I'm sure it's been asked before, but......

[anonymousCD]

I was just wondering about other peoples experiences/views on the longest time between orgasms?
One of the posts refers to a one month denial from Akasha, and it sounds like the sufferers are locked up. Apart from this stopping you from touching yourself, what other reasons are there for a belt? Is it because you can't not touch yourself? Is it the discomfort/pain if your penis starts to stiffen? Is it that the Mistress/Domme likes to see the cage on you?

I've not had a climax at all this year yet, although I have touched myself to the edge countless times, whilst reading webteases, reading erotic stories and just whlst just lounging about wanking and my balls hurt almost all the time at the monent. And I have to confess to feeling quite emotional a lot of the time, like I could cry over the slightest thing, although I don't feel like crying at not climaxing when I edge?

So just wondered if anyone else wanted to share their views?

[dubble]

AnonCD,
As for me, 38 days was the longest time in between orgasms. Part of that was a test to see if I was addicted to stroking since I was wanking every day at least once. Part of it is wanting the build up of the anticipation of that orgasm. It's stimulating on many levels, physical, emotional, mental... just a self exploratory thing to help you discover what you really like and want, even building endurance.
As for chastity, that's another story. To me it's about giving my most personal thing to someone ....my ability to masturbate or have sex is gone, placed in another's hands for her to decide. You empower another by giving it, a power they want as bad as you want to give it. It is the ultimate complement, in my opinion, to give that to another and for her to take it. She'll usually derive great pleasure in that gift and all that follows...your begging & pleading, your pain and discomfort, your willingness to sacrifice for her. She thrives on the power you've gladly, willingly handed over.
The feelings of chastity are both erotic and sometimes painful. It took getting used to. No, you cannot touch yourself, but it's so close. You want to. You try. That's part of it...a tease! Sometimes you want to stimulate yourself, but you cannot. The LACK of feelings and sensations play upon one's mind, deepening the submissiveness, breaking one down, making him willing to do things he might not ordinarily do (further humiliation, for those who enjoy that). To me, the pain of an attempted hardon digging into spikes is erotic and makes me throb even more, deepening my pain, which makes me throb harder...a vicious circle, until I can't possibly take it anymore, but it's a VERY different kind of excitement. Night time (attempted) painful erections wake you up and you are actually glad that She is in control of your cock.... Stimulating and satisfying in so many ways without physical stimulation. This is very erotic on so many levels, it often engulfs all rational thinking. Eventually I get to a state of near euphoria and constant arousal where I compromise my standards, agree to do things I would never think of doing when "normal" (not locked up), and help further feed the desires of the Domme. We feed off each other to heighten our levels of arousal, although it's mainly about giving Her the power to get whatever pleasure SHE chooses. Some (most I'd say?) Dommes do like to see the cage... it's both nice to look at and very symbolic to Her as a sign of surrender.
The inability to even get hard plays upon me like mad! At least you can stroke. Blue balls is another part...dealing with the constant aching and pounding. The night time erections also cause the device to try to be forced off the balls, causing intense burning sensations all around the ballsac.
Your crying... it is emotional then and not physical? Are you on any medications or gender enhancing drugs?

[all2true]

I have done 2 months without any stimulations
but Never done more than 2 weeks with a Denial (stroking but no orgasm)
I might have gone longer
but I was having difficulty working
First my balls were so sensitive I had trouble walking
and I was grumpy, Like off of Cirgarettes grumpy
Which is very, very bad for the work I do.
Finally after 2 long weeks, I had my orgasm, while it was good the costs out weighed the benefits.
I find that 4 days is a perfect amount though I often go longer.

[anonymousCD]

thanks all2true & dubble for your replies.

No, dubble, I'm not on drugs of any kind.