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[TheGoodBoy]

I'm a sad boy that needs control. I have been trying to find it but no luck. Please let me know if any ladies would like to help me out.

[havemercy]

Here we go again.

[dubble]

AMEN to that, havemercy.
Goodboy, have you heard of an "internet search"? It will give you numerous options, but you can't be cheap....usually paysites. I've been a fan of Akasha at www.akashaweb.com (inexpensive compared to the rest) and she's a great tease/control/chastity artist, or even try a FREE bdsm personals ad on collarme.com You might get lucky.

[TheGraduate]

I need control. let me know if any ladies would like to help me out.

Wow... what a submissive. Try looking for a pay-domme, you clearly don't have the right idea.

-real- kink relatioships, not the ones you see in porn, are a two way street, VERY much so. they're not about a woman fulfilling your fantasies (nor are they, as some would say here, entirely about what the woman wants, yeah i went there, no, they aren't)

look for a relationship with someone you can love. fulfilling kink comes next, not before.

[Nika Ferlinghetti]

Honeybee:

I can't make it any plainer.....

Be interesting!

Being in charge, being commanding, it's damn exhausting sometimes. If you are just another energy sink, a hole into which a domme is expected to pour herself, you'll not find anyone interested in you.

And before you try it, do not contact me directly.

Nika