Preventing Wet Dreams?

[Tobias23]

Hello,

today I had a dream, a girl I was into once was giving me a lapdance. When she started to rub against me i felt my orgasm rising, but when i was on the edge, she suddenly turned around said with a frightening voice "no no no, no cummies" ... and i woke up.

And yes, my cock was rock hard, and i was on the edge. Took me a while to cool down.

But I got kind of afraid, what if that dream would have turned out different, and ended up in being a wet dream. I don't want to have an orgasm, until she wants me too. I can't remember my last wet dream, because it has been so long, but that dream tonight was scary. Now I'm kind of afraid to fall asleep

So any ideas how to prevent an 'accident' while I'm asleep and dreaming?


cya,
tobias

[all2true]

Actually with a denial life style
it's a good thing to have the wet part
You body needs the release.

I don't know of anyway to stop the wet part
but there are several things you can do to change your dreams.
Before you go to sleep think about things you do want to dream about. (possitive is good)
You may not remember your dreams but it really helps when you do,
also a useful thing to know if you're having nightmares.
Meditation of somekind is also useful tool
and there is lots out there on the net on dream interpretion.
(no I am NOT an expert, I just know what I use for dreaming)

[Devotee]

why would you want to prevent a wet dream?

[Tobias23]

Because I want to have control over my Orgasms, so I can surrender that control over to my special Miss. And having a wet dream is an uncontrolled orgasms ... it feels like an easy escape to release pressure. I don't want that.

There should be only one person who decides when I'm having an orgasms, and not some stupid dream too.

[seraph0x]

Well, a lot of the CBx000 style chastity devices will make erection painful enough for you to wake up. That can be effective in preventing wet dreams, however, as all2true correctly points out: Going without any release for prolonged periods of time can be bad health-wise. Some people swear by prostate milking and/or ruined orgasms to stay healthy and frustrated.

[Tobias23]

Okay waking up because of pain several (?) times in the night, is not an option. I need my sleep to work properly. I think everybody an agree on that.

But how long is too long, until it becomes a health issue? To be honest I don't like the idea of ruined orgasms or milking, I've tried both and I try to avoid it.

Back to the question, how long is to long?

[JaceDare]

Tobias,

It sounds like you're asking for an answer that just doesn't exist. You don't want to be woken up several times a night, but you can't control your sub-conscious without waking up. So you've got no solution other than to embrace the complexity of the situation. I don't think any mistress who genuinely cares for you will be upset with a wet dream. More likely, she'll find it funny that you can't have an orgasm while you're awake, and you can't stop yourself when you're asleep.

As for how long is too long, I've heard different numbers, but since everyone is different, it wouldn't be a bad thing to let your body decide. If your dreams keep ending in raging erections, you can last a little longer. When you've had that wet dream, you've gone long enough.

My two cents,
-Jace

[Makarov]

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[cikinit23]

agreed, while no specific numerical answer exists in terms of how many days or weeks or months it is safe to go without a release there is an answer out there and it is the answer your body provides. When you have a wet dream it is a signal from your body that it is time to release what is built up inside. A wet dream is a signal from the body that it needs to expel this substance to keep itself healthy. I think we can all agree that the human body is an incredibly complex thing that we are only begining to understand. When it decides it's time to release it must be time to release. At least that's my two cents.