Releasing cum without having an orgasm

[forbiddendesire]

Hey everyone. I'm currently a few days into what I'm planning will be a long denial session. Since I'm not planning to have an orgasm any time soon, but I do want to release some cum every week or so for health, I was wondering if anyone had any good ideas on how to achieve this? The only method I have so far is what I call a "bleeding" orgasm; where I stroke till I'm right on the edge, then just stroke lightly with my finger, to a point where cum dribbles out but there's no convulsion or spasm, it's like precum being released except its cum instead. I know some people call this a ruined orgasm, though for me personally I don't call this an orgasm. The problem is this method is quite risky since it requires very fine control, and I can only achieve it if I'm extremely horny and have been edging for a while prior.

I've been curious about prostate milking for a while, but I'm not sure if it's a good method to just release cum or does it lead to actually having an orgasm, I was hoping one of you may have some more insight to it. If anyone has any ideas please share!

[kerkersklave]

That's the only thing that works for me as well. I found however that it is not necessary to be at the edge for it. I recommend edging and stroking a lot, doing one or two cockheros without cumming works well. At some point some come just starts to flow out. If you can not take edging at that point just stay close to the edge but not quite there, that's enough.

[tckt78]

I would focus on the prostate massage. You can use a variety of toys to get to the spot, but prostate specific toys will probably work best. You can do teases like the RoboMistress series or the Stroke Training series that really emphasizes a "controlled release" without a full orgasm.

Stroke training 1(passwords for 2 in this one):
https://milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=29130

We never did get a Stroke Training 4, which probably was going for some sort of prostate release goal in a HFO sort of manner.

Hope that helps!

[forbiddendesire]

I would focus on the prostate massage. You can use a variety of toys to get to the spot, but prostate specific toys will probably work best. You can do teases like the RoboMistress series or the Stroke Training series that really emphasizes a "controlled release" without a full orgasm.

Stroke training 1(passwords for 2 in this one):
https://milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=29130

We never did get a Stroke Training 4, which probably was going for some sort of prostate release goal in a HFO sort of manner.

Hope that helps!

Thanks, this is helpful! The tease looks good! I'll try for a prostate massage, though, do you know if it results in an orgasm, or does the cum just leak out? The latter would be preferred. Also, unfortunately I don't have a prostate toy, I'm hoping a dildo will do the trick

[tckt78]

I would focus on the prostate massage. You can use a variety of toys to get to the spot, but prostate specific toys will probably work best. You can do teases like the RoboMistress series or the Stroke Training series that really emphasizes a "controlled release" without a full orgasm.

Stroke training 1(passwords for 2 in this one):
https://milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=29130

We never did get a Stroke Training 4, which probably was going for some sort of prostate release goal in a HFO sort of manner.

Hope that helps!

Thanks, this is helpful! The tease looks good! I'll try for a prostate massage, though, do you know if it results in an orgasm, or does the cum just leak out? The latter would be preferred. Also, unfortunately I don't have a prostate toy, I'm hoping a dildo will do the trick

I'll be honest, it varies for me. A lot of it comes down to how aggressively I'm playing, but any prostate stim heightens the experience. I've done some teasing with just the massager (and yes a dildo should work) and had a couple of "ruined" experiences. I've also had some good releases, tho those are different. I think if you focus on the prostate, you'll find the need to stroke a bit different and you'll get the release you're looking for w/o too much of a full release. Perhaps you'll find you only need to do it once or twice a week instead of daily too.

[Revuin]

There's 1 method that allows a good amount of cum to leak out without any convulsions. There are a couple teases here that taught this method, which takes some practice.

Basically, you'll need to cum while you're still soft.

1. Stroke and edge many times until very horny.
2. Wait until completely limp
3. Stroke very fast until you just barely make it over the edge

Success: Cum dribbles out in a steady stream

Fail1: If you didn't go far enough and stopped at an edge, wait until completely limp and then try again with very fast strokes.

Fail 2:If it takes too long to get past the edge, you'll end up getting hard. Since this method won't work while hard, do some edges and then wait until completely limp again.

[forbiddendesire]

There's 1 method that allows a good amount of cum to leak out without any convulsions. There are a couple teases here that taught this method, which takes some practice.

Basically, you'll need to cum while you're still soft.

1. Stroke and edge many times until very horny.
2. Wait until completely limp
3. Stroke very fast until you just barely make it over the edge

Success: Cum dribbles out in a steady stream

Fail1: If you didn't go far enough and stopped at an edge, wait until completely limp and then try again with very fast strokes.

