nomeuno has been deleted

[dpac]

oh... and why'd you call me honey? i thought you were a guy?

[camipco]

Whatever you think best.

Yes, I'm a guy. I called you honey because I'm apparently not as crippled by homophobia as you :)

[dpac]

Well... i'm fine with gays , just "in my opinion" don't see TRADITIONAL NORMAL webteases as a gay thing... i can have an opinion right? So, i wouldn't call you honey regardless... that's odd. But you do your thing, You write teases well... i liked the 2 you did and if i recall you've agreed with my view on teases... i will go back and check the posts when i get time... that's really another thread and a completely different subject, but keep jabbin.

[littlepos]

whaaaa?

[mrfire]

nomeuno/dpac you appear to have been the latest victim of one of dark's unjustified sulky abuses of power. A number of the community, a majority of which, like you and i, have been with milovana since the start have now been picked upon by him.

I'm going to take the time to respond to this nonsense thread because I'm not willing to let "JD" claim that some non-existent majority is on his side. I've been here since before you, and I've watched a series of whiny brats come and go on this board. I've also watched other websites devolve, as boards on the internet inevitably do, into nothing more than a colony full of flames and wasted words.

Having been a very content member of this site for two and a half years, I have to say that one of the main reasons Milovana has avoided devolution and has instead become a warm and open community is because of Seraph0x and Dark's policies and moderations. They deserve some deference and our respect, not unsubstantiated ad hominem attacks.

I've also been watching nomeuno's posts become more and more hostile over the last few weeks, and I can assure you that neither the staff here nor most of the users are going to believe that Dark's (long-coming) decision to temporarily freeze his account was ill-advised, arbitrary, or disproportionate.


There is no secret majority of the long-term community here who are waiting to mutiny against our Dark overlords. Relax and maybe take a break from watching Battlestar Galactica.

[littlepos]

oh...hahaha

I dont know nothing about this here whole debate, even though back home the refer to me as the "Master 'Bater", but i figure this

Websites are not democracies, republics or any form of representional government or entitty, any more than any privatly held corperation.

So, like it or not, the people who run it do so at their complete discresion.

Having no knoledge of what this is all about, still it is easy to see that some feel that the admin or mod is being unfair, others feel he is not. But, so what? Dont like the way things are done, go out and start your own website.

My friend and i did not like the way the company we worked for was ran, so we went out and startesd our own,

Years later, a few of our employees went out and started their own

and so on.

of course, we still have the occasional complainer too, and we just ignore them, fire them, or, well, wait till they quit, which is usually what happens, since complainers are quitters, usually

Doers are fixers. So, i say to hell with Dark, and any other mod or admin you feel persucuted by, get on out there and start and run your own website. It MUST be easy, since they can do it, and i am sure your policy of letting anyone say anything will keep you overflowing with members



OH, AND REMEMBER TO FIND SOME WAY TO KEEP IT FREE TOO

[dpac]

hmm..... some good points all around. Time for thought.

[Varayez]

I just thought I´d throw something as I´ve seen me being quoted in this thread.

I completely agree with whatever Dark and Seraphox see fit when it comes to dealing with the users on this site.
They´ve done an amazing job in keeping this community healthy, alive and of course free.

If you don´t like their way, then go find one you can agree with.

just my 2 cents

[Arianna]

Ah yes, always nice to see another flame thread -.-

I can't say I always agree to what the admins here do, but so far we always found a compromise when we talked. In the end it's their decision what they do with this site, it's content and their members, that's what you agreed to by registering and accepting the terms of use.

Reading your posts here, especially some unqualified and insulting comparisons just because of someone's origin, I can imagine why your account got temporary banned. Stick to your own words and think a bit, maybe you get your account back then.

