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I've been denied orgasm for about two weeks max, and during that time, I was teased quite a bit, but I didn't really feel any discomfort in my balls or anything like what I've heard males are supposed to feel when they are denied and brought to the edge over and over again. I was just wondering if anyone could maybe shed some light on why this is? Are some males just not affected like others? Or was I not denied long enough?
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First of all, everyone's body is very different, obviously.
Some might experience more of a 'pressing' sensation than others. i usually only get it when im denied for a long time (a week or more) AND have my balls hit/slapped/squeezed. And yes, it feels really good :p

But you're not 'supposed' to feel anything like that because your body will react differently than others'.
I assume you did feel more sensitive to sexual stimuli in general during the time you were teased?

Also, i never heard of anyone actually getting 'blue' balls from not cumming, it's just a metaphor a.f.a.i.k.
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Well after being denied for 4+ days I definitely feel a stinging sensation on my scrotum when teased/edged repeatedly for an hour or so. It definitely does happen, and it definitely teases me even more and makes me want to spew even more. But some guys are probably different from others. If your dying to find out what its like, I recommend sitting down in front of CLIPS FOR SALE, pick your favorite fetish, then the best clip shop you can find, and read all the movie descriptions. It should definitely give you the case of the blue balls after 30 minutes or so. Try it out. :-D
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:lol: Actually, I've done that quite a bit, but I always end up wanting to BUY the damn things, and I have no money for that. :weep: And when I do buy them, they never meet my expectations. :weep: :weep: :weep: It's so frustrating, and not in a good way.
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I get blue balls if I've been constantly stimulated for around 2-3+ hours after 2 days of T&D. It isn't pleasant, which is fine as long as your aroused and don't need to walk anywhere fast for a few hours afterward. The worse thing you can do (well for me anyhow) is cum, this makes your balls more sensitive and i believe adds pressure to those parts already aching. It feels very internal, when your not moving and disturbing your balls the ache feels much more in the lower torso in my experience.
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That's what i've read also but in my experience each case of blueballs has lasted 3-4 hours and like i said the time i came my balls were much more sensitive, perhaps for 30 mins afterwards. I'm sure many things affect it though, like length of denial, length of stimulation, intensity, hell maybe even how much you've drank that day. It'll be different for everybody.
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Blue balls for me are when my balls are a pinkish purple, and the veins are blue, dark blue. When my balls are barely gets touched, I involuntarily moan with pleasure and sexual frustration. They feel heavy and ache a little, not like a stabbing pain as much as pleasurable aching begging for sexual release (relief). Sometimes it hurts like I have to pee, but not exactly, because I know I am in need of sexual relief.

Blue balls normally happens for me when I have edges several times a day for a couple of days. i try to do at least a couple of hours a day. Of course, I don’t cum and the next day I am so horny that I get erections in my slacks all day long, they just pop up on their own, like I was a teenager, except a teenager is probably getting his rocks off with some broad while laughing at my blue balls.
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dude same here man but i did this and it hurt like hell so now ruin your orgasm 1 a day just let it squirt alittle bit and then that shit will hurt my balls hurt so bad my girlfriend keeps on doin it to me then locking me in a chasty belt shit is rough my balls hurt so bad that when i go for a run in the morning i have to stop because just the slightest touch gets me hard and hurts like hell good luck bro
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never had some.....
Es kann kein Zufall sein, dass sich Lust auf Frust reimt..
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I can't get blue balls aswell... i ran for 15 days of almost 5-6 hours heavy teasing and didin't get anything darker on my balls so i guess it is different for everyone.
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i've got blue balls as i am writing this and my cock is aching to shoot it's load. it's now been eight day since i last jacked-off, to orgasm anyway. i am so horny and my balls have the nice purple look with blue veins running through them. as well as veins in my hard cock. oh the ache in my balls is so good. i want to take them out of my black nylon bikinis and stroke my cock to orgasm, but instead i am teasing just below the head of my cock and gently down my shaft to my aching balls with my silk shirttail taking each ball one at a time and lightly teasing it, my balls are swollen and hang a little lower than normal, which adds to the aching feeling. the denial of stroking my cock is adding to my frustration. oh i love the feeling of blue balls.

it's saturday night and somewhere guys or getting their balls drained without using their own hand and i am sitting here with a major case of blue balls. do you think they are laughing at me??? knowing i have to jack-off in order to cum !
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tieguy, I find it interesting that you wonder what other guys are thinking of your stroking. I don't know about them, but I am laughing at you. Well, chuckling really, you don't quite merit a full throated laugh.

So, are they really purple and blue? *ponders the application of a ruler to add black to the palette*

Know what would be fun? Take a sharpie marker, and write 'Nika' on your hard nubbins. Then, tease and tease it over the course of days but no coming until the 'Nika' is worn off. Oh, and be sure to scrub it in the shower, lathering it up with body wash, and rubbing it, letting your soapy hands slide all over it. That might wear off the Nika even faster. But no messies!

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hhmmm, interesting, proposition, Nika or should i say Mistress Nika.....i think that orgasm denial is a lifestyle that i play....occasionally, but i play with people i trust....i know too many people that got hurt physically and emotionally becasue the didn't know the person they played with....
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*nods*

It is a risky proposition. Risque is okay, but risky is not for everyone.

Well, tugger, you take care. And enjoy your multi-colored scrotum.

Nika
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