Fail 2:If it takes too long to get past the edge, you'll end up getting hard. Since this method won't work while hard, do some edges and then wait until completely limp again.

This seems like a very risky method that I can easily mess up lol. But I'll take it into consideration, thanks for the idea

[CremeFromwood]

oh I know how to do this

it's easier if you've built up precum from extended arousal edging etc
but it's not needed you could do it without

knowing your own body is important like the edge
so if you can hold stay near and edge you should be able to do it

so what you do is when you edge keep your dick relaxed then go past it without clenching your dick muscles
so if you just push yourself slightly over keep relaxed a small bit comes out and if you go farther over like a couple of extra strokes you get more until the point where you went so far you can't hold it
when you do it you might get one clench you can't control but keep trying to relax it

so it would go roughly like this get to the edge fine if you clench and such before you get to that point.
don't clench when you push yourself past the edge what would normally cause an orgasm but refrain from clenching like stopping yourself form scratching an itch you'd probably get the first involuntary clench but as long as you don't clench with it and try to relax then when that one relaxes your cum will start to flow with the amount depending on how far you pushed yourself over and how much you've built up
after you feel it start to flow you could clench to make it look like a cumshot if you wanted but you wouldn't feel any orgasm
you could do this until you are pretty much all empty

so I'd say to get started just barely push yourself past the edge and keep relaxed then work up from there
good luck

oh and if something didn't make sense tell me and I'll try to clear it up

[forbiddendesire]

oh I know how to do this

it's easier if you've built up precum from extended arousal edging etc
but it's not needed you could do it without

knowing your own body is important like the edge
so if you can hold stay near and edge you should be able to do it

so what you do is when you edge keep your dick relaxed then go past it without clenching your dick muscles
so if you just push yourself slightly over keep relaxed a small bit comes out and if you go farther over like a couple of extra strokes you get more until the point where you went so far you can't hold it
when you do it you might get one clench you can't control but keep trying to relax it

so it would go roughly like this get to the edge fine if you clench and such before you get to that point.
don't clench when you push yourself past the edge what would normally cause an orgasm but refrain from clenching like stopping yourself form scratching an itch you'd probably get the first involuntary clench but as long as you don't clench with it and try to relax then when that one relaxes your cum will start to flow with the amount depending on how far you pushed yourself over and how much you've built up
after you feel it start to flow you could clench to make it look like a cumshot if you wanted but you wouldn't feel any orgasm
you could do this until you are pretty much all empty

so I'd say to get started just barely push yourself past the edge and keep relaxed then work up from there
good luck

oh and if something didn't make sense tell me and I'll try to clear it up

Hmm this sounds familiar, I think I came across this in a tease I don't remember. I think I practiced it once or twice but I could never keep myself relaxed once the cum started to flow. I think this would require a lot of practice but it's probably one of the most doable techniques out of all these for me, thanks. I'll try this

[anonymister]

For me, if I start unaroused, and then stroke very quickly to the edge, then let go just befor edging, I sometimes feel like my body gets tricked into thinking an orgasm is coming, and pushes the cum out, without orgasm, or spasms.
It just dribbles & oozes out, leaving me still hard.

If I have already been aroused, it doesn't work. Only if I start quickly from "zero".

[martygraham]

Hey everyone. I'm currently a few days into what I'm planning will be a long denial session. Since I'm not planning to have an orgasm any time soon, but I do want to release some cum every week or so for health, I was wondering if anyone had any good ideas on how to achieve this? The only method I have so far is what I call a "bleeding" orgasm; where I stroke till I'm right on the edge, then just stroke lightly with my finger, to a point where cum dribbles out but there's no convulsion or spasm, it's like precum being released except its cum instead. I know some people call this a ruined orgasm, though for me personally I don't call this an orgasm. The problem is this method is quite risky since it requires very fine control, and I can only achieve it if I'm extremely horny and have been edging for a while prior.

I've been curious about prostate milking for a while, but I'm not sure if it's a good method to just release cum or does it lead to actually having an orgasm, I was hoping one of you may have some more insight to it. If anyone has any ideas please share!

Based on what I know and what I've read about prostate milking in this article https://sexualalpha.com/how-to-have-a-prostate-orgasm/ it can lead to an amazing orgasm! I think others have mentioned it here as well but definitely worth looking into. The article I shared is one of my favorites so I hope it can do wonders for you as well. Have fun! ;)