Best prostate massager with a handle?

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Best prostate massager with a handle?

Post by GunrunnerNC » Tue Sep 26, 2017 12:27 am

The Mrs. is into prostate massage, but she's petite and her fingers don't have quite enough reach for the real fireworks. I've read good things about the Aneros line, but they don't have a handle that would be suitable for her to hold onto to manipulate the toy during sessions. She's not into pegging and doesn't want to use an actual dildo. Does anyone have a favorite/recommended prostate massager that one partner can use on the other easily?

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Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Post by zenlover » Tue Sep 26, 2017 6:37 am

We've tried a bunch. The Lelo "Loki Wave" leaves the rest in the dust. https://www.lelo.com/loki-wave
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Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Post by janmb » Tue Sep 26, 2017 5:00 pm

That one looks amazing indeed
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Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Post by GunrunnerNC » Tue Sep 26, 2017 7:19 pm

Is the loki as big as it looks? We don't do a huge amount of prostate play so I'm a little worried about larger toys.

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Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Post by dragoul » Tue Sep 26, 2017 8:00 pm

Is it possible to turn off the vibration completely and just have the 'come-hither’ motion?

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Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Post by janmb » Wed Sep 27, 2017 1:57 pm

GunrunnerNC wrote:
Tue Sep 26, 2017 7:19 pm
Is the loki as big as it looks? We don't do a huge amount of prostate play so I'm a little worried about larger toys.
I wouldn't worry about it too much. Using enough lube and time, insertion is not really a problem for anyone, trust me. I don't do a lot of anal play either and am fairly tight, but time and lube solves pretty much anything.

And once inserted, these toys are fairly small at the sphincter. The business end needs a certain girth to work well in my experience.
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Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Post by janmb » Mon Oct 02, 2017 9:32 pm

dragoul wrote:
Tue Sep 26, 2017 8:00 pm
Is it possible to turn off the vibration completely and just have the 'come-hither’ motion?
Yes.

Got to test mine today - sure is an awesome toy.

It is indeed a bit on the bigger side compared to most p-toys, but nothing too huge really. Time and lube takes care of that.
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Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Post by brownsugar » Wed Jun 06, 2018 6:51 am

Probably not the best, but when I saw the Loki thing, that price really threw me for a loop :P

If you want something cheaper, Blissful Cherry has some anal vibrators that work fairly well as prostate massagers. The shaft is ribbed and relatively easy to angle it into your prostate, at least from my own personal experience.

If I had the money, I would buy the Loki hands down, but given that I don't, this Blissful Cherry sex toy was a good alternative.

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Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Post by imtoosexy » Thu Jun 07, 2018 5:43 pm

I have experience with the Aneros line,
I like the helyx syn and the progasm

Helyx syn:
Nice and soft, hits the spot well and is comfortable to wear, you can only use water based lube and you cant wear it for very long periods because of the silicone. im pretty sure its TF free, but you can't be too careful. When picking it up after a while and rubbing it silicone bits come off, or that is what it seems. It's high quality scilicone and i havnt noticed it shrinking in size or anything. The perinium? massager below doesn't do much and gets floppy after a while as it has no solid core, this is not a problem, overall this is a very good buttplug, especially to start out with.

The progasm:
Nice and big making it easy to hit the spot and force you to relax your asshole to relieve tension, you will definitely feel this one in place. as it is a plastic toy you can use any lube you want and wear it for any period you want, this will make your ass muscle feel stretched and it can get a bit sensitive inside at the point just above the base. It is quite hard and solid so anything inside will give way to it. People have reported to find the little arms to be uncomfortable and I tend to agree, but the shape also pulls it out a bit after sitting down, which is nice in combination with tensing. However after a while I did use a lighter on the corner of the backward arm in order to straighten it. Now it pushes the massager toward my prostate even more and now I can play with it by moving the backward arm like a joystick. If you're starting out and want a handle this could be fun.

I would also like these:
Nexus Revo Intense
Fun factory Stronic
Loki wave
Njoy pure wand

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