subs or doms. Sorry.
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I am a Dom looking for a submissive female preferably. This is my first time doing this so if you are also interested just pm me here. I will respond somewhat quickly.
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I'm an 18 yo bi switch transgirl from Russia (Just want to say this right away: I don't look like a girl yet). I've dommed online quite a lot so I have a lot of experience in it and I already have a distant-relationship girlfriend who is my sub(so keep this in mind please), but she and I are fine with an open relationship and several partners :-D

Since I have a submissive side in me I often have an urge to be ordered/controlled/instructed and I often need help with making choices, mostly small ones, both sexual and non-sexual. Sometimes I just feel really unsure when making a choice so I need somebody confident and decisive to make such choices for me. I hope I can make you happy by following your orders and being a good girl ^^

I think what I'm looking for is a DDLG relationship (definitely over the internet, not local), although I have no experience in it, so I'll need to take some time to get comfortable with it. I know ddlg implies a daddy as a dom and that's pretty much what I'm looking forward to but I’d also be happy to experience a relationship with a girl, especially since a girl would know better what to do for another girl. So in general I'll be happy to have a caregiver of any gender :-D additionally I’d be more comfortable with somebody younger than ~25 years old but it’s not very important.

Of course, I’d like to build a relationship of trust, care, affection and I understand that these things slowly build with time ^^

I am not comfortable with sending pics of me at first (although we can tell each other what we look like if you want) but I definitely plan on doing that after we spend enough time with each other, so I hope I'll be able to make you happy with my pics as well.

I'd like to find a sweet, caring person and most importantly, a communicative one. What I mean by that is that there are a lot of obstacles, difficulties, and misunderstandings in any relationship and I'd like to be able to sit down and discuss each one with you freely and without worry. I can do that with my girlfriend and that's very good for a relationship I believe. I'd like you and me to be completely open to each other without hiding anything (again this takes time). I might be a bit of a complicated person sometimes so I hope to find an understanding partner, and well, I'm also quite understanding :-)

I definitely want to be perceived and be treated like a girl. And I think I'd like you to motivate me in some cases.

I am into tease and denial, general dom/sub stuff so I'd like it if you enjoyed this stuff as well and implemented it in our relationship. I think I need a caregiver to control my masturbation but I'm not sure how much (total control would be difficult for me right now).

I have quite a lot of fetishes that we can discuss later in private, but here are some other main things you need to know:
  • I really dislike humiliation (some very soft, playful forms of it are nice though but I think they might not even be considered humiliation)
  • I like hentai over porn in most cases so I think I'd like a partner who likes hentai as well
  • I'm quite a perverted girl, even slutty (not sure if that goes well with being a little girl in ddlg xD)
Feel free to PM me if you're interested. This post just covers the basic info so we can just freely discuss any questions you have and if it turns out that we don't fit each other feel free to move on ^^
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by dailynap »

Hello there,
20 y.o. male here. I'm from Europe.
I am looking for a master or mistress for online stuff, but I don't want anything too hardcore, I want more of a fun experience for both, so a kind and loving person would be really welcome..
I am pretty easy to get along with and like to chat with people that are close to me, so I'd want a good relationship in this case, therefore long-term relationship would be nice..

I am kind of needy often and quite perverted. I don't really enjoy humiliation much and CBT. But it can be used as a punishment, I guess.
Hentai > Porn
Toys: Dildo, plug, chastity cage, a wand, and beads. Maybe more to come.
Kinks: Hypnosis, censorship, short term Chastity (Though I am trying long term), T&D, light CBT, joi, forced-bi, overall teasing.

In case you are interested, contact me in DM.
Hope to please you soon, have a nice day..
Yo, hi.
I am not taken, so feel free to take me, huehue. :whistle:
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Post by JohnnySexy6969 »

Hi, I'm somewhat new to this Sub/Domme thing...

I'm looking to try out being a Sub for a domme... I have at least 1 fap session every day and I think it'd be real hot if I had a female domme/mistress to tell me how to stroke, and what to stroke to (like pictures or videos)... I am not interested in voice call or video calls... It would be nice if my mistress could give me instructions and send fap material pictures or videos over Private Messages on this site. I would like to orgasm every session, but I shall let her decide if she wants it to be normal or ruined, and if I shall eat it all up...

I understand people are busy these days so if you can't do it everyday then that's cool. I myself get super busy with work some days and aren't able to get on.

If you are curious as to what I'm truly into, and what I would prefer, feel free to check out my webteases...

I have never really tried this before so please be respectful if I drop out... But I can imagine I will like it... :smile:

Private Message me if you may be interested and we can talk over it :) Thanks!
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Post by Jharrow575 »

Submissive male, new and ready to learn
Looking for an online orders and T&D relationship
Will do photos, no face
Please IM me or email your orders to [email protected]
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Post by edgemeplease »

Seeking a domme to controll me online. Wont write too much here. But if you want an online edge slut im your sub.

Thanks all

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