Days without orgasm: What's your record?

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Re: Days without orgasm: What's your record?

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20 days but that was long time ago, I did not have a girlfriend back then. Also then it was only a challenge without teasing. (I didn't stroke or edge at all for 20 days, it is way easier)

My reticent record is only 7 days. I try to go longer but I can't maybe because every day my girlfriend was giving me challenges to complete. First 3 days there were cock hero videos, then it was teases from here on the 8-th day my girlfriend actually ruined my orgasm several times with a blowjob. I try to go more than 2 or 3 days but I can't most of the time. She likes to look at me sometimes when I stroke to cock hero videos and then we have sex.

I don't know how to stop myself from cumming after a few days. My girlfriend likes these challenges and she likes to tease me and then ruin my orgasm or make me cum in her. Sometime we play for more than an hour a teasing games from here and then she just hops on my cock and challenges me to go as long as I can. My endurance now is longer than before but still I can't deny myself for more than a few days and this 7 days record seems unreachable for now. Also after a few days my balls feels like they would explode from the pressure on them. I think it's quite different to have no fap/sex challenge without orgasm and every day tease challenge without orgasm... even harder (impossible) with a teasing kinky girlfriend.
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Re: Days without orgasm: What's your record?

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Thanks for all the replies. Nice to hear what others have experienced. I've always found it tough until about 3 weeks. My cock is so sensitive and the urge to cum is so string it's difficult to stay in control. But usually around 3 weeks I hit some kind of plateau where my body and brain finally seem to get in synch and go "oh, okay, no cumming". After that it gets much easier to stroke without edging, and to edge without cumming. I've done 30 days 5 or 6 times, and my previous record was 45. I'm on day 61 today, but I think tomorrow is going to be release day.

I'm totally jealous of those who have a kinky partner. I can't seem to find any kind of partner, let alone a kinky one. Small towns are tough that way.

Cheers!
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Re: Days without orgasm: What's your record?

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7 weeks
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Re: Days without orgasm: What's your record?

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Hi
The longest I went without a full orgasm or ruined orgasm was 7 weeks. This was under the direction of a Mistress with daily tease and edging task.
I do find it much harder to go long term on my own without the direction of a Domme to offer control and give your dedication to.

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