Arianna

[dpac]

jp You're full of crap! THAT IS NOT THE REASON my account was deleted... That's the whole reason for this thread... I WROTE clearly the reason this account was deleted at least be straight. And the Jewish Comment wasn't racist WTF is that all about... Who better would know how to spell gestapo than them or the Germans... Hell I'm Sicilian and I bet I know more about thing related to my heritage than others... You'd expect... Jesus!!....What freak Show! But Having said all that ..... i have given some thought to this and after almost 20 years of watching the evolution of the webtease i have to say...i was doin webteases before some of you had your first wet dream.... I watch the get emailed in php beta form way back when... then along cam people like Robin Wild, Mistress Angelina (Masturbatrix) The Guy that started Orgasm Denial and it's only cuz his nickname is so common that i can't remember.... indecisive, the list is really long.... and it evolved to this WONDERFUL site that i visit daily, because the members have a common thread with me and they are thoughtful and talented and GENEROUS as Hell... they give time and effort beyond what i can imagine. This Site has laid the Ground for them to offer their creativity and twists on this great thing call webteases. My only gripe is not with the way the site is run.... It's run beautifully, and if those i disagree with on SOME points are the ones running it, well i not only thank you but i applaud you for that. My Gripe is the way in which the name "nomeuno" was deleted... it's gonna be restored ... sobeit..... Sometimes the opinions and egos of the people running it... like dark or jp or textured... i'm not sure what it is that makes them feel mightier than thou, but if seraph0x gives them that ability... sobethat as well. Some of the comments on here were not on point and simply made to insult, me, dark , whoever.... that's where moderators should have the ability to step in and simply level it out.... not run it like a gestapo! That's MY opinion just like MY Normal..... i could care less if any one likes my opinion or MY normal, i don't expect or need anyone to. we don't all agree.... SO! What i did the morning I was deleted as the Thread WHICH is the Topic shows was right......somewhat... it needed to be addressed for the fairness of others..... See as good as this site is... I DID offer to pay many times and i always clicked the donate here button.... I pay for tease sites to this day....... The Authors and people running it are worth money.... but how many of you holier than though would still be here than? i would. For those that posted completely out of context .... first read or stfu! My reason for posting was intended to show respect to those that add so much to this site. I was just shocked when i went to sign in and my name was gone.... alot of original posts on there.... pm's, fav's, obviously a short friends list , but a list just the same. It should not have been deleted not for that and there was nothing i said or did to any other member that was out of line only dark and jp....... jp i didn't even know what that was i guess it's a guy.... textured i used to have issues with... but i seem to have found a way through those.... dark.... that'll takr=e some work....... but who knows? No matter i'm done. Viva La Milovana!

[dark]

Ok it seems we are done. You told us all the things you wanted to. I stated clearly my view and even some other people did.

There is nothing more to say. Topic moved to the right section.

[seraph0x]

Seems I arrived a bit late for this party, but since my name was mentioned in this thread I wanna clear up a thing or two. Let me make perfectly clear that dark is responsible for the community and forums and what he says, goes. He's doing a fantastic job, much better than I ever could, which is why I'm happy and deeply thankful to have him by my side so I can focus on the technology and the long-term vision of the site.

The same goes for all the other Team members - we don't all put in the same amount of time, but every minute contributed is a minute appreciated by thousands.

As for nomeuno: I personally take your posts with a grain of salt and I think so should everybody else. Sometimes you step on people's toes and the natural result is that eventually you get banned. Either change your approach or learn to live with whatever the moderators decide to do.

[Jabber]

In any online forum there are a lot of good persons contributing, just as here. But sometimes bad people come to the forums. And then we need someone to stop them. Sometimes it can be a hard decision to decide if somebody is giving relevant but annoying or attacking advice. In this case it was near the border line, but it continued. for too long.

Both dark and seraph0x are in my opinion good moderators. Dark is IMHO keeping order here, while seraph0x stays silent for as long as possible.

Moderators are - almost by definition - dictators, but they know they have to be benevolent if they want their forum to prosper. And in this case I think the moderators have been very patient.

Being patient and tolerant is good,. but there is a limit. I tend to ask for more tolerance in online forums, but here I think a natural limit has been reached.

If people cannot behave they have to be warned. If a warning or two doesn't help they have to go.